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Silly questions about starting secondary school

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Uberly · 02/08/2012 00:41

Hello!

I wanted to start this thread so I could ask all these silly questions that I have about my DS starting secondary school this Sept.

I hope that others who have or had children at secondary school might suggest things us new to all of this may have missed.

Also, please feel free to use this thread to ask any of your own questions (that's if this thread takes off). I think I'm right in saying that I'm not the only one walking around a bit confused in this new experience!

So, my questions are:

  • what pens should I be buying for DS to write with? School hasn't said. He's used to those handwriting ones, but I had to use cartridge pens. Will he need that too?
  • will he need a gum shield? Again, school hasn't said and he's not one for PE anyway! I'm guessing that the answer to shin pads is yes, he'll need those.
  • should he be wearing a watch for school?

I'll add more if and when they come to me!

Thanks Smile

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CeCeMazycktowinparaolympicgold · 02/08/2012 08:49

My DD has shin pads on her uniform list.

We too are wondering about pen colour, as her Junior school would only let them use blue...

As for bags - she has a mile and half walk so she needs something practical (my wish) and fashionable (her wish). Is such a bag even made???

Needmoresleep · 02/08/2012 08:36

Fitted gum shields got lost, even a very expensive coloured one with a unique pattern, so we soon resorted to boil in the bag, which do not seem to have caused any problems. Only needed, in our case, for hockey. Can be ordered quickly so you can wait till asked.

With pens keep using what he is used to until told otherwise, and buy the minimum. Pencil cases get left in various classrooms, and if they reappear - which is not often - they come back stripped of key items.

Losing things is much worse in Yr 7 than other years, so hold onto the nice pencil case for now.

OhYouGreatGreatBritain · 02/08/2012 08:24

May well need acres of sticky back plastic!

SparklingGoldMedals · 02/08/2012 07:35

Don't rely on getting a list. I didn't get one at DS's previous school.

Iwantacampervan · 02/08/2012 07:32

My DD started last September and has used a variety of biros - don't go for expensive pens as they will be borrowed/lost.
She needed a more than a basic calulator but the school suggested the type and sold them at cost to us. The geometry set was required and has been used.
For boys the type of bag may not be important but for girls they have definite ideas of what they should have (and it's often not the most practical - see other threads re bags).
She doesn't wear a watch but uses her phone clock and the school day is run by bells.
A folder for odd sheets of homework as not everything will be in books. It would also be useful for letters home as not everything is sent out via e-mail.
One thing I noticed about the move to secondary is the lack of chasing from the admin staff - at primary when children didn't return permission slips then the office would chase parents but now if the form isn't returned then they won't go and will have to stay at school.
At home you'll need lots of plain A4 paper for homework and stock up on printer ink as she seems to have had to print off pictures etc as well as some work (the library at school only does black and white) !
He may need a water bottle for drinks during the day.

if I think of anything else I'll add to the list.

MyCatHasStaff · 02/08/2012 01:02

When DS started in Y7 I bought lots of very naice pens. Which were promptly 'borrowed' by all and sundry. Very soon, I just bought 17p ones, in bulk, from Wilkinsons...

bruffin · 02/08/2012 01:01

Dcs use Mobiles for time, but my Ds has no sense of time and finds he needs a watch for tests or exams.
Pens - my dcs like the cheap pack of10 you get in Tesco.
Ds has never needed a gum shield
Dd decided to join the rugby team in year 9 so we got her one then.

LadySybildeChocolate · 02/08/2012 00:51

Ds has never used his dictionary. What about a folder? Useful for the bits of paper which the teachers hand out (they call it homework I think). I'd send him with a berol and a cartridge pen, as well as a cheap mobile phone so he can call you if he's going to be late out of school. A pay as you go one will be OK.

CointreauVersial · 02/08/2012 00:51

Pens - I'm sure the handwriting ones will be fine. DS's school certainly don't require cartridge pens.

Gum shield - It really depends if he is going to be playing rugby! You can pick up fairly cheap gum shields which will do the job if he's just learning as part of his PE lesson. DS only wore his a couple of times.

Shin pads are pretty essential for any football (not an issue here, as DS is a football nut), but again, pick up a cheap pair in Sports Direct unless he is taking the sport further.

Watch - DS never wears one (just checks his phone), but if your DS is getting public transport it might be handy. Clocks and bells keep them in the right place at school.

Uberly · 02/08/2012 00:49

Thank you! The school did send a uniform and equipment list, but it didn't seem complete to me. Equipment list says this (I'm typing it word for word)
Bag
Pens, pencils, ruler, rubber
Coloured pencils (not felt tips)
Basic calculator

...see what I mean!

I've also bought him a small dictionary and geometry set.

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LadySybildeChocolate · 02/08/2012 00:44

Ds's school don't like them to use a biro, any other pen is fine. They also don't like felt tip pens.

He'll need a gum shield, and he'll need a watch. They should send you a list of what he needs. Smile