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Private school bursaries - am I missing something?

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SecretPlansAndCleverTricks · 25/07/2012 18:44

A couple of the families from DDs reception class have older children at a private school 30 mins away on hefty bursaries - they pay very little due to a low income. In conversation with other mums, many of them are confidently planning to send their children privately 'depending on how big a bursary we get'.

These are families who on low incomes, supported mainly by tax credits (usually because one parent chooses to SAH). But they all see private education as very much within their reach, whereas DH and I could only dream of sending the DCs privately - we both work, and are (just) over the TC threshold.

Am I missing something? Is private school something you apply for with the TCs? I don't want to sound like a benefits basher - but it just seems wrong that private ed is easy for the very rich, and the very poor, but not in between?

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Mintyy · 25/07/2012 19:31

I know what you mean about the sahp thing, SecretPlans.

Someone I know sends her child to a top public school on a very generous bursary because they are under the income threshold. But if she worked they would be over that threshold and wouldn't qualify and wouldn't be able to afford it.

Its not what I thought bursaries were all about.

BeingFluffy · 25/07/2012 19:27

So what if they are on tax credits? I was on a low income when my daughter got a full scholarship to a private school. She got it because the proprietor liked me and she liked DD and she needed more girls in the school. Later on when I went back to regular work we paid for DD2 to go there.

We applied in response to an advert because my DD was badly bullied in her state school reception class and the school refused to tackle it. Believe me, private is not always better as I found out later to my cost...

Anypointinseeingdoc · 25/07/2012 18:58

I have never discussed my income with anyone at the school gates, though naturally people will just assume and jump to conclusions. How do you know they are in receipt of tax credits?

Llareggub · 25/07/2012 18:54

I am surprised that you are so confident about these families being in receipt of tax credits. I have no idea who claims it at school. It isn't exactly a riveting topic of conversation, is it?

EdithWeston · 25/07/2012 18:48

It all depends on the school, and the health of its bursary fund.

Many expect families to take all reasonable steps to maximise income (realising assets, all adults working) but some do not.

I tis definitely the squeezed middle who have been priced out over the last 20 years or so.

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