Personally, I think it would just be just too much to allow parents to see exam scripts - there is so much that is subjective that every single parent whose DS didn't pass the English paper could think there is right to appeal - it's the how long is a piece of string argument...The school has to be able to draw a line in the sand somehow.....
Also, failing by a couple of marks, could be purely down to carelessness or not finishing - is there anything to be gained from tormenting yourself thinking "what might have been?" You are interested to know but you will find out in 5 weeks....If your DS has failed by only a few marks you should know that it's less about what they don't know and more about the execution of the tests - that can be remedied without knowing which questions he got wrong etc.....
In an ideal world it would be totally transparent but I kind of get AdmissionLady's argument although given that many more boys pass than there are places (and therefore one couldn't think one's DS is guaranteed a place), can't see why it would harm to let us know how many have taken the exam and passed. Wilson's do but WCGS don't either....But how come Nonsuch gives all the information - that's what is puzzling.
It is the wide variation in the execution or interpretation of the rules that questioned but short of taking the debate to a Court of Law not sure what progress will be made!
We have found AdmissionsLady to be very thorough generally and it is not really our place to question her unless of course we are Admissions Person and have inside knowledge that prospective parents aren't allowed to be privvy to...
In a way we are all in the same boat as we all have a massive ? over our DCs future schooling but we all have to wait till 1st March (or later if they end up on waiting lists etc...) - time is passing quite quickly and we will be there before we know it.....As soon as 1/2 Term is upon us waiting time is virtually up....