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How to help dyslexic DSD through French GCSE?

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PontyMython · 30/11/2011 18:35

Options time is fast approaching, DSD is 13 and in yr9. I am under the impression languages went through a non-compulsory phase but are now mandatory at GCSE again? Either way she has been told she must do it.

She can barely write in English let alone read or write French :(

She's accepted that she will not be acing this subject and she knows that we will be over the moon whatever she gets. We have agreed that she needs to only 'get through' and to mainly focus on other subjects - but obviously we know a U would devastate her. She puts so much effort into everything, she is never lazy. She keeps trying despite being constantly told she isn't good enough (including on occasion by her mother, but that's another thread Angry). She proudly showed me her test paper today... "I was the worst in the class, but it was still the best I've ever done" I was happy for her obviously but very sad it has to be like this.

So. I am looking for any tips or resources to help her through this. School are not being at all forthcoming (the extent of help for dyslexia was... ... handwriting practise Hmm). And of course there is the extra barrier that she doesn't live with us, so despite her really wanting the help from us (well, me, as DH and his ex can't do French) there is not that much time for it, especially as she needs to do her other subjects here too (no help at her house, her mum takes no interest) and spend time with her little siblings.

I don't know, I'm thinking along the lines of focusing on the main verbs/adjectives/key phrases that she will need. We've done successful versions of card games for maths so I'm wondering about making up some games to learn key words? Other than that, I'm stumped.

Any ideas will be gratefully considered. Thanks

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Tinuviel · 02/12/2011 19:36

We actively encourage all our pupils to go for courses/qualifications that suit them - so as well as GCSEs, there are a variety of BTEC and similar courses in Business Studies/Retail etc to cater for the different needs of our pupils. If a set 5 or 6 pupil came and asked if they should do a language, I would give them an idea of what would be expected and they would then rapidly change their minds. We do sometimes have set 4 pupils opting but it's just the odd one.

As Kez says, getting a low grade (E-G) in a language is of no value to them or to the school (and sadly we do have to think about how the results reflect on the school). We have less than 80 pupils studying a language out of a cohort of 270.

Kez100 · 01/12/2011 12:37

I dont think so - our school doesn't make students do a language at KS4. The Ebacc has made it advisable (and probably essential for the clever ones with no SEN). I can't see, though, why someone predicted a E or G and with SEN causing the prediction would be encouraged to do it. The Ebacc % only credits those getting C or better.

PontyMython · 01/12/2011 10:22

I thought it was a 'legal' requirement again Tinuviel, in the same way it was before, because there had been such a massive drop in uptake and the govt panicked? I must have misunderstood that.

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JugglingWithGoldandMyrhh · 01/12/2011 10:05

I wonder how aware schools and language teachers are generally of the difficulties students with dyslexia may well face in studying languages ?

DDs school have recognised her dyslexia and I've discussed it with the special needs department there, but I do wonder how well her difficulties are shared with teachers throughout the school, especially as they are fortunately fairly mild. She is taking part in some research into dyslexia by Cambridge University though, so her dyslexic tendencies definitely exist !

Wondering if my dd would find continuing with Latin any easier than French - perhaps spelling is more phonetic with Latin and I know she'd enjoy the history aspect ? General school rule though is that they all have to do a modern foreign language at GCSE.

Tinuviel · 01/12/2011 09:49

Languages are not compulsory at KS4. But some schools insist that they have to do one. As a languages teacher, I'm glad that our school don't - there is nothing more soul-destroying than being faced with a class who don't want to learn your subject and who are being forced to do it. Have you thought at looking at other schools which are not so worried about the Ebacc and who don't insist on a language at KS4?

PontyMython · 01/12/2011 06:36

She isn't entirely sure how many choices she will actually get - sounds like hardly any. Obviously there will be the core subjects (triple science I think as she is in a high set), though she's been told she can drop English literature and do media studies instead. She wants to do photography too.

She's also heard they have to do a humanities subject (goodness knows why, the school's teaching of it is dreadful, and they only offer history or geography anyway, not RE!) - presumably geography would be better as IIRC the exam has some short questions and it's not all essays? Or should we ask for exemption if DSD wants?

Oh, and they have to do PE apparently, as it's a sports college. Not DD's strong point either sadly. Loving the BSL idea though.

So barely any choice... They don't get their options form for a few months but maybe we could obtain a list of available subjects somehow. I am really dreading decision time as I know her mum will weigh in and make her do what she wants... DH won't get a look in, let alone DSD herself.

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PontyMython · 01/12/2011 06:23

they are breaking a number of laws on inclusion / discrimination.
Really? Shock

Also what do you mean by the school getting their ebac, I thought the baccalaureate was something individual pupils did at some schools?

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sashh · 01/12/2011 05:37

Blame the English Bac - schools are now measured by students passing a group of GCSEs including a language.

This is bad news for dyslexics, as most will be forced to do French as it is the subject there are more teachers and Spanish and German are often only available to those that are good at French.

The good news for dyslexics is that from 2012 there willbe a GCSE in British Sign Language, a language many dyslexics find completely logical, and one you can actually use.

I wouold write t othe school and say she has such a small chance of passing French she will not be doing any homework for it as she needs to concentrate on other subjects, particularly as they are breaking a number of laws on inclusion / discrimination.

Tell DD the same - she may have to attend the class, but not do any homework, a U does not appear on a certificate but a G does. Or ask the school that she does not aattend.

If there is a BSL class near you, an evening class or saturday morning enrol her in that, tell the school that she will be taking BSL GCSE in 2012 which means the school get their ebac, your daughter does not so French and hopefully is allowed study sessions instead.

blueemerald · 30/11/2011 20:35

Also work with her motivation. If she likes singing then do some whenever you can, reading and writing lyrics is just as valid as writing stories.

blueemerald · 30/11/2011 20:34

There's no reason she couldn't use a laptop in any or all of her public exams (I did because my writing is like chicken scratchings, especially when I have to write fast)

We used Lexia at the last secondary school I worked in (I work in a special needs school now). I would say it's more based on reading than spelling though (of course the two things are linked!) It's a series of games based around the different parts of reading. Lots of videos here I would suggest Word Shark for spelling

JugglingWithGoldandMyrhh · 30/11/2011 20:21

I think the idea of getting her speaking French with your parents French lodger is a great idea - especially as they get on well already Smile

PontyMython · 30/11/2011 20:19

Aww thanks. Yes, she's pretty tired, I just thought I'm writing this post so quickly and even something like this would take incredible effort. And most of us take this ability for granted, don't we. She's also been getting migraines since starting secondary, though fingers crossed they seem to be reducing in frequency.

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MindtheGappp · 30/11/2011 20:15

School days must be exhausting for her, PM.

One of my students is particularly severely dyslexic and when I have her class at the end of the day, she looks at me with her beautiful big eyes with tears of tiredness, not saying anything but begging me not to have her do any writing or difficult reading.

I have tried doing the lesson in the ICT suite so that she doesn't have to worry as much about spelling, but she is just knackered by then and even that is too much for her.

Hugs to your DSD, and to you for being such a support.

PontyMython · 30/11/2011 20:12

Thank you so much for all this input, I really appreciate it.

Can you tell me more about Lexia please, I think I've heard of it but that's where my knowledge ends. Am very interested especially as for Xmas we got her a basic laptop (got to love eBay eh?)

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PontyMython · 30/11/2011 20:09

Sorry posted to soon

The reading is all from memory/guessing/context as far as I can tell, I don't think she would be able to decode. Her head must be totally full, it must take heaps of effort to understand everything let alone memorise it for a test.

Her writing OTOH is really depressingly bad. She likes writing stories but they are unreadable. Her grades are low even when content is good, because of her spelling. Again it is memory, perhaps it is improving a little as she is trying to read more (and having to because of school) - but again I doubt she could spell a new word even if it were phonetically simple.

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JugglingWithGoldandMyrhh · 30/11/2011 20:05

This is an interesting thread for me as my DD has mild dyslexia and is in Y8.
She has just started Latin and is enjoying the history aspect of it - I think the humanities are possibly her strongest subjects - she's sooo interested in everything - especially history ! But anyway I don't see her continuing with the Latin to GCSE as she has to do a modern foreign language, which for her will be French. ( So, Latin would unfortunately have to be on top of that) What I'm hoping is we could perhaps spend some time getting her French speaking and listening really good by spending time with her French cousins. I'm thinking if her speaking and listening is really good perhaps the written side of it all will come more easily too. But anyway, I think it helps to recognise that foreign languages will probably not be her greatest strength - and to be prepared to flag up to teachers that she does have dyslexic tendencies which will affect her abilities in this subject.

So, for a suggestion, how about conversation classes, a French exchange, or a holiday in France to practice those new and hard earned skills ?

MindtheGappp · 30/11/2011 20:03

My understanding is that it has to be done daily.

However, there are other options. Does your DSD have a good friend at school who would be willing to spend 10 minutes on the days when you can't? According to their website, the coaching can be done by a peer. Perhaps her form tutor would be willing too - sometimes non-assembly days can be a real drag for a form tutor and they would welcome being able to spend some one on one time.

I have never heard a bad thing about this course (except for the cost of the book), and I have seen pupils make massive progress in a fairly short amount of time. And it is progress that sticks.

I might be totally wrong about multiple coaches as I am not directly involved. I know that the students in school who are on this programme spend 10 minutes at home and 10 minutes at school per day (so have at least two coaches).

TheFidgetySheep · 30/11/2011 20:02

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PontyMython · 30/11/2011 19:59

It is sad, especially as the school went on about how good they were at helping students with LDs Hmm

Her reading isn't quite so bad, She voluntarily read some stories to her little brother this morning and was reading some lyrics with me (she's a fab singer), she's by no means accurate all the time but she can get by.

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blueemerald · 30/11/2011 19:46

My understanding (I'm an LSA so never heavily involved in the disapplication process) is that it is easiest if you have a statement but also possible otherwise. This is useful.

You will really need to get school on side though, even if that is only possible by pointing out how you DSD's grade will affect their results (sad, isn't it?)

PontyMython · 30/11/2011 19:44

Thanks mindthegappp I have heard that course does great things. I will try and get a copy now you've reminded me. We considered it a while ago but decided not to at the time, basically because although we would stick to it 100% at our house, there is no way her mum would do it, and if IIRC you have to do it daily?

Or do you think it would work doing it sporadically? Would really appreciate some views on that, as we would be very willing to try it. Pity her mother wouldn't.

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blueemerald · 30/11/2011 19:41

I can understand her reluctance to "lose" 3 years (although I don't believe you can lose the benefit of any education, you don't need a GCSE in it for it to have been worth it).

If her written English is as bad as you imply and her passion is for science (so unlikely to need a foreign language in the future) I would seriously consider ditching the french. She could have extra English tution in that time. You may not have as hard a time as you'd imagine convincing the school given the immense pressure on 5 A*-C including Maths and English percentages.

Better to push an E to a C in English than get that E and a G for French.

I second toe by toe, it's a great program (cheaper on Amazon)

PontyMython · 30/11/2011 19:40

Even though learning a foreign language is part of the National Curriculum, it is possible to ?disapply?, under the 1996 Education Act.

That is so helpful thank you. Thanks And for the links too. DSD has actually said she doesn't mind doing it... I think that is due to pressure from her mum, she reckons she will be totally screwed in the future without it. There may also be an element of not wanting to stick out like a sore thumb, IYSWIM.

A bit unsure of what you meant though, do you mean you can only ever do the disapply thing if you have a statement, or are there exceptions to that?

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MindtheGappp · 30/11/2011 19:15

If her English is so bad that she can barely read and write, buy "Toe by Toe" and work through it with her. She will make dramatic improvements.

PontyMython · 30/11/2011 19:14

Tuition, or private assessment, not an option financially :(

Mum on income support, we are surviving on my Apprenticeship wage as DH has a prolapsed disc and can't work. Fun times.

Thanks for all the ideas - changing language not an option according to the school, and anyway I think she'd be reluctant to lose the 3yrs she's put in already IYSWIM - she may not have learnt much but at least it's a start.

Don't know any French dyslexic people but I do know my parents' lodger, who is quite shy herself but they have met and got on ok, so I will have a chat about that idea. It's great and why on earth didn't I think of it myself Blush

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