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DS1 (Y8) is being a PITA for one particular teacher. Advice needed.

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LynetteScavo · 03/10/2011 21:49

He's had a couple of lunch time detentions already this term for being "off task" in these lessons.

I'm at a loss at what to do to get DS to behave for this teacher. Stern words from me obviously aren't having effect, and neither are the detentions. Secretly I think this teacher is pretty useless, to the point that I feel sorry for him. I gather the more senior staff are aware of this teachers short comings. DS isn't the only one in the class "off task" during these lessons, but that is no excuse for his poor behavior.

How do I persuade DS to at least sit down and shut up in these lessons? Other teachers tell me DS is a delight to teach.

He missed the end of year trip to Alton Towers at the end of last year because his overall engagement level wasn't sufficient (each teacher awards an engagement level, and the average is taken into account) - due to the low score he received from this one teacher (which was quite justified). I did tell him he could chose a reward from me if he got a decent engagement level in this subject this term, and his reply was "There's no point".

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GypsyMoth · 04/10/2011 09:48

My dd used to clash with a certain teacher. In the end she was removed from that class and put with her work, into student support centre.

Theas18 · 04/10/2011 09:45

What subject? Is it one he doesn't care much about anyway? Assuming it's art or DT or similar that your child doesn't rate as essential to their future I'd stand back and let school deal, but be fully behind and sanctions they impose. You don't have to like a subject but you do have to comply with what is expected re behaviour and performance.

If it's a core subject eg maths that is important I'd have a think about how/why it might not be working for him- is he just really struggling to cope with the work and naffing about and blaming the teacher is a cover for this?

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