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Senior schools for boys (London day or boarding)

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laurent · 30/08/2011 19:16

Have now started thinking about senior school options for my twin boys but there are so many good schools the task seems rather daunting Shock so was wondering whether Mumsnet could offer a helping hand.
They're both bright and generally do well at school, although DTS1 prefers playing football and getting muddy while DTS2 is the more academic one. He also loves drama.
I've only now realised that finding the right school might be a bit problematic as they're such different characters. Ideally we'd keep them at the same school as otherwise the logistics of it would be a nightmare. So far we've shortlisted Westminster, St Paul's, UCS, Latymer Upper and Highgate, I'm eager to hear any experiences and other suggestions!
Initially we didn't think of boarding as an option at all, but their prep school suggested it and both boys seem keen. I don't know anything about boarding these days so I'm eager to hear any experiences of that as well!
Thank you in advance :)

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MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 08/12/2011 11:02

Happygardening - Of course they should feel very free to make comments about St Albans School. I doubt they'd manage to say anything remotely offensive as they've probably never heard of it. Grin It is remarkable in its lack of remarkableness and we are all very pleased with it. Grin

wallowaway · 08/12/2011 10:58

Mrs Prufrock, you've had the misfortune to stumble upon the couple of arch arrivistes [though I think happy is just being helpful even if Latin is not her thing]. To think that any school would take their views on who to appoint into account, Deputy House Master of College is not exactly taxing, though "David" is far too well mannered to express an opinion of flamenco girl[?] or the type of anticipation with which he awaits the arrival of a certain young Master Colleger's mum. At least "Tim" has had some early warning by e-mail.

Agree with grovel that boys tend to turn out fine even if they don't make their first choice, especially if their parents are anything to go by.

Colleger · 08/12/2011 10:57

I think that arrogant attitude is well fitted to Habs!

happygardening · 08/12/2011 10:32

MrsJAlfredPrufrock this is a completely harmless thread you may not like it/understand it but I don't see why you need too make snide remarks. I'm sure many who post on here could make comments about your choice of school (ladies see St Albans Boys versus Habs) but we are refraining from doing so.

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 08/12/2011 10:22

LOL at this thread. So arriviste.

Btw happymummy the plural of prospectus is prospectuses (fourth declension) how funny that you think it might have an apostrophe. Grin

milkshake3 · 08/12/2011 09:35

Grovel - thank you for your wise words....I was with a group of parents from my school last night and there was a lot of angst from those who are waiting. It would be great to get a quick peek at the future, and know the kids turn out OK, even if there are disappointments age 11 !!

Good luck to all waiting for the postman.

Colleger · 07/12/2011 22:48

I think Ralph is a massive loss to Eton but I'm sure Tim will do very well.

grovel · 07/12/2011 22:08

I suspect that David Goode would/could have succeeded Ralph if he had wanted to. He is an Eton legend but maybe not an administrator from choice? Ralph was also ex officio musical director of the Windsor and Eton Choral Society etc. He was brilliant but not everybody would want to do it.

peteneras · 07/12/2011 21:33

Thanks grovel, I was aware Tim Johnson was to succeed Ralph Allwood as Precentor of Music at Eton. Personally I favoured David Goode for the job, someone who was quoted as a musician of ?Olympic standard? - whatever that means. But his mastery of the organ is certainly of world standard; not to mention the awe-inspiring piano pieces I heard him play at the Collegers? concert last year.

Colleger, you might have heard David Goode play the organ when he accompanied the boys from Purcell School earlier this year when they came to Eton to perform.

Btw David is also a Deputy House Master of College as well as the Head of Tutoring. I suppose it is almost impossible to take on the role as Precentor of Music too?

Good luck to boys awaiting results from Eton and elsewhere in the next few days. For musicians who don?t make it this time round, there?s still a chance to enter Eton in a few years time on the back of the new Andrew Lloyd Webber Foundation Scholarship. Andrew?s own son attended Eton too.

grovel · 07/12/2011 19:33

Good luck to all of you. I can remember waiting to hear from Eton - DS and his three best friends did the Eton test together. Only DS was offered a place.

What I can say is that DS and the same friends (who went to Marlborough, Canford and Hampton) have all ended up at Durham. All are delightful. All have done extra-curricular stuff to a high standard. You would not know the Etonian.

It is right that we beat ourselves up about school choices. We are parents. I wish, though, I could have seen the future a few years ago!

yesbutnobut · 07/12/2011 17:33

Hi I'm also watching the post each day waiting for Harrow and 4 others in my son's class are also waiting. I'm sure it will be any day now (but the waiting is awful isn't it?)

grovel · 07/12/2011 15:26

Colleger, phone them.

Colleger · 07/12/2011 15:17

This is the same director that ignored all my emails when we were looking at Westminster for DS2. Not a good sign when only 30% of the school played an instrument! In fact since Ralph left I've also had two emails ignored by the music department. :(

grovel · 07/12/2011 15:08

peteneras, Ralph Allwood's successor was Director of Music at Westminster. Tim Johnson. A live wire.

Colleger · 07/12/2011 15:01

Lots of mail goes missing too at this time of year and one school forgot about my boys on four occasions so it is worth calling up!

happygardening · 07/12/2011 13:48

Does your head not know when the results come out? I know its nowish. It's dreadful waiting I know just how you feel.

Colleger · 07/12/2011 13:04

Sorry just seen your post above suppermummy. When DS had his Winchester interview the housemaster also raved and said he was the brightest boy he'd interviewed in years. I didn't want to count my chickens but he was offered a place so I think with the comments above its likely he has a place. I'd call up though just to check when results come out.

Colleger · 07/12/2011 13:01

Do you mean as in Pre-test results or Pre-test appointments? I believe they start in Year 7 but don't know if they do it in the same way as Eton and have the oldest children tested in the first half of the year and the younger ones in the last half.

suppermummy · 07/12/2011 12:22

anyone heard from harrow for 13 plus 2013 entry

WineOhWhy · 15/09/2011 18:33

I am not sure why the logistics would cause a problem in sending them to separate schools. I can see that it would at prep age, but by senior school I imagine they will be travelling by themselves. people with children of different ages have to deal with it where (say) the older child gets into a competitiive school and the younger child does not make it through the admissions process, or whey they have B/G and are fans of single sex education.
What woudl you do, for example, if they dont both get offers from the same school?
I would consider individually which schools are right for them and decide on that basis. if it happens to be the same school, all the better!

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 15/09/2011 17:44

laurent you are still in time to register for St Paul's if you haven't already done so but you must register before May of yr 4 otherwise you will be put on a waiting list.

Depending on where you live Merchant Taylors in Northwood might be another option. I know a few people with boys there and they like it. It gets good results and is a friendly school.

suppermummy · 14/09/2011 23:09

Yes that right...we will find out infirst week of december.

happygardening · 14/09/2011 10:38

Sounds positive I don't think housemasters are stupid they know parents will analyse every word they say hoping to get a clue as to whether or not they like your child so I'm sure they pick comments carefully.
How long do you have to wait; they let you know near to Xmas don't they?

suppermummy · 14/09/2011 08:46

my son sat for the assesnment at harrow yesterday...the house master who interviewed him said that he wz very impressed wt my sons cv.
he spoke to me for 30 min. explaining to me how well my son spoke through out the interview and he went on on on...does this mean anything...do you think he will get a place at harrow...

suppermummy · 11/09/2011 08:57

happygardening ...Thank you very much....

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