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Senior schools for boys (London day or boarding)

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laurent · 30/08/2011 19:16

Have now started thinking about senior school options for my twin boys but there are so many good schools the task seems rather daunting Shock so was wondering whether Mumsnet could offer a helping hand.
They're both bright and generally do well at school, although DTS1 prefers playing football and getting muddy while DTS2 is the more academic one. He also loves drama.
I've only now realised that finding the right school might be a bit problematic as they're such different characters. Ideally we'd keep them at the same school as otherwise the logistics of it would be a nightmare. So far we've shortlisted Westminster, St Paul's, UCS, Latymer Upper and Highgate, I'm eager to hear any experiences and other suggestions!
Initially we didn't think of boarding as an option at all, but their prep school suggested it and both boys seem keen. I don't know anything about boarding these days so I'm eager to hear any experiences of that as well!
Thank you in advance :)

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Angelscakes42 · 06/01/2012 20:07

Hope this helps! My son has done his first term at Winchester College. Academically, we are so impressed with WC and the housemaster approach, support for settling my DS . I am hoping WC will take my youngest son in 2014!. Winchester College is not for the light hearted, many very intellectual and naturally bright boys, which come from abroad. Music is excellent. There is roughly about 2 and half hours off Toy Time (Prep), every night. We I think IGCSE is the way forward and Cambridge Pre U. Over all my son is very happy and hopefully he will go onto Harvard from here. Winchester Scholarship, majority off these papers are written by the master of WC and these boarder line beyond AS papers, preparation is a minimum of 2/3 years. My youngest son personnel tutor (old Etonian - Scholar) mentioned that you should reach 90% on common entrance by the time your son is eleven,(2/3 years before entrance) before even preparing for scholarship.

grovel · 09/12/2011 23:34

Well, esperance, that suggests you are a tad common. The tailors hate dealing with servants. So infra dig. Xmas Grin

esperance · 09/12/2011 23:16

I am not sure about other parents grovel. In our case, I always sent one of the servants to purchase uniform Xmas Wink

grovel · 09/12/2011 22:54

I don't think many parents buy all this stuff new. The tailors in Eton High Street do second hand (and buy back when a boy leaves).

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 09/12/2011 22:49

I love the fact that on one of those links, under the Harrow uniform, this comes up Is it for Freddie Mercury evenings in the dorm?

peteneras · 09/12/2011 22:39

And here's The Genuine Article.

peteneras · 09/12/2011 22:26

For Eton wannabes that's the nearest they can ever come close to the genuine article. Xmas Grin

Colleger · 09/12/2011 22:04

I think your comments are highly inappropriate now given that children wear these coats. Shock

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 09/12/2011 21:33

esperence esperance

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 09/12/2011 21:31

esperence - Oh I already have one of those. It's part of my auto erotic asphyxiation kit.

esperance · 09/12/2011 21:24

Congratulations to son of yesbutnobut

MrsJ This is an anonymous forum. It's okay, really okay, to just admit that you want this:

goo.gl/m5jDG

yesbutnobut · 09/12/2011 18:36

We're delighted too and very proud; have some thinking to do now ...

Colleger · 08/12/2011 18:38

Great news - do you plan to accept?

grovel · 08/12/2011 18:33

yesbutnobut, delighted for you and your DS.

yesbutnobut · 08/12/2011 18:26

Received our offer from Harrow today!

happygardening · 08/12/2011 14:41

MrsJAlfredPrufrock if we are happy for our children to indulge in "class ridden fripperies (uniform, peculiar sports that nobody else plays, silly rituals)" what difference does it make to you or your children especially as not one of us is trying to inflict them on you? I dont believe it makes them better people than your DC's or worse it gives them a difference experience of life thats all. We need this difference in our world.

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 08/12/2011 14:17

Milkshake You should perhaps try and separate the education and the class ridden fripperies (uniform, peculiar sports that nobody else plays, silly rituals) that will do nothing for you children once they leave to go to university. My eldest son is very happy at university reading medicine, I have one son about to choose A level subjects and two littles (for whom schooling has not yet been decided). So I don't know why you think this thread is irrelevant to me.

milkshake3 · 08/12/2011 13:41

MrsJ - I am not going to post on your other thread as it is irrelevant to me and I have nothing to add about St Albans school, but I am wondering how you reconcile your views about private schools, yet send yours to one? The uniform a child wears does not concern me...the education does. So if mine ends up wearing a swishy tailcoat or boater, so be it. You clearly think St Albans gives your son the best education, so good choice. Don't belittle others just trying to make the same decision for their children. If you disagree with the opportunity that private education can give (depending on the school), then lead by example and remove your child from the private school you have chosen for him.

You can stop hijacking this thread now.

Colleger · 08/12/2011 12:41

MrsJ, you really are most unpleasant.

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 08/12/2011 12:32

Milkshake -well you could always start a fee paying forum of your very own. You could even wear swishy tailcoats and engage in a bit of sponging if the participants diverted from tradition, just for larks. Hell you could even have a latin motto, though you might have to translate it for Happygardening to postis to serve

milkshake3 · 08/12/2011 12:16

MrsJ - I read these threads to give support and get support....not to behave like a petulant child. If you don't have anything constructive to say, don't say it...that was what I was taught at my very nice all girls school. I for one really value what Colleger, HappyG, Grovel et al have to say as, from what I can tell they've already been through it, and can offer valid advice. I don't hand around other threads, irrelevant to me, trying to score points.....

Colleger · 08/12/2011 12:05

I'm a sink comp girl! Grin how ariviste!

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 08/12/2011 12:02

Colleger - show me the 'plenty of negativity'? I was merely keen to point out the plural of prospectus is definitely not prospectus's, especially as this thread purports to care so much for academic rigour.

Btw I'm a grammar school girl and not therefore possessed of fine manners and a tailcoat.

Colleger · 08/12/2011 11:45

What is more sad worse? The person who writes on a thread that is relevant to their current circumstance or the person whom it does not affect but has plenty of negativity to spout? Hmmm, let me think?!

happygardening · 08/12/2011 11:16

Latin did I mention Latin??