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Harrow v eton

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nokissymum · 05/06/2011 20:51

i started a thread before about people's experiences with Harrow and got a few responses but felt maybe I needed to word it differently.

I am hoping their are mners here who have more insight into both schools, what are the differences and why one and not the other. Thank you.

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darleneoconnor · 06/06/2011 14:54

I saw that documentary about Harrow that was on a while ago. I'm probably going to put DS in for that scholarship those boys were competing for.

I have found it difficult to find good comparative info for Eton, Harrow, Winchester, Radley et al. We'll have to make the registration decision this year and dont know whether we shoud just apply to as many as we can. DS will need an almost full bursary so I know it's going to be an uphill struggle. Does anyone know which schools are the most generous, bursary-wise? (I've heard good things about Eton in this respect)

Also what school would most suit an academic, sporty alpha-male but who is utterally unmusical/arty/dramatic?

Colleger · 06/06/2011 14:42

Your child will sit the pre-test in May/June of Y6 with a decision in mid-July. Harrow's test is in the Autumn of Y7 so you will have had to have registered DS before he even sits the Eton pre-test. Of course by then you will have an offer or a rejection. A rejection from Eton will not go against you for Harrow but an acceptance might as they will assume you will take up the Eton place so it would be good to have made up your mind before the Harrow test or not sit it at all if you accept the Eton place.

WorkingItOutAsIGo · 06/06/2011 14:40

Oh and on the August child - the way Eton at least does it takes account of the month of the birthday - my DS is also August and went up for interview later and was assessed against other late birthday people.

WorkingItOutAsIGo · 06/06/2011 14:38

Apply for as many schools as you like - it's what they expect. The process narrows down as you start paying deposits...hate to think what I spent on holding places we didnt ultimately take.

In a nutshell waiting for flaming - Eton these days is for cleverer boys, Harrow for boys who aren't so bright. So choose based on how academic you think your DS is - I'd always recommend making sure they are in a school where they will be comfortable and not in the bottom quarter as that would be miserable.

nokissymum · 06/06/2011 14:31

colleger ahh! I didn't realise DS was at eton! I obviously wasn't reading properly Grin I was wondering if you had shares in there lol!

I didn't see either where you explained why the four heads advised against Harrow, I read your list of school comparisons.

You seem to know a lot about both schools anyway so do you think the pre test dates will work out for an august child ? Thank you.

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Yellowstone · 06/06/2011 14:26

grovel I'm sure that Eton is spot on with university and career advice. Your son sounds as though he's got his head screwed on too. A school should want to get it right for each pupil and I doubt any of the truly good schools push anyone to those two universities unless they feel it's a comfortable fit. It's not in their interest and most definitely not in the interests of a reluctant or marginal pupil.

nokissymum · 06/06/2011 14:24

Regina what you've said now makes perfect sense.

Personally I'm not splitting hairs over final destination, for us we prefer ds to go to the university that has the best facilities and reputation for what he wants to study, that might not necessarily be Oxbridge.

So long as the school he goes to can support him in achieving his goals, this is all that matters. I was just a bit worried that he might be penalised for not mentioning a flair for languages or the classics!

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Colleger · 06/06/2011 14:16

Of course I am biased towards Eton, wouldn't you be biased towards the school your son was at? Hmm

I have explained why four Headmasters advised against Harrow and no he wasn't at 4 prep schools. This was the feedback after interview, entrance tests and trial days at some of the schools we looked at.

grovel · 06/06/2011 14:13

Yellowstone, my DS who left Eton two years ago told his housemaster that he was going to university to have fun and do just enough work to get a 2:1 (ie that academic considerations were definitely secondary). His housemaster sensed that he meant it and steered him away from Oxbridge (despite my DS having As and A*s across the board in A levels and GCSEs, and a "better than 50% chance of getting in").
Frankly I was impressed that the school was not obsessed by Oxbridge and that the right decision was reached.

nokissymum · 06/06/2011 14:12

grovel you made me laugh Grin

colleger thanks for the advice about applying to both ds is an august child so not sure wether he will be to apply to both, but if it's physically possible, might give it a stab.

You do come across a bit biased towards Eton though Hmm and why did 4 headmasters scream not to apply to Harrow ?

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regina12 · 06/06/2011 14:06

It's the other way around Nokissymum - intake dictates university destination.

Oxbridge has a narrower range of courses than many other universities, so is not, as you rightly suggest, the only measure, (but it's still a good one)but if a school has a larger number of leavers going to universities in the top 10 of the league tables, then its intake is probably more academic than a school with fewer going to those institutions. We are splitting hairs here really, though Yellowstones's figures suggest Eton's intake is quite a bit higher academically. Good teachers, as Grovel points out, will support a student in getting good grades in subjects they are not naturally good at, but Harrow's teachers are unlikely to be slouches in this regard.

Yellowstone · 06/06/2011 14:03

nokissy the selectivity at the point of entry to a school appears to be the single most important factor in determining the quality of leavers destinations.

Numbers from a school going to Oxford and Cambridge is a frequently cited measure of the quality of the school, rather like numbers of pupils on FSM being used as a measure to judge other characteristics of a school.

It's broad brush but it's clearly a useful tool and there's a clear correlation between those schools considered 'the best' and those sending large numbers, or a large percentage, off to those two universities.

ICT (or Computer Science) is a subject a student can opt for at Oxford and it's extremely competitive, with the independent sector having a far, far higher success rate than the maintained..

Greythorne · 06/06/2011 13:59

colleger
did your son attend 4 prep schools?
just wondering how 4 headmasters shrieked "no" viz Harrow

pink4ever · 06/06/2011 13:57

bc-Dont think they got itHmm.

grovel · 06/06/2011 13:52

nokissymum, I'm sure the Eton admissions system couldn't give a stuff about an 11 year old's opinion of what he might want to read at university. The school

delights in getting a boy who arrives saying "I'm useless at xxxx subject" an A* in that subject. It's the ultimate test of successful teaching.

Colleger · 06/06/2011 13:51

On the face of it the schools seem similar but they do produce a different type of boy/man and the evidence suggests that Eton produces nicer boys.

As for applying to two it does depend on when your son's birthday falls. If it is before February then he would sit the Eton pre-test in Oct/Nov of Y6 with a decision in the December. If he failed to get in then there would still be time to apply to Harrow for the Y7 pre-test without ever telling either school that the boy was registered at both. It is uncommon though to only be registered at one school. Most tend to have choice one as: Eton, Harrow or Winchester and choice two as Radley or a co-ed option. DS was registered for Eton and Winchester which seems to be more common than Eton and Harrow as an OH parent would neer dream of sending son to Harrow and vice versa!

BelovedCunt · 06/06/2011 13:49

harrow has a lower percentage of anal prolapse but eton has a nice uniform. its a toughie alright

Yellowstone · 06/06/2011 13:47

regina 30% of Eton leavers go to Oxford or Cambridge and an average over the past few years of 11% do so from Harrow.

That's quite a considerable difference.

nokissymum · 06/06/2011 13:35

Regina I don't quite follow the rationale of university destination influencing school intake, surely university destination will be dictated by what the child wants to study in future, which most dont have an idea of at point of entry to school.

So in effect are you saying that if a child wants to study IT for instance that might count against them as most graduants from eton go to Oxbridge and IT is not a popular subject to study at Oxbridge ? But if say the child at interview showed a flair for languages then child might have a better chance getting into eton as a lot of Etonians go on to study languages at Oxbridge ?

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housepiglet · 06/06/2011 13:32

nokissimum,

"headmaster advised against applying to both schools as it might not go down well with whoever is second choice, is this true ? Has anyone applied to both ?"

I can't speak from personal experienced, but the documentary that was on last year about Sunningdale School showed boys attending for interview at Harrow who had also applied to Eton (one at least already had a place), or planned to do so.

regina12 · 06/06/2011 13:12

I would say that if, as stated above, university destinations differ considerably, (and I haven't checked this) then there is likely to be quite some difference between the schools, with regard to intake at the least.

nokissymum · 06/06/2011 12:57

So getting back to the topic, it seems there isn't any real difference in the two schools other than size, facilities at eton a bit better, and the rest really might just be down to people's own experiences.

colleger I think I understand why someone would ask for advice to choose eton or Harrow, its where the question was asked that was daft and wrong wording.

In the first instance parents have to decide to apply, I think this is what that parent needed help with in deciding, once you apply it is then up to the school to "choose" you.

To parents unaffiliated there really doesn't seem to be much difference in terms of quality of education and curricular activities offered, the few differences seem down to preference, for instance I am not bothered by harrow's location at all, eton on the other hand is very far from where we live.

They both seem to be just as hard to get into, so will just have to wait and see.

headmaster advised against applying to both schools as it might not go down well with whoever is second choice, is this true ? Has anyone applied to both ?

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Yellowstone · 05/06/2011 23:23

Mine too. Me too. Mine too Colleger. This is taking years off me btw.

Colleger · 05/06/2011 23:19

My views change depending on my mood Yellowstone! Wink Anyway I do not want to rekindle that debate!

As for the SE it has the highest concentration of Public and Grammar schools and affluence which is probably why it is so heavily skewed. My children only attend schools in SE but they have Northern blood!

Yellowstone · 05/06/2011 22:48

Colleger some stats are readily available but not all. Eton is a bit close with theirs and Harrow is not much better. Oxford is good. You're clearly very knowledgeable about subjects/ relative competitiveness. I thought you thought Oxford and Cambridge dulled academically in comparison to Eton and also that Ivy League eclipsed them all.

I can't help wondering how old your DS is. And I can't help wonder why it is that the geographical pie chart for Oxbridge entrance is so weighted in favour of the SE. Are DC with true academic potential really so concentrated geographically? Remarkable.