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Winchester college v canford?

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yotty · 10/01/2011 20:13

My DS1 is pretty bright but not a genius, not sporty, but loves drama. Can't decide whether he would be better off at Winchester, as he is a bit of a quirky character. Or go to canford and know that he would be in the top 30 percent of the year group, so could feel he could excel in something. Anybody got any thoughts/knowledge of these schools.

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Bramshott · 11/01/2011 11:04

If he is quirky and into drama, have you looked at Bedales?

hanselk · 11/01/2011 11:03

from everything i have heard the advantage of the single sex issue at winchester is that a lot of the boys find it easier to concentrate on impressing peers/teachers in lessons rather than impressing the girls!

they get plenty of time to spend with girls both officially and unofficially so there is not the fear that they are locked up and do not know how to speak to girls when they are released.

i would imagine that the physicality is no different in a boys' dorm at a co-ed to a single sex school.

wykehamists seem to prefer mental sparring to physical sparing which has set up those i know for very good careers in law!

yotty · 11/01/2011 09:47

Thanks for your thoughts. I vacillate between all boys and coed. My son is physically small and puberty will probably come quite late. So the advantage of single sex school would be he won't have the issues with who is going out with who in an all boys school. But I worry about the rough and tumble in a very male environment.

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hanselk · 11/01/2011 08:48

hi. they are very different schools. Canford is co-ed, Winchester boys, Canford campus based, Winchester in town etc. Canford quite rounded, winchester rigorously intellectual

from my experience Wykehamists are more quirky, always exceedingly polite and "intellectual". i would imagine that if he was likely to get into winchester he would be higher than the top 30% at Canford.

if he has been in the top range at prep school and then finds himself in the lower levels at winchester it can be hard (similar to the transition between being a prefect of a prep school in the June then finding yourself the lowest of the low when starting at 13 in September)whereas being in the top ranges can be easier.

winchester is definitely more "old school" and inevitably produces a different "product" from the newer public schools, especially co-ed.

go and look at both places and get the feel - you will know your child. also try and meet some of the alumni and look at what they are doing with their lives!

good luck

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