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School uniform nonsense...so angry!!!!

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squeezedatbothends · 06/01/2011 09:14

This is just a rant really, but would appreciate other parent's thoughts on uniform issues. My son's school (Saddleworth) is falling down and has had funding withdrawn from the government to rebuild it so I can understand why they can't provide hooks or lockers for children's coats. This means most of the kids walk to school without coats because they don't want to have to lug them around with heavy bags/PE kits/food tech ingredients all day etc etc. Fair enough, but because the weather has been so cold, I and other parents have insisted that our kids wear a plain white t-shirt or vest under their school shirts. It was so cold yesterday, that my son wore two. His teacher spotted them, forced him to remove them and refused to give them back until Friday - he had to walk back in freezing weather in a cotton shirt and thin blazer. I'm so angry I could spit. He's just recovering from swine flu, has lost a ton of weight and is still chesty. The thing that really gets me is that the quality of teaching is poor - homework unchallenging (cut verbs out of a magazine and stick them on a page....stuff most kids can do in Year 3) and the attention seems not to be on quality of T&L but on stupid nonsensical uniform rules which don't have the interests of the child at heart. I sound like a real molly coddler I know but I'm soooooo ANGRY!!!! There....rant over.Angry

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HattiFattner · 06/01/2011 10:25

do thy check the colour and style of their underpants to? AFAIK a T shirt "vest" is an undergarment, so forcing a child to take off undergarments is not acceptable practice.

I would write a sternly worded letter to the head explaining that while the school can be prissy about the outer garments, the under garments are private and down to the parents.

BecauseItoldYouSo · 06/01/2011 10:13

The teacher was being Utterly Ridiculous!!!!!! I think so much of the uniform stuff is nonsense. Angry

Ladymuck · 06/01/2011 10:11

How did a teacher spot what he was wearing under his shirt?

kormachameleon · 06/01/2011 09:49

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DirtyMartini · 06/01/2011 09:44

Marking place to hear what response you get -- that's really bloody unreasonable of the teacher.

usualsuspect · 06/01/2011 09:40

I agree ,some schools spend far too much time on petty school uniform rules

gingeroots · 06/01/2011 09:38

Rant here all you like - I find it's good practice/helps me refine my argument for the head and governors etc.
I think what you've described is completely ludicrous .
Why on earth shouldn't students wear plain white T shirts under shirts ?
Looks smart ,hurts no one ,helps keep child warm ,well ,and in school .
IMO it's this culture of bullying by schools over petty incidents ,just because they're able to do so /have the power ,that leads to bullying in the school as a whole .
Role models .
I wish I knew what to suggest - I'm sure he wouldn't be at this school if it were just a question of finding him a decent school .
If only life were so simple !
Talk directly to head ?
Write to local paper as a last resort ?
Good luck - be calm and collected in dealings with school .

squeezedatbothends · 06/01/2011 09:30

Thanks - yes I've fired a letter and phone call off this morning. The only alternative around here is private so moving him is difficult, but I'll be putting some pressure on!!

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