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School Trips! Arghhhh!

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TequilaMockinBird · 14/12/2010 14:51

This has probably been done to death on here but after receiving a letter from the school regarding the next school trip, I was more than ever before!

Basically they want a minimum of £800 for a weeks skiing holiday. If there are less than 50 children going, the price will increase. They will be travelling by coach not flying. They will be staying B&B so will also need money for meals.

On top of that they will be taking the children to skiing lessons in the UK beforehand, and this is also not included in the price.

We will have to buy clothes (salopettes etc) aswell.

Now, this obviously isnt a compulsory trip or anything but how on earth do they expect people to be able to afford this? Where do they get their prices from?!

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MentalFloss · 20/12/2010 16:46

No One week trekking (mountains maybe?)
One week charity work
One week beach holiday
One week in the rainforest

mumoverseas · 20/12/2010 12:04

FFS! What are they doing MentalFloss? Buying Venezuela?

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TequilaMockinBird · 20/12/2010 11:33

MentalFloss

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MentalFloss · 20/12/2010 11:32

I bring this one out everytime a school trip is mentioned but our school offered 4 weeks in Venezuela this year....

For £3800 plus kit (which came to about £1000)

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TequilaMockinBird · 20/12/2010 11:27

The trip is not until March 2012 but we have had to pay £25 to secure her place, £250 deposit is due by 1st March and then the balance by end December 2011. So a fair bit of notice given to save tbh.

mumoverseas, good idea, I never thought about eBay, I was thinking about places like Blacks etc. Will try eBay, thanks!

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gorionine · 20/12/2010 06:33

Tequilla, How long in advance are you told/ Is the trip this winter or next one?

I am quite shocked at the amount. I think £800 is a lot of money. I do not really understand the bit about the only occasion for a child from a poorer family to go as I would think it would be absolutely unafordable for a family on a budget (and surely there is quite a few of them arround in this economic climate). We are not poor but I do not think DD1 could go (unless a lot of time to do odd jobs and save money).

mumoverseas · 20/12/2010 06:19

What about looking on ebay Tequila for some cheap/2nd hand ones? Will be much cheaper

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TequilaMockinBird · 19/12/2010 20:41

Well, she's decided she would like to go. Her friends are going and as it's possibly the only opportunity she'll get to go skiing (for a few years anyway - I don't do cold holidays ) then I'm happy with her decision.

So the saving starts here....

I'm hoping to get her clothes - salopettes etc - this coming summer when hopefully they might be reduced in the sales! Does anybody have any ideas of where the best sales will be on? And also when they'll start!

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pippop1 · 16/12/2010 14:43

I think I'd prefer to spend the money on more of an educational trip. DS2 did Latin A level and they went to Pompei. It brought it all alive.

mumoverseas · 15/12/2010 11:40

That sounds about right to be honest. DD's ski trip next Easter is 738 but she needs extra money for meals/drinks etc.

goingmadinthecountry · 14/12/2010 23:34

I went on lots of Youth Orchestra trips my parents paid for including Argentina in 1980. I'm sure they struggled, but I still really appreciate it - started a lifelong love of travel.

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goingmadinthecountry · 14/12/2010 23:22

Tequila - don't you think that's quite a lot of pressure to put on your dd? My dd2 and ds both went on school ski trips last year and loved them - we're not a family who'll do a ski week together! - but I would never expect them to make a choice between that and the holiday I'd go on. Lots of kids can't afford it. Such is life. Sadly, skiing is expensive. Dd's school offers a chance to pay £40 a month over about 18m which is great. Ds's is more £200 deposit by half past 3! TK Maxx and ebay are great sources of cheap stuff if she does go.

LynetteScavo · 14/12/2010 23:20

I agree with Greenshaddow.

We can't afford for us to to skiing as a family of 5, but could afford a school trip. Ski trips were one thing I checked out when choosing high schools.

Although, I find it hard to believe coach is that much cheaper than flying. But then I'm old, and would get bored and stiff on a coach.

penguin73 · 14/12/2010 23:15

Our school offers this and I'm always amazed at the pupils who believe it is their right to go even though their families obviously can't afford it. Although they are a good opportunity it is ok to say no and spend the money on things that are really needed or the whole family can benefit from. I would be shocked and saddened if DS thought it ok for us to go without spending quality family time on holiday when we work incredibly hard all year so that he can go off with his friends for a week.

dexter73 · 14/12/2010 17:26

My dd is going skiing in January with her school and the trip cost £800. We have got all her gear for about £100 - £60 for jacket and salopettes, £20 for goggles and £20 for 3 microfleece tops.

GrungeBlobPrimpants · 14/12/2010 16:37

Yep, state and these trips are always over subscribed

Apparently last year's was a £1400 USA ski trip so this is a cheapie.

Tequila - snap!

PerpetuallyAnnoyedByHeadlice · 14/12/2010 16:34

these sort of trips existed 20-30 years ago when i was a child - I just never expected to be able to go on them, and it honestly did me no harm - 3 weeks of family camping holidays a year and i saw and experienced stuff my peers never even new about

I do not say this with envy, I just accepted that my parents could not afford these sorts of trips - do todays parents feel they are failing if they have to say no? do todays kids demand more? what does it teach a child about money if their school trip costs more than the family holiday?

My children will also not be brought up to expect that they can go or do just as some of their friends

they need to learn that life is like that!

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TequilaMockinBird · 14/12/2010 16:24

Yes Chandon, state secondary here!

Grunge, I am prepared to pay for that very reason. There's no way I'd go on a skiing holiday so she wont get the opportunity with us.

However, at the expense of a holiday in the sun that year, I'm hoping she'll decide skiing isnt what she wants

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christmaseve · 14/12/2010 16:18

DD went a few yrs back and it was £800 then, included meals though. Cost a bomb to kit her out too. She enjoyed it and it gave her the opportunity to ski. I haven't been skiing since school.

She didn't want to go again and preferred to have holidays with me. She didn't enjoy being bossed around by the teachers when on holiday.

Chandon · 14/12/2010 16:13

and these are all State secondary's ?!

I guess the economic crisis is a myth then.

GrungeBlobPrimpants · 14/12/2010 16:08

We've just had one of those - £1,000 but that includes everything

DS not sure whether he wants to go 'cos not sure if his friends will be going. Now, we would be prepared to pay because we've never done skiing (not interested and too pricey) but we think he'd love it and it's something he'd never do with us. However, that would be at the expense of a family holiday or something else.

so for once his apathy has come in handy

sleighBELLasringing · 14/12/2010 15:50

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TequilaMockinBird · 14/12/2010 15:48

sleigh - if we get the forecasted weather here this weekend, you could bring him up here to snowboard for free

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