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Can teachers tell when parents do the HW?

35 replies

mumhp · 29/11/2010 12:13

My daughter is in year 7 at a large comp and is in the top stream. We think she is doing fine, but she complains that others are a lot cleverer than her. The school uses a rewards system called vivomiles and she hasn't won many, but there are some kids that have. They rank them in league tables which are published on their website and this term those with the most go on a trip to Barcelona. I recently found out from talking to one of the parents of these super successful kids that they don't just help with homework, they actually do it. They tell the kids what to write, to the extent of dictation or doing their artwork etc. The parent seemed rather proud of themself! However the work is then rewarded with vivomiles, the child praised and the others made to feel inadequate. These kids also seem to be the ones picked to be on the school magazine board, in newspaper features, designing the school Xmas card and other special things. It is always the same kids so I am beginning to think this isn't very fair - it is a massive school with an intake of 240 per year. I cannot believe that the teachers don't notice, or have they and are they just playing along?

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mitochondria · 29/11/2010 22:24

Also, by reading other threads in this topic, it is evident that some parents get Mumsnet to do their child's homework!

mitochondria · 29/11/2010 22:22

Yes.

Ilythia · 29/11/2010 18:47

I am a PGCE student and I can tell when pupils in my class have not done their homework themselves. And I have only been teaching them for a month....

nannynick · 29/11/2010 18:38

Wonder if they can tell when the nanny does the homework? I've been known to help out a 13year old with his Physics homework. I got very good marks as well, he informed me last week.

cece · 29/11/2010 18:18

Of course we can!

I have brought it up with some parents at parents evening before. They generally go a bit red, shuffle about a bit and then change the subject. Grin

sherby · 29/11/2010 18:15

dd won her school art competition with a elephant that basically looked like a squiggle

she was up against a parade of amazing pieces including a 3d moving dinosaur that was apparently done by a 5 yr old Hmm

I think they can see through it Grin

MmeBlueberry · 29/11/2010 18:11

Yes, we can tell :)

My colleague gave me a housepoint for my contribution to my DD's hw last week. Grin

PixieOnaLeaf · 29/11/2010 16:43

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HecateQueenOfWitches · 29/11/2010 12:18

Yes, of course.

The difference between the work done in class and at home will be obvious.

I don't know WHY any parent would do this - they aren't helping the child at all.

Unless they plan on sitting all exams for them.

And doing further education for them.

And getting a job for them...

eviscerateyourmemory · 29/11/2010 12:16

Its not very fair on the children - when it comes to exam time they will be stuck if they have previously been used to a parent dictating the answers.