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help me to help a 15 year old who has NO family support

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colditz · 06/08/2010 18:30

She wants to do a hairdressing course next year (she is nearly 16)

She has NO income, and lives with a friend of her distant relatives. The woman she lives with is elderly and disabled and cannot afford to pay for her equipment, which will come to around £200.

Her family won't. She says her mother will say she will help, but will bung her £10 and say she hasn't got any more. She is very stressed, saying she doesn't know how to get 'grants and stuff' and worried that she won't be able to start this course.

She is hell bent on doing this course. I really don't believe it's just a whim.

She's vaguely related to my neighbour, which is how I know her - the neighbour can't afford to help her at all.

What can I do to help this poor girl? I can't afford to pay for it myself or I would - but she needs the equipment by September.

I'm so, so angry that she is so worried about this, that she is even in a position that she is worrying about if she can afford to complete her education, I feel I must do something.

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zandy · 06/08/2010 18:39

Perhaps an appeal on local radio/local gazette.

LoveMyGirls · 06/08/2010 18:39

That is my suggestion too that she tries to work doing whatever she can to earn money before september, it will help her with buying the stuff she needs but also give her work experience.

A few job suggestions I can think of are...

babysitting
glass collecting
paper round
she could even try a leaflet drop offering girls pamper parties for girls (paint their nails, do their hair and a bit of light make up)

My tip would be to make her prices cheap as no-one has got any money at the moment. Can you help her by writing her a reference for the babysitting?

MaamRuby · 06/08/2010 18:38

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zandy · 06/08/2010 18:38

Would a local hairdresser be willing to sponsor her through college? Or be charitable with some 'old' kit?

RustyBear · 06/08/2010 18:38

She could see if The Prince's Trust are able to help?

colditz · 06/08/2010 18:35

And realisitically, it's only 4 weeks before the start of term and she won't earn £200 in 4 weeks for a Saturday job aged 15/16

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colditz · 06/08/2010 18:34

She's tried, but it's a small town, and it seems they are all taken or they aren't taking on.

The economic upturn hasn't reached the midlands yetSad

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SixtyFootDoll · 06/08/2010 18:32

Can she get a Saturday job in a local hairdressers to earn a few bob washing hair?