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If you’re gender critical…

108 replies

CurlewKate · 20/05/2026 19:09

…is that the most important point for you when you’re deciding who to vote for? More important than the NHS, the economy, foreign policy? If you’re a Labour voter, would you actively have a Reform government because Reform are gender critical?

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BotterMon · 20/05/2026 22:12

GC but would never vote Reform. Labour have been useless so not sure who I'll vote for. Maybe go back to being a Tory!

NotMyRealAccount · 20/05/2026 22:08

While gender ideology remains embedded in our society I shall be a single issue voter, and that issue is the recognition and protection of actual women. I was instinctively Labour until the last election, but now I look at the Labour party and think, "I never knew what you were."

Nigel Farage has indicated that he isn't opposed to the infiltration of women's spaces by trans identified males, and I have no reason to believe that Reform would be a safe option in power. The only circumstance in which I'd vote Reform would be if I had a local candidate who was explicitly GC.

BoeotianNightmare · 20/05/2026 22:08

I'm GC, very passionately so. I'm left wing and climate is the most important issue for me. I've therefore voted for parties that disregard women's sex based rights (which is to say all the left wing parties), but I have absolutely zero enthusiasm for any of them any more as they've jumped on the bandwagon of gender ideology without a care for the impact on women and children. I would never vote Tory or Reform. Their policies are dreadful (including for women) and the idea of Reform winning is horrific. Lots of Tories were pro self ID anyway so it'd be pointless voting for them even if I liked them in any other way which I don't.

StuntNun · 20/05/2026 22:06

I’m not white so I would have to be a moron to vote for Reform. They will ship me off to Rwanda as soon as they’ve got rid of the illegal immigrants and then the legal immigrants. Like many GC women, I’m politically homeless.

lifeturnsonadime · 20/05/2026 22:01

What do you actually want women to do?

Labour have let women down. My local MP has posted this very week that she believes that TWAW. Today our local small town TW has been encouraged to act out his personal fetish without fear of recrimination.

If women have had enough of this shit don't blame them for casting their vote elsewhere, instead challenge your own party for failing women so spectacularly in the first place.

Zapx · 20/05/2026 21:59

I would not say it was the “most important thing” but I do think that anyone who parrots TWAW and actually appears to believe it must just be really really thick, and therefore I could never vote for them…

AppleKatie · 20/05/2026 21:55

shuggles · 20/05/2026 20:54

Reform wants tougher controls on who comes into this country, and they want to restore British values and reduce crime so that it might actually be safe to walk through the UK's cities again. Why is that not a good outcome for women?

Because “tougher controls” and “British values” are slogans, not a women’s safety strategy.
Women are not unsafe in cities because Britain has been insufficiently nostalgic. We are unsafe because male violence is still treated as background noise. Most violence against women is committed by men known to them: partners, ex-partners, relatives, colleagues, acquaintances. A serious women’s safety policy would start there, with domestic abuse, rape charging rates, stalking, prostitution, porn culture, violent men, safeguarding, single-sex services, and proper policing.
I have no issue with sensible border controls. Every country has a right to decide who enters, and women should not be expected to ignore safeguarding concerns because the left finds the subject uncomfortable. But Reform’s framing makes me very wary because it turns women’s safety into a culture-war prop: dangerous men are “over there”, while British men are implicitly civilised and safe. That is nonsense. Plenty of women have been raped, beaten, stalked and murdered by men with British passports.
And frankly, I do not trust Nigel Farage or Reform to be the great defenders of women. Farage has previously suggested that women with children are worth less to employers, and told women not to be “ostentatious” about breastfeeding. That is not feminism. That is old-fashioned, patronising sexism in a shiny populist wrapper.
Nor am I reassured by a party that wants to weaken or leave key human rights frameworks. Women rely on human rights protections too, against the state, against institutions that fail us, and against policies that treat vulnerable people as disposable. The Human Rights Act and ECHR are not just “for foreigners”. They protect British women, rape victims, domestic abuse victims, children, disabled women, lesbians, whistleblowers, prisoners, patients and families. You do not make women safer by ripping up rights and hoping the state will behave nicely afterwards.
“Restore British values” also needs unpacking. Which values? Women’s equality? Free speech? Secular law? Single-sex protections? Or a vague socially conservative fantasy in which women are expected to be grateful for male protection while our actual rights and services are ignored?
A good outcome for women would be fewer violent men walking free, properly funded refuges, police taking stalking seriously, rape cases prosecuted, sex-based spaces protected, schools being honest about safeguarding, and immigration/asylum systems that do not import or excuse misogynistic practices.
If Reform has serious, evidence-based policies on all that, fine, let’s scrutinise them. But “less immigration + British values = women safe” is far too simplistic, especially when the people saying it have a record of casual misogyny and hostility to human rights. Women should not be used as a decorative excuse for a political project that may not actually prioritise us at all.

RobinEllacotStrike · 20/05/2026 21:33

I also won’t not vote.

I find it very depressing that age 58 I’m facing voting for the least worse option for the rest of my voting life. I can’t imagine being excited or even interested in a political party at all now.

I can’t understand why people feel
so connected with today’s political parties that they would support or join one.

GaraMedouar · 20/05/2026 21:25

I’m gender critical and would never ever vote for a party which believes men can become women / grow a cervix etc …. That is definitely my red line.

RobinEllacotStrike · 20/05/2026 21:11

GC & politically homeless.
I’m increasingly becoming a single issue voter.

previously voted “left” but now don’t feel like any of the options have relevance for me now. Poor choices, polarised ideas.

like so many issues these days, I feel like we are as a society are feeling the pain of a couple of decades of this new digital online world, economy & segregation.

yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 20/05/2026 21:09

It’s probably the most important issue for me yes and I won’t vote for a party that endorses gender ideology. But I wouldn’t vote reform either - they want to scrap the equality act!

TTCbabynumber22025 · 20/05/2026 21:07

It is high on my list of deciding factors but not the only one. Really struggle to know who to vote for tbh because all the parties are terrible. I’d never vote reform though, they may be gender critical but they also seem to be anti women and have too much affiliation with Trump and I don’t want our country to be anything like America.

Upstartled · 20/05/2026 21:05

Yes. It's absolutely the most important thing to me that women are accurately represented in parliament and in our institutions as a sex class.

Furthermore, it represents a truth challenge of whether it is more important to a party to present truth as it is or how they would wish it to be. And I have no truck with the infantilisation that accompanies the latter.

That is the exact same type of party and politician who would tell the public that, say, the influence of the bond markets should be disregarded. Sounds exciting but it's divorced from reality.

RedToothBrush · 20/05/2026 21:04

Bonsaibaby · 20/05/2026 20:21

I find it interesting before Labour got in several posters were talking about holding their noses and voting Conservative, saying that under Labour everyone could self-identify etc etc and yet it was under Labour that the Supreme Court ruled that the terms 'man', 'woman' and 'sex' in the Equality Act 2010 refer to biological sex. What did Conservatives actually ENACT to convince everyone they and right wing parties were interested in women?

You don't understand democracy in the UK and how the courts are independent of political parties. Instead they are there to hold the power of politicians to account.

It's working to a point.

RedToothBrush · 20/05/2026 21:01

I am GC.
I would never vote Reform.

This is not leaving me really with any good options.

thekindoflovewemake · 20/05/2026 20:57

It’s left me politically homeless to be honest.

Yes it’s a big deal. It’s about so much more than a few people who “just want to pee”
but no, I won’t be voting for reform. I’ve no idea who I’ll vote for because I feel like none of them are worth my vote.

shuggles · 20/05/2026 20:54

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 20/05/2026 20:28

No because Reform are the worst vote for Women full stop.

Reform wants tougher controls on who comes into this country, and they want to restore British values and reduce crime so that it might actually be safe to walk through the UK's cities again. Why is that not a good outcome for women?

Imaginingdragonsagain · 20/05/2026 20:53

Firmly gender critical but would not vote for Reform.

loislovesstewie · 20/05/2026 20:52

I can't vote for anyone who thinks TWAW, or who are antisemites. I'm politically homeless. I'll probably spoil my vote.

EasternStandard · 20/05/2026 20:45

Bonsaibaby · 20/05/2026 20:21

I find it interesting before Labour got in several posters were talking about holding their noses and voting Conservative, saying that under Labour everyone could self-identify etc etc and yet it was under Labour that the Supreme Court ruled that the terms 'man', 'woman' and 'sex' in the Equality Act 2010 refer to biological sex. What did Conservatives actually ENACT to convince everyone they and right wing parties were interested in women?

As pp said Labour had nothing to do with the excellent work by FWS nor the outcome.

testmatchspecial · 20/05/2026 20:39

Are Reform GC? They have no issue with men in women’s prisons and have plans to repeal the Equality Act. Without that act women are up shit creek. What’s the evidence they actually understand the issue?

SwirlyGates · 20/05/2026 20:33

Yes, it is a line in the sand. I will NOT vote for politicians who think (or say they think) that TWAW. Once I've ruled them out, if there is no one I feel I can vote for I will spoil my ballot, and have done so twice.

AppleKatie · 20/05/2026 20:33

I think it’s fairly bloody clear that reform hate women whatever the profess

StrangerTwings · 20/05/2026 20:31

I'm GC and would never vote Reform. Previously only voted Lib Dem or Labour. Sex realism is a deciding vote for me, I don't have much faith in any parties vision or capability of delivering promises but I won't vote for anyone who cannot correctly identify what a woman is etc, if they can lie about that they can't be trusted on anything. Never voted Conservative but Kemi Badenoch is excellent on this issue. I don’t know if I would vote for them though.

RedTagAlan · 20/05/2026 20:30

The SNP were returned to power in Scotland. And my understanding is that GC people don't like them.

I would take that as an indicator that other policies are considered more important by the masses in national elections ?

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