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Lifetime Social Housing Tenancies

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 07:46

Am I wrong or being unreasonable to think that this new policy that Labour are bringing in is very unfair?

I come from a poor-ish background (as in no one in my wider family has any money). However, my mum and Dad did fairly okay and managed to move up the property ladder (through sheer hard work and sacrifice). My dad died a few years ago and so now it’s just my mom. We never received any benefits - and now my DH and I live in a house and pay a high interest rate (thanks Truss) and I don’t know if we will ever pay off our house (if I am to have children and go part time), so we will need to downsize. We don’t qualify for any benefits either but we are in the squashed middle, so we really feel it when anything rises in cost and don’t get any help.

I feel really cross that someone can benefit from social housing for a lifetime, no matter how much they go on to earn, and then if they pass away, they can pass it down as an asset.

I have a friend who’s parents came to this country, got given social housing, their children paid it off (40% discount) and now they all get to keep a £650k house in London. It doesn’t seem fair to me at all. I feel really disillusioned living in the UK.

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RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 14:43

BIossomtoes · 04/07/2025 14:36

The “value” of our house has grown by around half a million since we bought it. All unearned, tax free money. Whereas my counterpart living in social housing has no capital and will be paying rent for the rest of their life. Why would I be angry?

tax free is an interesting way to look at it - what about stamp duty when you buy and sell and if you pass away, there is inheritance tax. If you rent your house as a business, then you have capital gains tax, so I wouldn’t agree that it is tax free.

the unearned bit I agree…

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mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 14:43

Whereas my counterpart living in social housing has no capital and will be paying rent for the rest of their life.

No, not necessarily. That person, upon retirement, may be eligible for housing benefit, which can cover all or some of that (subsidised) rent.

Frequency · 04/07/2025 14:42

“No one forced me to buy a house, I could rent.” Private renting is even worse!

Yet, you are happy to force social tenants who work to better themselves into he private renting market?

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 14:40

Frequency · 04/07/2025 14:30

Home ownership is a choice. A choice which is not affordable to many.

Sorry, but I have the same amount of sympathy for homeowners having to pay their own mortgage as I would have for someone on benefits whining that they cannot afford the HPI on their brand new Ferrari.

No one forced OP to get a mortgage; if it was that risky, she could have rented privately or applied for social housing. The fact that she didn't surely proves that there are benefits to owning your own home.

Ditto the "expense" of earning a higher income. No one forced OP to get a well-paid job. If she's finding it that hard, she is well within her rights to quit, sell her home, and go and get a job at McDonald's instead.

But she did buy her own home, she did get a well-paying job because she knows full well that there are benefits to this, and now she is stamping her feet and whinging because she thinks someone is getting something she's not. It's childish and entitled.

Oh god, this is such an ignorant response it’s shocking how you cannot see it.

“No one forced me to buy a house, I could rent.” Private renting is even worse! How can you not see that someone like myself is stuck between a rock and a hard place? Not to mention that I live in the very crowded South East of England. And no, before you say it, I cannot move as all of my support system is here and I’m looking to start a family. Compared with someone in SH or AH, my circumstances are far riskier and more stressful to navigate. Your ignorance is showing.

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BIossomtoes · 04/07/2025 14:36

Bumpitybumper · 04/07/2025 14:07

The ignorance in the post is startling. .

A lifetime tenancy on a SH property with subsidised rent is a unique benefit that has no comparison. Home ownership is far more expensive and risky in comparison.

Look at the previous three years and compare someone that was allocated a SH property with a lifetime tenancy and someone that has bought a property on a comparable property. The home owner will have paid much more money to live in their home, have probably had to remortgage and face even higher payments and probably seen the value of their property plummet and will be in negative equity. They will have paid very little of the principle sum of the property (assuming they don't have an interest only mortgage), paid stamp duty and conveyancing costs and paid an awful lot of interest. They also will be responsible for any maintenance required on the property and if they lose their job (reasonably likely in this current environment) then the government at most will step in and loan them money for the mortgage which would have to be repaid with interest. Meanwhile the SH tenant can pay their subsidised rent without such concerns, often relying on HB to cover some or all of the cost. It's shocking how you can't see why people are angry!

The “value” of our house has grown by around half a million since we bought it. All unearned, tax free money. Whereas my counterpart living in social housing has no capital and will be paying rent for the rest of their life. Why would I be angry?

Frequency · 04/07/2025 14:30

Home ownership is a choice. A choice which is not affordable to many.

Sorry, but I have the same amount of sympathy for homeowners having to pay their own mortgage as I would have for someone on benefits whining that they cannot afford the HPI on their brand new Ferrari.

No one forced OP to get a mortgage; if it was that risky, she could have rented privately or applied for social housing. The fact that she didn't surely proves that there are benefits to owning your own home.

Ditto the "expense" of earning a higher income. No one forced OP to get a well-paid job. If she's finding it that hard, she is well within her rights to quit, sell her home, and go and get a job at McDonald's instead.

But she did buy her own home, she did get a well-paying job because she knows full well that there are benefits to this, and now she is stamping her feet and whinging because she thinks someone is getting something she's not. It's childish and entitled.

Bumpitybumper · 04/07/2025 14:07

Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:33

But why do you believe you should be entitled to have the government pay for an asset that you will fully own and could potentially profit from down the line?

You already have exactly what you say you don't have, which is safe and secure housing and a safety net if you need it.

You cannot honestly believe that other taxpayers, including many who could only ever dream of owning their own home, should pay your mortgage for you if you lose your job? not just pay enough so that you don't lose your home (because that support is already there), but to pay towards the cost of you eventually owning it?

The ignorance in the post is startling. .

A lifetime tenancy on a SH property with subsidised rent is a unique benefit that has no comparison. Home ownership is far more expensive and risky in comparison.

Look at the previous three years and compare someone that was allocated a SH property with a lifetime tenancy and someone that has bought a property on a comparable property. The home owner will have paid much more money to live in their home, have probably had to remortgage and face even higher payments and probably seen the value of their property plummet and will be in negative equity. They will have paid very little of the principle sum of the property (assuming they don't have an interest only mortgage), paid stamp duty and conveyancing costs and paid an awful lot of interest. They also will be responsible for any maintenance required on the property and if they lose their job (reasonably likely in this current environment) then the government at most will step in and loan them money for the mortgage which would have to be repaid with interest. Meanwhile the SH tenant can pay their subsidised rent without such concerns, often relying on HB to cover some or all of the cost. It's shocking how you can't see why people are angry!

MaturingCheeseball · 04/07/2025 12:23

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway You didn’t read my post with any comprehension at all. Did you really think I’d asked for a council house?!

mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 12:13

Again, mentioned previously that the SMI loan - which you pay interest on - isn’t comparable to housing benefit.

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 11:40

I am not expecting the government to pay for my house btw @Frequency its our responsibility - I am merely highlighting the unfairness and injustice of the SYSTEM.

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RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 11:38

Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:33

But why do you believe you should be entitled to have the government pay for an asset that you will fully own and could potentially profit from down the line?

You already have exactly what you say you don't have, which is safe and secure housing and a safety net if you need it.

You cannot honestly believe that other taxpayers, including many who could only ever dream of owning their own home, should pay your mortgage for you if you lose your job? not just pay enough so that you don't lose your home (because that support is already there), but to pay towards the cost of you eventually owning it?

But why do you believe you should be entitled to have the government pay for an asset that you will fully own and could potentially profit from down the line?

the same could be said for right to buy!! Why do they get that for essentially next to nothing?

I may never fully own the property that I am in - also I pay a lot in interest.

I am sorry but I don’t agree with you that it’s a safe and secure housing. As previously said - if anything happens to myself and my DH in terms of our jobs or our health, then we are screwed. This is before we even have kids.

On another thread, a pp explained it well in that, a lot of us are paying for very expensive housing AND paying loads in tax and NI etc while not being able to afford children or the amount of children we want, while those in SH or AH can have as many as they like.

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Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:33

But why do you believe you should be entitled to have the government pay for an asset that you will fully own and could potentially profit from down the line?

You already have exactly what you say you don't have, which is safe and secure housing and a safety net if you need it.

You cannot honestly believe that other taxpayers, including many who could only ever dream of owning their own home, should pay your mortgage for you if you lose your job? not just pay enough so that you don't lose your home (because that support is already there), but to pay towards the cost of you eventually owning it?

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 11:24

Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:15

I don't understand why people believe there is no support for homeowners who lose their jobs. That's simply not true.

https://www.whatmortgage.co.uk/remortgage/unemployment-how-to-manage-your-mortgage-if-you-lose-your-job/

There is insurance, mortgage holidays, and government support.

If you have a mortgage and have opted not to take insurance, that's your problem, not social tenants'.

Products such as health insurance, income protection, life insurance etc are all at the added expense of the mortgage holder. More responsibility is put on mortgage holders when they already face great expense (middle earners). Do you think people with a mortgage have a magic money tree? Your attitude kinda stinks and is unempathetic to those of us who face great costs.

Interest only isn’t great either nor is a mortgage holiday. They are good temporary fixes I agree - but it’s still at expense of the mortgage holder.

These are not benefits provided by the state. We are just completely self-sufficient. We pay taxes, but we aren’t really protected. UC or HB won’t cover our mortgage.

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RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 11:19

Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:15

I don't understand why people believe there is no support for homeowners who lose their jobs. That's simply not true.

https://www.whatmortgage.co.uk/remortgage/unemployment-how-to-manage-your-mortgage-if-you-lose-your-job/

There is insurance, mortgage holidays, and government support.

If you have a mortgage and have opted not to take insurance, that's your problem, not social tenants'.

where was I blaming social housing tenants @Frequency ?

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Frequency · 04/07/2025 11:15

I don't understand why people believe there is no support for homeowners who lose their jobs. That's simply not true.

https://www.whatmortgage.co.uk/remortgage/unemployment-how-to-manage-your-mortgage-if-you-lose-your-job/

There is insurance, mortgage holidays, and government support.

If you have a mortgage and have opted not to take insurance, that's your problem, not social tenants'.

Unemployment: How to manage your mortgage if you lose your job

If you are facing the prospect of unemployment or redundancy, one of your biggest concerns will be paying the mortgage. We’ve compiled …

https://www.whatmortgage.co.uk/remortgage/unemployment-how-to-manage-your-mortgage-if-you-lose-your-job/

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 11:05

Bumpitybumper · 04/07/2025 10:49

Exactly, it's baffling to me that this thread can have so many posters on the one hand claiming that nobody would want to live in SH with UC/HB paying the bills and then on the other hand lots of posters claiming that anyone that complains about the situation is jealous.

The reality is often somewhere in the middle. People hate to admit it but life can be much easier relying on the state than trying to be totally self sufficient (or as self sufficient as possible). Yes, you may well never get access to the finer things in life but you often have security and 'enough' to manage. Some people will actively choose this and shy away from more stressful but higher paid jobs or taking on more hours at work. We see threads where people basically admit this on a daily basis. In the context, there is a sense of jealousy and to some extent injustice attached to those that took the easier path and have benefitted from it. I think this is especially true for those that feel they have sacrificed a lot to try and make something of themselves but they have ended up no better off financially (and potentially worse off) than those that didn't even try. This is completely normal and easy to understand. We instinctively feel like hard work and sacrifice should be rewarded.

You’ve basically summarised everything I’ve been thinking / feeling.

It’s the security of social housing that I envy.

If I lose my job tomorrow, my DH and I are in trouble. We’ve recently bought our house, so we are now trying to build our savings pot back up. It’s stressful, and yes, we do get some luxuries (at times) but we have to work hard, hard, hard for this. We both have two jobs. Our pay is eaten up by mortgage, council tax, food, tax etc. All whilst paying taxes and supporting others who do not work at all.

Also I don’t think those in SH or AH are affected by things like interest rates (cheers Liz Truss). They are safer. It just feels like hard work & stress isn’t actually worth it at this level tbh. I only relate to people in a similar position to me. Those that are wealthy have a cushioning, and those in receipt of a benefit (social housing or affordable housing is a benefit) have cushioning too!

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RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 10:59

Thank you @Bumpitybumper @Badbadbunny @mylovedoesitgood

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RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 10:58

Frequency · 04/07/2025 10:51

The state steps in if people can't pay their mortgage because of unemployment to the tune of a quarter of a million pounds.

Also, council tenants can be evicted if they don't pay their rent. They are in exactly the same position as homeowners, in that respect, except they don't get a very valuable asset at the end of it all.

“They are in exactly the same position as homeowners.”

Absolutely not!! To say they are is laughable and quite frankly insulting.

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mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 10:57

Frequency · 04/07/2025 10:51

The state steps in if people can't pay their mortgage because of unemployment to the tune of a quarter of a million pounds.

Also, council tenants can be evicted if they don't pay their rent. They are in exactly the same position as homeowners, in that respect, except they don't get a very valuable asset at the end of it all.

Being on Universal Credit won’t pay your mortgage, though. Homeowners aren’t entitled to housing benefit, which was discussed earlier in this thread. So, no, it’s not the same at all.

Frequency · 04/07/2025 10:51

mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 10:39

I promise you, the more you earn, the easier life is. The people struggling on UC and housing benefits are not better off than homeowners, even homeowners who've overstretched themslves on their mortage and are now looking to shift the blame for the poor financial choices to people less fortunate.

That’s a simplistic and binary picture you’re painting, which isn’t helpful. I can imagine that there is huge comfort knowing that you have secure housing for the rest of your life and that if you can’t pay your rent the state will step in. And you may pass down your council property to someone because of the succession process.

The state steps in if people can't pay their mortgage because of unemployment to the tune of a quarter of a million pounds.

Also, council tenants can be evicted if they don't pay their rent. They are in exactly the same position as homeowners, in that respect, except they don't get a very valuable asset at the end of it all.

Bumpitybumper · 04/07/2025 10:49

mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 10:39

I promise you, the more you earn, the easier life is. The people struggling on UC and housing benefits are not better off than homeowners, even homeowners who've overstretched themslves on their mortage and are now looking to shift the blame for the poor financial choices to people less fortunate.

That’s a simplistic and binary picture you’re painting, which isn’t helpful. I can imagine that there is huge comfort knowing that you have secure housing for the rest of your life and that if you can’t pay your rent the state will step in. And you may pass down your council property to someone because of the succession process.

Exactly, it's baffling to me that this thread can have so many posters on the one hand claiming that nobody would want to live in SH with UC/HB paying the bills and then on the other hand lots of posters claiming that anyone that complains about the situation is jealous.

The reality is often somewhere in the middle. People hate to admit it but life can be much easier relying on the state than trying to be totally self sufficient (or as self sufficient as possible). Yes, you may well never get access to the finer things in life but you often have security and 'enough' to manage. Some people will actively choose this and shy away from more stressful but higher paid jobs or taking on more hours at work. We see threads where people basically admit this on a daily basis. In the context, there is a sense of jealousy and to some extent injustice attached to those that took the easier path and have benefitted from it. I think this is especially true for those that feel they have sacrificed a lot to try and make something of themselves but they have ended up no better off financially (and potentially worse off) than those that didn't even try. This is completely normal and easy to understand. We instinctively feel like hard work and sacrifice should be rewarded.

Badbadbunny · 04/07/2025 10:44

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 08:07

Agree, but how is this helping the housing crisis as such as well? Social housing should be for those who need it. If you’re then in a position to buy or rent, then that you should do.

I agree.

It's basically yet another "benefit" for the lucky minority.

ALL benefits need to be means-tested and only provided to those who NEED them, not those who "want" them or those who've been lucky in the past.

mylovedoesitgood · 04/07/2025 10:39

I promise you, the more you earn, the easier life is. The people struggling on UC and housing benefits are not better off than homeowners, even homeowners who've overstretched themslves on their mortage and are now looking to shift the blame for the poor financial choices to people less fortunate.

That’s a simplistic and binary picture you’re painting, which isn’t helpful. I can imagine that there is huge comfort knowing that you have secure housing for the rest of your life and that if you can’t pay your rent the state will step in. And you may pass down your council property to someone because of the succession process.

Frequency · 04/07/2025 10:19

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 10:05

I wouldn’t mind living in a safe and secure home either - but I have to work hard, and long hours to be able to pay my bills and my mortgage. I spent a long time saving for a deposit for my home too, often working 2-3 jobs at a time. Yes, I am angry it is not a level playing field, and I still maintain my point that the middle classes get a bad, bad hand in this country. We qualify for nothing, and if we want or need anything else, we have to work harder. It isn’t fair, and I wish there was more support for people like myself, my friends and family, and other people in a similar position.

Low income jobs are and can be hard work as well, but it’s not the same level or type of stress safe in the knowing that they won’t lose their home at the end of the day 👍

Tell me you've never struggled on NMW as a family without telling me you've never struggled on NMW as a family.

I've tried all sides of the coin, unemployed and on benefits when I first left DH, employed on NMW as a single mother, employed on a decent, professional wage.

I promise you, the more you earn, the easier life is. The people struggling on UC and housing benefits are not better off than homeowners, even homeowners who've overstretched themslves on their mortage and are now looking to shift the blame for the poor financial choices to people less fortunate.

RowsOfFlowers · 04/07/2025 10:05

I wouldn’t mind living in a safe and secure home either - but I have to work hard, and long hours to be able to pay my bills and my mortgage. I spent a long time saving for a deposit for my home too, often working 2-3 jobs at a time. Yes, I am angry it is not a level playing field, and I still maintain my point that the middle classes get a bad, bad hand in this country. We qualify for nothing, and if we want or need anything else, we have to work harder. It isn’t fair, and I wish there was more support for people like myself, my friends and family, and other people in a similar position.

Low income jobs are and can be hard work as well, but it’s not the same level or type of stress safe in the knowing that they won’t lose their home at the end of the day 👍

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