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Lifetime Social Housing Tenancies

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 07:46

Am I wrong or being unreasonable to think that this new policy that Labour are bringing in is very unfair?

I come from a poor-ish background (as in no one in my wider family has any money). However, my mum and Dad did fairly okay and managed to move up the property ladder (through sheer hard work and sacrifice). My dad died a few years ago and so now it’s just my mom. We never received any benefits - and now my DH and I live in a house and pay a high interest rate (thanks Truss) and I don’t know if we will ever pay off our house (if I am to have children and go part time), so we will need to downsize. We don’t qualify for any benefits either but we are in the squashed middle, so we really feel it when anything rises in cost and don’t get any help.

I feel really cross that someone can benefit from social housing for a lifetime, no matter how much they go on to earn, and then if they pass away, they can pass it down as an asset.

I have a friend who’s parents came to this country, got given social housing, their children paid it off (40% discount) and now they all get to keep a £650k house in London. It doesn’t seem fair to me at all. I feel really disillusioned living in the UK.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:21

gamerchick · 26/06/2025 14:19

No dear you don't get me that way. You're obviously here pulling out leg, get maximum froth with your bingo card. Bless you, you don't even know SH are rentals.

It's not those in SHs fault you didn't grow up in one.

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I can’t even understand what you’re trying to say.

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gamerchick · 26/06/2025 14:19

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:12

I think your response is pathetic 🤣 Absolutely no critical thinking whatsoever, just judgement and name-calling. Thanks for such a useful contribution to this discussion…

No dear you don't get me that way. You're obviously here pulling out leg, get maximum froth with your bingo card. Bless you, you don't even know SH are rentals.

It's not those in SHs fault you didn't grow up in one.

Bumpitybumper · 26/06/2025 14:14

Itsnothealthy · 26/06/2025 14:04

That's what i don't understand people choose to get a mortgage knowing there are risks then us social housing tenants get the blame. Or told its not fair.

This is disgusting! You know damn well that many people take out mortgages because they can't access social housing and need some housing security and to save a bit of money. You can't sit there in your lifetime assured social housing and talk about the risk associated with taking out a mortgage when you know full well that you are in the least risky position possible thanks to the tax payer. This two tier system is unfair! You are being subsidised by everyone else and then act as if other people should be glad to do this for you whilst also be totally delighted that their options are either taking their chances in the private rental market or taking on a mortgage.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:14

I hate how people on this thread are trying to silence those of us in seemingly “privileged” positions who live in houses or have mortgages. Almost like we are not entitled to our own thoughts and feelings… I am part of the electorate too you know, just like all of you.

Like I will repeat time and time again - I am not criticising those in social housing, I am critical of the system.

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:12

gamerchick · 26/06/2025 14:10

They are rentals and this has always been the case.

There's was nothing stopping your parents from applying

If home ownership isn't for you then sell the bloody thing and rent for the rest of your life.

Always looking in the neighbours pot to check then don't have more than you, human nature. It's pathetic the way people go on.

I think your response is pathetic 🤣 Absolutely no critical thinking whatsoever, just judgement and name-calling. Thanks for such a useful contribution to this discussion…

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:10

ConflictofInterest · 26/06/2025 14:06

I disagree OP I think it's the opposite. The fair way would be social housing with lifetime tenancies for everyone. Build far more of it, and/or the government buys up all the private rentals and ends the horror of private renting completely. Everyone either lives their lives in a secure, lifetime tenancy, or they have the choice to buy a different kind of house if they wish but social tenancies can be a norm for most people. When my grandparents married in the 1950's the first thing they did, like all sensible working class people at the time was put their name down for a council house in a beautiful new build council estate with playgrounds and libraries and communities. This should be what we aspire to have for everyone now. End the struggle for basic survival and we can all achieve far more with our lives.

This is absolutely not the norm now though, is it? We don’t have beautiful new build council estates. And if you put your name down, you’re waiting 5+ years and in temporary accommodation - often trumped by people spitting out children.

If the government were to build loads more, that will take years, and years.

I really don’t like being compared to the golden era of the 1950s. There was a much lower population then as well.

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gamerchick · 26/06/2025 14:10

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 08:07

Agree, but how is this helping the housing crisis as such as well? Social housing should be for those who need it. If you’re then in a position to buy or rent, then that you should do.

They are rentals and this has always been the case.

There's was nothing stopping your parents from applying

If home ownership isn't for you then sell the bloody thing and rent for the rest of your life.

Always looking in the neighbours pot to check then don't have more than you, human nature. It's pathetic the way people go on.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 14:08

Frateletheboss · 26/06/2025 14:05

All we can do is laugh at the absurdity put a thread like this up and people tell you you should of "chose better" and should of got a council house or a rich husband yourself.

If you were to put up a thread saying you intended to marry a man for money you'd get denounced as a gold-digger. And God only knows the response if you put up a thread mentioning your plans to get a council house (would involve living in a bed and breakfast for over 5 years with your children so by the time it was over they'd definitely remember that shit)

You cannot win on mumsnet 😂

Nope, you absolutely cannot. Everyone wants to stick the knife in!

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ConflictofInterest · 26/06/2025 14:06

I disagree OP I think it's the opposite. The fair way would be social housing with lifetime tenancies for everyone. Build far more of it, and/or the government buys up all the private rentals and ends the horror of private renting completely. Everyone either lives their lives in a secure, lifetime tenancy, or they have the choice to buy a different kind of house if they wish but social tenancies can be a norm for most people. When my grandparents married in the 1950's the first thing they did, like all sensible working class people at the time was put their name down for a council house in a beautiful new build council estate with playgrounds and libraries and communities. This should be what we aspire to have for everyone now. End the struggle for basic survival and we can all achieve far more with our lives.

fixingmylife · 26/06/2025 14:05

Surely when people enter in to mortgages they are aware that interest rates can go up or down? Yes, I know Truss was a disaster and left many, many people in difficult circumstances, but I still think they probably should have been aware. Interest rates have been much higher than this in the past.

Frateletheboss · 26/06/2025 14:05

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 13:53

Thank you @Frateletheboss

It is crazy when you consider the complete double standards on this thread.

complete support for those in receipt of benefits and free housing, but absolutely none if you don’t qualify. Oh no, everything is my fault because I have made bad choices, apparently. No, we are both hard-working and decent people who contribute to society and pay a lot in taxes. I am not going to apologise for my feelings when they are completely justified in what is fast becoming a very unjust society.

And considering reproducing with someone simply for money is vile 🥴 even worded like that makes me cringe…

All we can do is laugh at the absurdity put a thread like this up and people tell you you should of "chose better" and should of got a council house or a rich husband yourself.

If you were to put up a thread saying you intended to marry a man for money you'd get denounced as a gold-digger. And God only knows the response if you put up a thread mentioning your plans to get a council house (would involve living in a bed and breakfast for over 5 years with your children so by the time it was over they'd definitely remember that shit)

You cannot win on mumsnet 😂

Itsnothealthy · 26/06/2025 14:04

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:42

That was your choice

That's what i don't understand people choose to get a mortgage knowing there are risks then us social housing tenants get the blame. Or told its not fair.

Bumpitybumper · 26/06/2025 14:03

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:58

You can stamp your feet all you like but the tenancies are for life. That’s the rule. If you want to see it changed stand for your local council and try to get elected to parliament then you can implement change.

No, I can vote for a political party that represents my views. I'm sure one will come along soon enough as I would bet the majority of the population don't support lifetime tenancies.

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:58

Bumpitybumper · 26/06/2025 13:53

It's all just nonsense and red herrings. The top 1% won't stay in a country that has a punitive tax regime. Not when the rest of the world is crying out for wealthy people to move to their country and will incentivise them to do so. Look at the mass exodus from the UK and Europe already of the wealthy. You are in real danger of shooting the golden goose. You can argue about the ethical rights and wrongs of wealth distribution all you like, but policy has to be rooted in reality. We cannot realistically tax the super wealthy enough to fund everything that the masses feel they are entitled to.

So again the question is asked, if social housing will continue to be a scarce resource then who should be entitled to it? Those who happen to have acquired a lifetime tenancy at some point in their lives but are now totally capable of supporting themselves in the private rental market or even purchasing a property OR the poorest in society? It really is an either-or question. You can't answer both and then pretend we can magic up enough social housing through taxing some mythical immobile billionaires.

Just to add, of course people that have have overstretched themselves to buy a house will be bitter when they see people earning more than them enjoying subsidised housing that they and other tax payers are contributing towards. It is intrinsically and inherently unfair. That's why lifetime tenancies need to be banned. Creating a two tier housing system where it is actually financially beneficial to manufacture a situation where you are poor for a few years to get a lifetime tenancy and then begin to build a career in the full knowledge that you can enjoy subsidised housing for the rest of your life is bonkers.

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You can stamp your feet all you like but the tenancies are for life. That’s the rule. If you want to see it changed stand for your local council and try to get elected to parliament then you can implement change.

cheezncrackers · 26/06/2025 13:57

YANBU. I think if you need social housing, that's fine, but I don't believe in anyone having a lifetime tenancy on any property, I think tenants should move to more suitably sized homes as their families grow and then shrink again and when the tenant dies the property should revert to the council to house more people that need it. If social housing was built with many different property sizes/types in each development then people wouldn't have to move away from family, friends, jobs, schools, etc, if they needed to up or downsize.

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 13:53

Frateletheboss · 26/06/2025 13:48

Sorry but your original comment was batshittery, implying everything was ops fault/bad life choices as if she could easily of just chosen to live a council house when in most areas that would involve 5+ years of living in assorted bed and breakfasts or hostels.
Or as if she should and could of easily snagged a wealthy man, rich men can tell when a woman just sees them as a walking ATM machine.

Op is not unreasonable to fall in love with her man who works a regular job and to want to have children together in a regular house without breaking the bank.

Idk why it was deleted because it wasn't offensive more just crazy

Thank you @Frateletheboss

It is crazy when you consider the complete double standards on this thread.

complete support for those in receipt of benefits and free housing, but absolutely none if you don’t qualify. Oh no, everything is my fault because I have made bad choices, apparently. No, we are both hard-working and decent people who contribute to society and pay a lot in taxes. I am not going to apologise for my feelings when they are completely justified in what is fast becoming a very unjust society.

And considering reproducing with someone simply for money is vile 🥴 even worded like that makes me cringe…

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Bumpitybumper · 26/06/2025 13:53

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:42

In response to your boring first paragraph yes, people should have the right to all the things you list. If the wealthy didn’t do all they could to avoid paying tax then maybe things would look very different and when I say wealthy I’m not talking about those that consider themselves high earners. I’m talking about the 1% that have 80% of the wealth. Just to add, I’ve found that most of those that pick over the rights and wrongs of social housing have usually overstretched themselves with a big mortgage that they’re now enslaved to. Most of it’s pure jealousy

It's all just nonsense and red herrings. The top 1% won't stay in a country that has a punitive tax regime. Not when the rest of the world is crying out for wealthy people to move to their country and will incentivise them to do so. Look at the mass exodus from the UK and Europe already of the wealthy. You are in real danger of shooting the golden goose. You can argue about the ethical rights and wrongs of wealth distribution all you like, but policy has to be rooted in reality. We cannot realistically tax the super wealthy enough to fund everything that the masses feel they are entitled to.

So again the question is asked, if social housing will continue to be a scarce resource then who should be entitled to it? Those who happen to have acquired a lifetime tenancy at some point in their lives but are now totally capable of supporting themselves in the private rental market or even purchasing a property OR the poorest in society? It really is an either-or question. You can't answer both and then pretend we can magic up enough social housing through taxing some mythical immobile billionaires.

Just to add, of course people that have have overstretched themselves to buy a house will be bitter when they see people earning more than them enjoying subsidised housing that they and other tax payers are contributing towards. It is intrinsically and inherently unfair. That's why lifetime tenancies need to be banned. Creating a two tier housing system where it is actually financially beneficial to manufacture a situation where you are poor for a few years to get a lifetime tenancy and then begin to build a career in the full knowledge that you can enjoy subsidised housing for the rest of your life is bonkers.

Frateletheboss · 26/06/2025 13:48

batt3nb3rg · 26/06/2025 13:03

Did I? I assume you’re talking about me, and if so, I said social housing tenants are not to blame for you overextending yourself and taking on a mortgage you can’t comfortably afford, and that you should probably spend more time thinking of ways your husband can increase his income so you can have more than six months of maternity leave rather than wishing worse circumstances on other people because you’re not happy with your housing situation.

I know from personal experience with a person who thinks and expresses their discontent like you, that it’s very tiring to be around. They always have it worse than everybody, and so instead of spending their energy advocating for better for people like them, they bitterly wish ill on others who they see as having it “better” than them in a specific area.

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Sorry but your original comment was batshittery, implying everything was ops fault/bad life choices as if she could easily of just chosen to live a council house when in most areas that would involve 5+ years of living in assorted bed and breakfasts or hostels.
Or as if she should and could of easily snagged a wealthy man, rich men can tell when a woman just sees them as a walking ATM machine.

Op is not unreasonable to fall in love with her man who works a regular job and to want to have children together in a regular house without breaking the bank.

Idk why it was deleted because it wasn't offensive more just crazy

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:45

batt3nb3rg · 26/06/2025 13:03

Did I? I assume you’re talking about me, and if so, I said social housing tenants are not to blame for you overextending yourself and taking on a mortgage you can’t comfortably afford, and that you should probably spend more time thinking of ways your husband can increase his income so you can have more than six months of maternity leave rather than wishing worse circumstances on other people because you’re not happy with your housing situation.

I know from personal experience with a person who thinks and expresses their discontent like you, that it’s very tiring to be around. They always have it worse than everybody, and so instead of spending their energy advocating for better for people like them, they bitterly wish ill on others who they see as having it “better” than them in a specific area.

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Yep

Danikm151 · 26/06/2025 13:44

Some people are so out of touch.

Social housing rent shouldn’t be at the level of private rent. The private rental market needs to be regulated.

Landlords can charge £1000 for a property that would be £500. Because they can.

Yes some landlords their mortgage has gone up but what about the big landlords that own the properties outright? Market rent is what they can get away with.

NotOldYet · 26/06/2025 13:44

Lioncub2020 · 26/06/2025 13:10

You won't be paying to their council tax. You would be reducing the subsidy you take from them.

What subsidy?

I think you've misunderstood - many do.

Housing may be subsidised by housing benefit. If someone is in receipt of housing benefit its possible they're actually costing the taxpayer less if they are in council housing rather than private rental.

But council tenants do not receive cheaper rent because its subsidised by the tax payer. They receive cheaper rent because the aim of social housing is to house people, not to make a profit.

They pay what its costs. A little more actually. Now, if the councils were allowed to spend the money made when someone buys their property, on building additional properties for social rent, then we wouldn't be in the mess we are now.

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:42

Duckyfondant · 26/06/2025 13:29

As someone with a mortgage in a street of council houses, I agree that's it's very unfair. The council renters are so obviously better off than we are. It really grinds you down.

That was your choice

MyKingdomForACat · 26/06/2025 13:42

Bumpitybumper · 26/06/2025 11:02

It is so boring to read responses like this. They simply aren't rooted in reality. It's like people saying that all children should receive a fantastic education, no person should live in poverty and that everyone should have access to excellent healthcare. It assumes that there are no constraints and there is infinite money and resource.

NIMBYism isn't the only reason why we don't have enough social housing. Not even by half. You might have noticed that not enough housing is even being built for profit, let alone social housing. We are a country that is an enormous amount of government debt. We pay 2/3rds of the NHS budget just to service this debt each year. We don't have the money to fund all the social housing that people want. We don't have the skilled labour require to build the houses. Landowners won't just give away their land for free, materials are expensive and skilled workers charge an awful lot. This is why I'm many areas of the country it is hard to get a developer to sign up to developing the land with a large amount of non social housing on it that they can sell for profit. Even in this context there isn't the profit margin in it for them. You are dreaming if you think we can just put up a load of social housing.

So in this actual real life context, what do we do with the limited amount of social housing we have? Who do we allocate it to? If we give it to someone for life then there are potentially multiple other families who will miss out on social housing when they most need it.

In response to your boring first paragraph yes, people should have the right to all the things you list. If the wealthy didn’t do all they could to avoid paying tax then maybe things would look very different and when I say wealthy I’m not talking about those that consider themselves high earners. I’m talking about the 1% that have 80% of the wealth. Just to add, I’ve found that most of those that pick over the rights and wrongs of social housing have usually overstretched themselves with a big mortgage that they’re now enslaved to. Most of it’s pure jealousy

RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 13:31

I am glad there’s a bit more balance in terms of opinions on this thread!

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RowsOfFlowers · 26/06/2025 13:31

Duckyfondant · 26/06/2025 13:29

As someone with a mortgage in a street of council houses, I agree that's it's very unfair. The council renters are so obviously better off than we are. It really grinds you down.

It does :(

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