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Any American Mumsnetters around?

134 replies

Wildflowers99 · 28/02/2025 19:02

To have a respectful discussion about Trump. Did you expect him to act in the way he has? Are you happy with it? What’s the mood towards him over there?

I’m completely speechless at his ambush of Zelenskyy tonight and just trying to understand how this has come about, and whether he has support to continue acting in this way. He was obviously chosen to be President by the public but I assume they would never have guessed how the last few weeks would have gone.

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Maitri108 · 01/03/2025 14:41

BourbonsAreOverated · 01/03/2025 14:13

this is what I just can’t get my head around. How did it flip?

Some people simply believe everything they're told and haven't learnt critical thinking. This is compounded by the ownership of the media by a handful of rich men with an agenda.

I've been watching it happen since Brexit. People were told to distrust whatever they were told by politicians, experts and mainstream media.

They were told that words no longer meant what they used to.

There's now an information vacuum which can be filled with whatever these powerful men want: money and more power.

People like Trump and Putin want to control the world and its resources. Putin hates the West and wants to destroy it, he wants to build an empire. Other dictators and the far right are rubbing their hands.

BourbonsAreOverated · 01/03/2025 14:13

Maitri108 · 01/03/2025 12:44

It's very interesting. Reds under the bed and the 'commie' threat has been a big part of American culture for decades. All Trump did, when he wasn't calling her names, was call Harris a 'commie'.

Now Trump and Putin are mutually masturbating. We all know that Putin isn't a commie but I doubt Trump voters know that.

this is what I just can’t get my head around. How did it flip?

Maitri108 · 01/03/2025 12:44

BourbonsAreOverated · 01/03/2025 08:27

What amazes me is the fact America has been anti Russia for decades. They’ve always been the bad guy, even in rocky.
yet some are happy to swallow the lies trumps told about who started it.
suddenly Russia is the good guy.

It's very interesting. Reds under the bed and the 'commie' threat has been a big part of American culture for decades. All Trump did, when he wasn't calling her names, was call Harris a 'commie'.

Now Trump and Putin are mutually masturbating. We all know that Putin isn't a commie but I doubt Trump voters know that.

PandoraSox · 01/03/2025 09:37

Adamante · 01/03/2025 06:56

Hey Americans, mostly we Brits sneer at you, laugh at you and mock your culture (especially here on MN), yet are happy to accept your huge defence presence and protection with all that that costs you, financially and in the lives of your men and women. But now we are really pissed off, scared and resentful that you’re pulling back on that and it makes us feel vulnerable. How do you feel about it?

A few questions for you.

Why was NATO formed? Why does Trump now resent the defence spending that being part of NATO entails? What has changed? Is it simply that Trump wants to cut the USA's contributions so that he can use that money to look after the ordinary people of the USA better?

I'd really like to hear your views.

BourbonsAreOverated · 01/03/2025 08:28

justinhawkinsnavalfluff · 01/03/2025 08:24

Yeah let's go with we only help you if we get something out of it - war profiteering as its known.

He treats it as a business deal. Picking sides on who will give the best (immediate) return to the USA tax payer.

only it’s not quite like that when your the leader of a country is it

BourbonsAreOverated · 01/03/2025 08:27

What amazes me is the fact America has been anti Russia for decades. They’ve always been the bad guy, even in rocky.
yet some are happy to swallow the lies trumps told about who started it.
suddenly Russia is the good guy.

justinhawkinsnavalfluff · 01/03/2025 08:24

Yeah let's go with we only help you if we get something out of it - war profiteering as its known.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 01/03/2025 08:16

Wildflowers99 · 01/03/2025 07:31

I’m aware, and I appreciate it. I really do. It’s not that I feel Trump ‘doesn’t have a leg to stand on’, I understand and appreciate everything he said to a degree.

The USA is the richest country in the world, and also a liberal democracy. This inherently means spending more when it comes to foreign policy as there are a LOT of countries who inherently disagree with your way of life (Islamic countries, Russia, China). You can’t have the great power you want without great responsibility - hence the UK (smaller) not having the clout you do which you wielded in the Oval Office last night. One cannot exist without the other, it’s a symbiosis. You can’t be the biggest/richest country yet stay out of all matters that don’t concern you, unless you want the rest of the world eaten up by dictators and to eventually allow them to become bigger and richer (and whose assistance will you call on then?). It isn’t a threat, it’s the nature of being vulnerable - it’s just as a European country we understand that far better.

The US is bankrupt as are we.

Do you have any idea how much debt the US has?

Wildflowers99 · 01/03/2025 07:31

IMustDoMoreExercise · 01/03/2025 07:06

Good point.

The trouble is that most people on MN have no idea how much the US has supported us and the EU financially and don't really care.

I’m aware, and I appreciate it. I really do. It’s not that I feel Trump ‘doesn’t have a leg to stand on’, I understand and appreciate everything he said to a degree.

The USA is the richest country in the world, and also a liberal democracy. This inherently means spending more when it comes to foreign policy as there are a LOT of countries who inherently disagree with your way of life (Islamic countries, Russia, China). You can’t have the great power you want without great responsibility - hence the UK (smaller) not having the clout you do which you wielded in the Oval Office last night. One cannot exist without the other, it’s a symbiosis. You can’t be the biggest/richest country yet stay out of all matters that don’t concern you, unless you want the rest of the world eaten up by dictators and to eventually allow them to become bigger and richer (and whose assistance will you call on then?). It isn’t a threat, it’s the nature of being vulnerable - it’s just as a European country we understand that far better.

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Wildflowers99 · 01/03/2025 07:27

It’s devastating.

What I can’t get over is his position that ‘nobody ever does anything for the USA’.

We followed them into the Iraq war after 9/11, and made ourselves a target for repeated terrorist attacks after; as well as spending billions of ££ (that we can much less absorb) and who knows how many soldiers lives.

Russia is NOT a US ally, they are a Trump ally. And would not support the US in a conflict.

The US cannot exist as a solitary country under an iron dome surrounded by enemies. Israel is having a tough time existing like this and its enemies are much much smaller.

I wish there could be some long term thinking.

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ZippyDoodle · 01/03/2025 07:11

Putin

ZippyDoodle · 01/03/2025 07:09

I'm not American but I feel embarrassed for them. Shocking behaviour in the Oval Office. Trump was perfectly pleasant to a put in. I think the situation with Zelensky was planned.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 01/03/2025 07:06

Adamante · 01/03/2025 06:56

Hey Americans, mostly we Brits sneer at you, laugh at you and mock your culture (especially here on MN), yet are happy to accept your huge defence presence and protection with all that that costs you, financially and in the lives of your men and women. But now we are really pissed off, scared and resentful that you’re pulling back on that and it makes us feel vulnerable. How do you feel about it?

Good point.

The trouble is that most people on MN have no idea how much the US has supported us and the EU financially and don't really care.

Adamante · 01/03/2025 06:56

Hey Americans, mostly we Brits sneer at you, laugh at you and mock your culture (especially here on MN), yet are happy to accept your huge defence presence and protection with all that that costs you, financially and in the lives of your men and women. But now we are really pissed off, scared and resentful that you’re pulling back on that and it makes us feel vulnerable. How do you feel about it?

Slavetomycat · 01/03/2025 06:49

I'm a recent American citizen, but have lived in California for four decades. I'm utterly sickened and horrified at what happened today. We keep saying we expected the worst behavior, but in truth could not have imagined this level of lunacy.

All of my circle are despairing as to what happens next. It is truly frightening.

logicisall · 01/03/2025 05:13

I would genuinely like to hear the opinion of a Trump supporter here. Unfortunately the only one in my acquaintance is totally gobsmacked at the 'display' of finger pointing and haranguing of Zelensky.

AllTheChaos · 01/03/2025 05:01

LuckyPeonies · 28/02/2025 20:53

I’ve watched quite a few ‘man in the street’ interviews with trump supporters re. the tariffs, and these people actually believed tariffs are paid by the countries they are levied against. They were horrified to find out consumers must pay them.

That is disturbing in terms of a lack of education about economics, but honestly. I suspect it would be the same here in the UK.

beachcitygirl · 01/03/2025 04:52

If it wasn't so truly awful - it would be funny.
He's stupid. Insane, deranged, sociopathic or evil.

I KNOW it's not all Americans but FFS

And wtf was Sir Flopalot Starmer the kid starved doing kissing trump ass

It's like watching a bad movie but it's real

SpuytenDuyvil · 01/03/2025 04:31

Yeah, I'm American and we are horrified, today being a particular low point. We are ashamed. Less than 30% of American adults voted for him, but here we are.

user1471492582 · 01/03/2025 04:03

I am American and I am devastated about what is going on in this country and around the world. I live in an area surrounded by Trump voters so I feel like when I go out and look around I am surrounded by stupidity. I am scared and embarrassed that Trump is the president and now I definitely did not vote for him and never would.

LuckyPeonies · 28/02/2025 21:48

1WanderingWomble · 28/02/2025 20:57

I'd like to think this is true but the cult only seems to gather steam. Are there really lot of regretful Trump voters - as in polls etc showing this? I'd love some glimmer of hope!

Growing regret does not mean they will be vocal about it, but it will reflect in next year’s midterm elections (provided we still have free elections next year). But layoffs, medicaid cuts, increased medication costs, increased costs via tariffs, continued grifting by trump, his unqualified appointments, plus the unchecked access to sensitive information given to the likes of musk & his minions, are giving pause to many.

I cannot speak for all, but my husband’s family were vocal trump supporters and, as they are now/will be personally affected, are not happy. Of course, those who are rabid trump supporters will likely never see fault.

As for polls, as far as I know, aggregate polls are the most reliable and those show approval ratings almost even with disapproval ratings, which is shocking less than two months into this administration as this should be the ‘honeymoon period’.

Zonder · 28/02/2025 21:28

1WanderingWomble · 28/02/2025 20:57

I'd like to think this is true but the cult only seems to gather steam. Are there really lot of regretful Trump voters - as in polls etc showing this? I'd love some glimmer of hope!

This is what I am wondering. I've seen some Americans saying Trump did the right thing today.

1WanderingWomble · 28/02/2025 20:57

LuckyPeonies · 28/02/2025 19:35

@Maitri108 77 million, and regret is growing amongst all, save the most rabid. The coming tariffs & cuts will sway even more.

I'd like to think this is true but the cult only seems to gather steam. Are there really lot of regretful Trump voters - as in polls etc showing this? I'd love some glimmer of hope!

LuckyPeonies · 28/02/2025 20:53

Beekeepingmum · 28/02/2025 20:05

I've not really understand why Americans aren't more anti tarrifs. Given that it is the Americans that will pay them and presumably quite a bit of what is imported is needed so it is basically an extra tax. You'd have through Republicans would be anti tax rather than loving it.

I’ve watched quite a few ‘man in the street’ interviews with trump supporters re. the tariffs, and these people actually believed tariffs are paid by the countries they are levied against. They were horrified to find out consumers must pay them.

Beekeepingmum · 28/02/2025 20:05

LuckyPeonies · 28/02/2025 19:35

@Maitri108 77 million, and regret is growing amongst all, save the most rabid. The coming tariffs & cuts will sway even more.

I've not really understand why Americans aren't more anti tarrifs. Given that it is the Americans that will pay them and presumably quite a bit of what is imported is needed so it is basically an extra tax. You'd have through Republicans would be anti tax rather than loving it.