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Legislation to ban 1st Cousin Marriage

107 replies

VisitationRights · 09/12/2024 18:41

Just saw this, Richard Holden has introduced legislation to ban 1st cousin marriage:
https://x.com/RicHolden/status/1865770931588612234

I think it is about time but wondering if the proposed legislation is likely to be supported or not.

x.com

https://x.com/RicHolden/status/1865770931588612234

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nfk · 11/12/2024 17:33

1dayatatime · 11/12/2024 15:13

@nfk

"Like the Forest of Dean, all of Norfolk, and various islands?"

Maybe you think you're being funny but I find the issue of life threatening and life changing genetic abnormalities in babies and children that could easily be avoided by changing the incest laws along with the subsequent cost to the NHS to not be particularly amusing.

Have you actually looked at the genetics in the areas most affected? Over centuries

If you assume I am taking this lightly, you are mistaken

What I do object to is people making assumptions about which communities are involved, assuming it’s a new phenomenon and overlooking those where it has been a real issue stretching back into history

Bromptotoo · 11/12/2024 16:03

Jewell25 · 11/12/2024 14:47

Labour are completely in bed with Islamist leaders in this country. It’s really concerning.

Presumably. since they did nothing to stop cousin marriage the Tories are too.

1dayatatime · 11/12/2024 15:13

@nfk

"Like the Forest of Dean, all of Norfolk, and various islands?"

Maybe you think you're being funny but I find the issue of life threatening and life changing genetic abnormalities in babies and children that could easily be avoided by changing the incest laws along with the subsequent cost to the NHS to not be particularly amusing.

nfk · 11/12/2024 15:06

Zonder · 09/12/2024 19:38

I read the other thread but didn't know there was proposed legislation. I think this is a good move but could be an issue for some communities.

Like the Forest of Dean, all of Norfolk, and various islands?

Jewell25 · 11/12/2024 14:47

Labour are completely in bed with Islamist leaders in this country. It’s really concerning.

eurochick · 11/12/2024 14:45

I'm not sure I want to build family bonds by shagging my cousins Bloody hell.

readingmakesmehappy · 10/12/2024 21:28

The only MP who spoke against it was the MP for Dewsbury who clearly has his constituents breathing down his neck. His speech is incoherent and some of his comments are plain weird: "ordinary people see family intermarriage as something that is very positive overall; as something that helps to build family bonds and puts families on a more secure financial foothold."

He wants the NHS to pay for genetic screening: "a much more positive approach would be to facilitate advanced genetic test screening for prospective married couples". How about no to that?

Whole debate is here: hansard.parliament.uk/commons/2024-12-10/debates/6A325A71-434B-42FF-AC9F-FF8C6FD85B00/Marriage(ProhibitedDegreesOfRelationship)Bill

Ludovico · 10/12/2024 20:07

1dayatatime · 10/12/2024 19:53

Either way it looks like the law will not be changed under the Labour Government:

"Downing Street said the expert advice on the risks of first-cousin marriage was clear but indicated that the government had no plans to change the law. "

Which seems strange when considering it just from a monetary perspective then it would save the NHS millions in addition to inflicting horrific disorder and early death on innocent babies and children!

Ffs. Any thing for votes!

1dayatatime · 10/12/2024 19:53

Either way it looks like the law will not be changed under the Labour Government:

"Downing Street said the expert advice on the risks of first-cousin marriage was clear but indicated that the government had no plans to change the law. "

Which seems strange when considering it just from a monetary perspective then it would save the NHS millions in addition to inflicting horrific disorder and early death on innocent babies and children!

1dayatatime · 10/12/2024 19:41

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 10/12/2024 19:23

Yes he needs to extend the incest law to cover cousins then.
If the ban is limited to 'marriage' it would not cover religious marriage that isnt registered in the UK legally.
Even so, how would the registry office know? A person could just deny that their wife was a cousin when questioned.
Would a DNA test be mandatory?

I agree that the only way is to amend the incest law.

If it is only marriage then technically a brother and sister or father and daughter could marry but simply deny at the registry office that they are related.

Ludovico · 10/12/2024 19:37

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 10/12/2024 19:23

Yes he needs to extend the incest law to cover cousins then.
If the ban is limited to 'marriage' it would not cover religious marriage that isnt registered in the UK legally.
Even so, how would the registry office know? A person could just deny that their wife was a cousin when questioned.
Would a DNA test be mandatory?

I’d ask to look at what’s being claimed at the DWP. The government now recognises polygamous marriages.

Bigamy through the back door

Ludovico · 10/12/2024 19:35

It doesn’t matter who raised it. It’s needs to be talked about. It’s horrible that so many children are being born with physical and mental disabilities because of it.

Independent MP Iqbal Mohammed standing up in the HP stating that it was unnecessary and unenforceable and that it needs cultural shift not a change in legislation - shows how out and of control this has got.

There will not be a cultural shift because the Muslim communities are allowed to keep themselves isolated and any criticism is seen as Islamophobia. Yet we are expected to pick up the financial cost of these children which will need life long care. Pakistani children have 13% higher chance of being born with disabilities than other children. 700 children are born with disabilities due to cousin marriages. 1 in 10 children of cousin marriages will die at birth or have life long medical difficulties - Many of these kids will not see their teens.

Not only that - a Muslim man can claim benefits for up to 4 wives. So whilst Bigamy is illegal in the U.K. - if the marriage takes place abroad - which is predominantly to cousins - they are allowed to claim for them back in the U.K. under polygamous marriage. This is in the DWP website.

Its got to stop.

HermioneWeasley · 10/12/2024 19:31

MP Mohammed Iqbal argued against the ban saying it’s “highly sensitive”.

he can fuck off. It’s completely irresponsible and harmful to children.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 10/12/2024 19:24

1dayatatime · 10/12/2024 19:11

How can anyone defend a practice that leads to double the levels of genetic disorders and recessive disorders.

It's barbaric to make inflict this on innocent babies and children.

The 1st cousin marriage i am aware of, not from a culture where it is typical, the couple chose not to have children. They are still happily married 25 years on and best of luck to them. They're lovely people.

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 10/12/2024 19:23

Yes he needs to extend the incest law to cover cousins then.
If the ban is limited to 'marriage' it would not cover religious marriage that isnt registered in the UK legally.
Even so, how would the registry office know? A person could just deny that their wife was a cousin when questioned.
Would a DNA test be mandatory?

1dayatatime · 10/12/2024 19:11

How can anyone defend a practice that leads to double the levels of genetic disorders and recessive disorders.

It's barbaric to make inflict this on innocent babies and children.

Bromptotoo · 10/12/2024 13:17

Double a small risk is still a small number.

I personally doubt Richard Holden's motives; I think he's dog whistling for his constituents in a very white seat.

woffley · 09/12/2024 20:25

The only way to make it illegal would be amending the incest law to include cousins.

Someone thought of that, I think they have in mind to do that.

CraftyNavySeal · 09/12/2024 20:20

taxguru · 09/12/2024 19:44

"Two Tier" Starmer will ensure it doesn't apply to "those" communities but will apply to everyone else. Or at least it won't be enforced in those communities!

Edited

He can’t anyway.

The state can only control civil marriage. It can’t control religious marriages for the same reason it can’t stop me having a Druid perform a hand fasting ceremony with me, my cat and 3 boyfriends.

The only way to make it illegal would be amending the incest law to include cousins.

CraftyNavySeal · 09/12/2024 20:13

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 20:07

I think that what may happen is that in communities where this is common there will still be religious marriage to cousins but not the legal UK marriage. This will put women in these "marriages" in even more precarious positions.

Exactly it won’t even make a difference.

Same reason there are people in this country with multiple “wives”. Bigamy is illegal but it just applied to civil marriage, does not apply to Islamic/Hindu/Sikh/Pagan hand fasting marriages.

TinyMouseTheatre · 09/12/2024 20:11

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 20:07

I think that what may happen is that in communities where this is common there will still be religious marriage to cousins but not the legal UK marriage. This will put women in these "marriages" in even more precarious positions.

Exactly. I come across Women sometimes who believe that they are in a legal marriage only to find out that they are not and as a result have nothing.

They also need to change the law in cohabiting and assets and looking into making marriages at Mosques legal.

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 20:07

I think that what may happen is that in communities where this is common there will still be religious marriage to cousins but not the legal UK marriage. This will put women in these "marriages" in even more precarious positions.

PandaChopChop · 09/12/2024 20:05

Skate76 · 09/12/2024 19:39

I thought it was already illegal 🤷‍♀️

Nope

I have cousins (first cousins to each other) who married and had children.
It was odd for all of us.
Then they divorced (very acrimoniosly)- police involvement and everything- and it lit a nuclear bomb under the family and nothing has been the same since. It's absolutely fucked!

Notaflippinclue · 09/12/2024 20:04

Halle bloody lujah

Zonder · 09/12/2024 19:48

taxguru · 09/12/2024 19:44

"Two Tier" Starmer will ensure it doesn't apply to "those" communities but will apply to everyone else. Or at least it won't be enforced in those communities!

Edited

If only the two tier title were realistic.