"we don't want to live under Communism or unelected dictatorship, that's what the EU want's to impose"
I think the biggest issue isn't so much what the EU is actually doing, but what people think it does or stands for.
Because clearly the idea of reimposing Communism or dictatorship is poles away from what the EU is about, and its Member States would find that idea deeply troubling for obvious historical reasons.
There is such a huge mire of misinformation about the EU, much of it so embedded in people's minds as the truth, that it would be virtually impossible to correct.
Though in the UK I think the British media is certainly to blame for this in part, the EU itself is very bad at communicating, despite its efforts. For some reason it rarely seems to hit on the right way to convey what it is doing to those people who are actually benefiting from it.
Of course, where EU initiatives are seen as successful, national governments like to take the credit. And where they aren't successful, the national administrations are quick to point the finger and shift any blame to Brussels. But that's politics, I suppose...