lottie before getting upset with any government for leaving vulnerable people with no support, you should be furious with the dishonest people who are defrauding the system. It is those that leave less in the pot for people who really need it and makes getting the help even harder as they try to weed out the piss-takers.
Even if they are not really consciously doing it...
In the case of disabled children, someone I know used to work in healthcare in a practice that served a poorer area. She regularly saw people who knew ideally you needed 3 children, one, at least, of which had a disability, to get the 'best' benefits. Asthma was a good one. They knew which symptoms the child should have, it couldn't really be tested for. These children never showed any symptoms other than in front of the parents. They were happy for them to be on drugs etc just to get that extra money. (One of the main reasons that she stopped doing that job, it upset her too much)
Those who think it is acceptable to live a life on benefits...are dependent and they are not necessarily 'bad people'. Basically they are doing what they think is best for their family...
These are attitudes that have developed over many, many years. And there is a mentally that is hard to get over - a mentally that the welfare state isn't where you turn in absolute desperation, a last resort - it is an expectation....
My DP has problems with his knees, works on his feet, has had an operation on his knee, takes painkillers more or less daily. He has done everything he can to 'cure' them - he isn't overweight, exercises regularly to strengthen the supporting muscles etc. Once (when he was having a bad day) he wondered about if he could stop working, claim benefits. He shouldn't have to go to work in pain most days should he - surely that isn't right?
We have savings so he wouldn't be eligible. Now I could say that was unfair, he has worked hard for his money (probably why his knees are knackered). Then again it is his safety blanket...(and I don't mean that lightly, it is a deep psychological thing).
He doesn't 'need' financial support - he could live off his savings until they'd all gone. His choice is work or spend his savings ...
He works ...and it is really hard sometimes (maybe he should look more at retraining, but has never done anything but physical work).
If he didn't have the savings he would be less inclined to...would you blame him? I think the majority of people would feel sympathy for someone in that situation (if they didn't have the savings).
But I don't think the welfare state can afford to do that and look after everyone who truly 'needs' help - has no other option at all...