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Supporting disbaled people unsustainable?

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SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 13:31

here

I hate this sort of uncertainty. I have trained part and full time for seven years now alongside two disabled kids to get to the point where I was hoping to train in social work in 2013- but if DLA vaniushes it will be unaffordable. I feel we have lived up to every Tory ideal, battling redundancy, my DH's illness and the boy's SN with constant battles to get back on line, and now I think I might just give up after all- can;t train until thenas no childcare means DH must be working from home to care and he dosn;t qualify until then, and we will need to move and cannot do so with the SNU realistically until 2013 (a SW trained where we are in Wales cannot practice in England but we need to get back to family badly for support and help, both for them as they age and us as we try and fit in work).

Working in tesco woudln't ever cover the huge costs of disability childcare.

I acknowledge that this is a left wing article, there's a thread on this in SN with a less reactionary letter from teh NAS C&P's to it, but is this how big society was meant to work? Sorry disabled people, there's no money- saldy when it comes to ds3 there's no cure either- can I never afford to die then? Will there be any care left for him?

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Nickiename · 07/12/2010 15:13

I find the fact that these wankers want to cut DLA without even knowing what it bloody well IS, makes me want to commit violence, frankly. How dare they?

SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 15:05

Of course it's true of all Sn SWC; there's a thread in SN you might have not seen that I started with an appeal wrt this from the NAS. might be worth your input too.

And LOL at teh burglars. Sort of anyway, ykwim.

DH worked through depression; it was ridiculously ahrd and he probably shouldn;t have but he was at the very severe end and we knew so many people using far less severe illness as a reason to give in. It seems if you have morals you can be easily stuffed but if you don't this probably won't be enough to stop you anyway.

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smallwhitecat · 07/12/2010 14:36

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sarah293 · 07/12/2010 14:33

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SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 14:28

You can;t see ds1's ASD (you can ds3's) but without help even the psych agreed he would end up in priosn (before discharging us, as he didn't want help- eh? I did!.
Long term he will work- I am sure of that- but it would always be employed eitehr by self or DH, he would be a liability in any other environment. He's a liability here but love makes us keep going.

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LadyBlaBlah · 07/12/2010 14:26

It is not misleading to say that IDS refers to DLA as an 'Out of Work benefit", which is why this is of no surprise at all.

sarah293 · 07/12/2010 14:24

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SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 14:18

(I also acknowledged biAS OF SOURCE IN op AS WELL)

Sod it caps, sory, ds4 being a breastfeeding obsessive at this very moment!

I mighht be feeling a little shaken which mnay well translate; I am scared to buggery, I hate uncertainty and in fact at the very elast wish they held of to Christmas- but did not attempt to mislead anyone. not my style at all.

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SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 14:14

It was a direct quote fro the article which is why I put in the ? mark

now if I said coalition says disabled people are.., I agree that would be misleading

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smallwhitecat · 07/12/2010 14:00

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SnowWoman · 07/12/2010 13:54

I cannot think coherently about this yet - how can they cut DLA, close disabled workshops and businesses, spend years refusing to provide specialist help at school, and then say our children can get on their bikes and get a job like everybody else?

SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 13:48

Scary isn't it? I never beleived in big Society as anything other than a nice little idea packaged up to cover cuts, but how severe cuts to support for children like ds3 who ahve no option of ever working can be abything other than harmful I do not know.

It took years to negotiate the last system; teh idea of facing it before his award runs out when he is 16 is terrifying. And becuase he is not in a wheelchair and has no actual LD (he cannot use the IQ he does have) he is of the type that fail the EMA assessments (he has a 2 minute attention span and is limited in his speech so is unemployable) and there's talk of legal help to go to challenge decisions being taken as well.

There's no test for ASD but am beginning to think if there had been he'd have been better off not born for his own sake because if this is the society I entrust him to when I die then he's stuffed.

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Notevenamouse · 07/12/2010 13:42

Big society is sadly a cover up for what was always the conservative moto - survival of the fittest and richest and the rest can get lost. We are in a similar position.

SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 13:33

(And I know my typing is poor sorry; always is but a little shaken at all this)

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SantasMooningArse · 07/12/2010 13:32

hread (though its for read only- MN convention is that SN is not for political argument)

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