I’ve been away for a few days and DH managed the kids and the dog just fine.
He’s upset with our cat though and says he made a real effort to bond with him by giving him treats, protecting him when our dog had the zoomies and making sure his bedding was fluffed.
DH said the cat gave nothing back, blanked him and even swatted at DH when he tried to pet him.
DH wants to know why the cat doesn’t show any gratitude. I explained to DH very carefully that the reason the cat doesn’t show any gratitude is because it is a cat.
DH says that is illogical and there must be a real reason and “it’s a cat” doesn’t cut the mustard.
YABU- Deeper reason why cat won’t show gratitude
YANBU- it’s a cat.