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Look After Your Legs

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NoisySnail · 31/03/2024 23:54

I was in a cafe today and over heard an elderly woman talking to younger friends about getting older. She said the best advice she could give is to look after your legs as they are so important for mobility. But annoyingly she did not explain what she meant by this, and I could hardly ask!

So does anyone know how we can look after our legs?

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Flittermice · 01/04/2024 14:37

Thanks so much for this thread OP.

I am a carer for my DH and am 61. I am not hugely unfit, but also not nearly as fit as I would like to be. I think I have been neglecting my own health a bit and some of the suggestions on here of things to do at home are really good. I have started going to the gym again, too, but really have to force myself to go.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 14:30

Yeah a daily plank is really not the level of fitness I am thinking about. I just want to maintain functionality. Not become a gym bunny.

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PaminaMozart · 01/04/2024 14:25

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ImWatching · 01/04/2024 14:05

These kind of threads are always full of ultra fit people who do masses of exercise. But I think there needs to be more advice for those of us who are not going to be going to a gym but want to remain functionally active.

Tom Morrison mobility. He is on TikTok but I think he’s on YouTube too. He had an awful back issue which he has managed to improve and strengthen. He does a lot about stability of joints and strengthening, a lot for hips and back/shoulders etc. I started some of his moves early last year and my mobility has improved loads, my pain has decreased. In fact it’s a relief when I do the moves as I unstiffen and am able to move more freely. I do a little sequence that takes 15 minutes at least 3 times a week, it’s been life changing for my issues.

Waitingfordoggo · 01/04/2024 13:59

I partly blame pharmaceutical companies. They push the idea that no one should be in pain doing everyday things, and that is simply not realistic.

I agree. I was walking my dog on the South Downs recently. We didn’t go right to the top of the hill on this occasion but were following a path that was about halfway up the hill. There I met a woman walking pretty slowly and using walking poles. We got chatting and it transpired she was 86. She goes halfway up the hill at least three times a week and walks for as long as she feels able- some days it might be ten minutes, other days she’s up there for longer. She had a number of health problems and said that she is usually in pain- sometimes worse than others. I was struck by her determination to just keep moving, even though it’s difficult. I imagine someone like that would be very immobile if it weren’t for the efforts she was making to keep herself active.

quizzys · 01/04/2024 13:57

Regarding the bungalow issue, I thought about it to future proof for my older age! However I decided against it. I have a downstairs loo/futility that is plumbed and electrified for a shower if I need it, so I postponed installing that also until it's necessary.

It is just so easy to use the loo downstairs, but I make a point of "galloping" up the stairs to use the main bathroom as often as I remember, so the downstairs loo area is used for visitors and storing crap. 😊

"Bungalow legs" can happen without a bungalow too.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:56

@pickledandpuzzled My DH has a blue badge. Apply anyway. You could use it only when you really need to. As councils make parking harder and harder, where I live you have to walk further from parking than before. We have been thinking of getting grab rails fitted in the shower and a few other key places for DH. But it is a mixed issue. Fit them too soon and you can lose functionality, fit too late and you can have a fall which causes serious injury. Its a hard one.

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pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 13:52

Someone asked earlier about the score on the sit stand test- it’s here:
https://www.physio-pedia.com/30_Seconds_Sit_To_Stand_Test

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:51

Just to add, the advice on this thread not to move to a bungalow until you need one is the exact opposite of the advice given on elderly parents threads. They always say people should move to a bungalow long before they need one.

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pickledandpuzzled · 01/04/2024 13:51

I eye up mobility aids often, and am thinking about applying for a bye badge for bad days. I’ll delay it a both off the back of this thread, see if i can increase my sit/kneel/stand scores instead!

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:46

@Abracadabra12345 Maybe it is about being right dominant? It has made me think maybe I need to do a few of these every day though to try and improve the left legs strength so it is easier.

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NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:45

The NHS will provide wheelchairs if you really need one. Although I know a lot of disabled people use the voucher you can get from the NHS to top it up and buy a better one. But a lot of people who are not eligible for an NHS wheelchair of any kind are buying power wheelchairs.
I partly blame pharmaceutical companies. They push the idea that no one should be in pain doing everyday things, and that is simply not realistic. Some people are in too much pain or too fatigued to walk, but people need to be encouraged to carry on regardless where they can.

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Abracadabra12345 · 01/04/2024 13:45

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 12:43

Just checked. I can get up from kneeling without using my hands, but it was harder getting up using my left leg. I will try and do this every morning and evening from now on. I know small things every day can make a big difference.
I will start moisturising the skin on my legs as well. I know skin integrity is very important.

Hey, the same! Left leg too. Weird that

Waitingfordoggo · 01/04/2024 13:39

I agree @NoisySnail. There are a lot of much younger people using them now too. What’s going on?

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:36

This is controversial, but i worry about the use of mobility scooters. I see a lot of people using them who can walk better than my DH. I think they can be useful for days when you would be walking a lot and can't, but I think they should be avoided until you really can't manage without one. I think they reduce the functionality of a lot of people.

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Waitingfordoggo · 01/04/2024 13:30

I worry a lot about the mobility and fitness of people in my age group (40s). Many have not taken care of their bodies and have always gone for the easiest and laziest options. Many of them have ‘got away with it’ up till now, because we were young enough but how mobile will these people be at 50/60/70 and beyond? The cracks are soon going to start appearing.

One of my local supermarkets has two levels so as you enter the supermarket, you have to go up one level to reach the main shop. There is a staircase, a lift and a travelator (I think that’s what it’s called- basically a conveyer belt you stand on!) I always take the stairs and often have them to myself because the majority of people take the automated options. Obviously people in wheelchairs, those with prams or older people who already have mobility problems will need to take the lift or the travelator, and that’s why those options are offered, but I feel so frustrated when I see able-bodied, young people standing on the bloody conveyor belt, not even walking up it but just standing- and it takes ages! Some of these people are going to regret being lazy in the future. (And yes of course, some people may have hidden conditions or be dealing with pain even though they look fit, but it is the majority of customers standing on a conveyer belt- they can’t all be in pain).

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:29

Marchintospring · 01/04/2024 11:12

I walked masses as a child and teenager living rurally and not having a car or public transport.
I was fitter, more flexible and active than my friends all the way until menopause and then literally everything seized up and all my joints started hurting even when resting. It is weird.

Its very demoralising actually. It feels like I've aged 20 years in a year.

Some younger and fit people on this thread do not realise how quickly things can change. Which is why having ideas of things you can still do to keep enough strength and mobility for functionality is important.
You do need to still be active even if you are not walking miles and miles.

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VeryQuaintIrene · 01/04/2024 13:29

Another vote for good compression socks - I'm prone to lymphodema and they have changed my life.

WearyAuldWumman · 01/04/2024 13:26

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 11:54

@BogRollBOGOF Of course good muscle tone can help compensate for arthritis. But when it gets bad it is going to affect you anyway. I think the issue is more the pain that makes people not want to be active because it hurts too much.

I have this problem with the standing from a seat exercise - the knees hurt like blazes, but there's no getting round it. The genetic condition apparently triggers arthritis and that's getting worse. There's also the fact that the condition means that my knees spontaneously dislocate and lock.

The knees caused a spectacular fall downstairs at work (a secondary school) one time. I was badly bruised, but otherwise ok. However, I couldn't drive for a couple of days because I was so sore. (Hips and back were rather colourful.)

Got back into work on the Monday. Two S4/Year 11 boys came running up to me: "Mrs AuldWumman! Are you okay?"

"I'm fine, boys. That's kind of you to ask."

Just then, their pal came running up: "Aww! I just missed it!"

At least I provided entertainment!

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:20

I very rarely encounter stairs these days except in my house. In the days of the department stores I used to take the stairs instead of the escalators. But these days all the shops I go into are on one level.

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WearyAuldWumman · 01/04/2024 13:20

fatandunfitandmidforties · 01/04/2024 11:20

Thank you OP for starting this thread, agree it's been very interesting

Also like the idea of being 60 (ish) with 20 years of weight bearing behind me, rather than as I am a
Feeling like a big lump who has let it go, thinking about how much I have to gain in next few years

I too have watched my fairly fit dad become immobile so so quickly after just one infection so am conscious that fitness is so important

And finally to @WearyAuldWumman I just wanted to say how sorry I am that this happened and that you weren't properly supported and sending very un MNetty hugs to you

Thank you. That's very much appreciated.

quizzys · 01/04/2024 13:05

Oh and I was advised to increase my protein intake as much as possible to preserve muscle mass. Get advice on this if you have kidney issues though.

quizzys · 01/04/2024 13:03

I'm approaching 67 now. I walk every day except Sunday which is a day of cooking and hosting mostly and little rest!

I can stand up from a sitting position without using hands or arms no problem. I can get up from the floor but using hands, any other method is just not worth it at my stage in life and smacks of masochism! I have a fall alert on my phone. Hopefully will not need it anytime soon.

When walking I regularly stop at my favourite shops and often carry back up to 10kg in my backpack which evenly distributes the weight. I hardly notice it, and it does help upper body.

My motto is "use it or lose it". Be active every day even if it is housework or gardening. No need for a gym or complicated exercise routines, well for me anyway. I can walk for miles without any problems so I consider myself very lucky and not obsessed either, I listen to my bones.

NoisySnail · 01/04/2024 13:03

@Zodfa I do not recognise that at all. I and many others my age were not brought up with a family car and were used to walking everywhere.

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