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Look After Your Legs

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NoisySnail · 31/03/2024 23:54

I was in a cafe today and over heard an elderly woman talking to younger friends about getting older. She said the best advice she could give is to look after your legs as they are so important for mobility. But annoyingly she did not explain what she meant by this, and I could hardly ask!

So does anyone know how we can look after our legs?

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ThisOrdinaryLife · 05/04/2024 09:09

@Mt61 As much as anything it's a psychological thing concerned with kneeling onto a long scar, that's been my experience so far. And that's not taking into account how much flexibility has been achieved - that outcome can differ hugely between those in recovery.
I've found a method on you tube that I think looks possible, so I'm going to try working towards that. I don't know how to link but it's called "How and why to practice the Barry get-up exercise" by Peter Attia
And I agree @Tomatina I'm not sure when, if ever, I've last got up off the floor or even crossed my legs, probably around 1975!
Thanks @NoisySnail for starting a really stimulating discussion.
What I'm taking away from this is that we each have to start with where we are now and do our best to make any improvement from that starting point. I'm trying to only compare myself with where I was yesterday, rather than with anyone else's journey. This is helping me to stay positive and hopeful, even if progress is miniscule 😊

Tomatina · 05/04/2024 07:50

NoisySnail · 02/04/2024 00:15

I wanted this thread to be supportive so I have not said my age. Because whatever age I say someone will come on and say my 90 year old mother runs marathons and goes to the gym every day, why can you not do more? I know what MN is like.
The only thing I have said I can not do is stand up from the floor with legs crossed. Plenty of other people can not do this either.
I have never claimed to be fit. But I do want to remain functional.

If it's any help I'm fairly fit and flexible but I can't get up off the floor with my legs crossed either. Not even close (though I can do it using knees). What's more, I'm pretty sure I couldn't have done it in my teens or 20s so it may be just a matter of different physical types. Also it just seems a very unnatural way to get up off the floor!
Otherwise there's been a lot of useful advice on this thread.

primroseteapot · 05/04/2024 02:57

Mt61 · 04/04/2024 22:24

My surgeon says that once I have my knees replaced I won’t ever be able to knee down, is this true- knew a bloke who use to bounce on his artificial knees just to show he could- thought he was being a clever dick to be honest

I've heard this, too. Maybe it depends on the device inserted?

"About 60% to 80% of patients report difficulty kneeling or an inability to kneel after a total knee replacement..."

Can You Kneel After a Knee Replacement? (verywellhealth.com)

Can You Kneel After a Knee Replacement?

Most patients can kneel after a partial or full knee replacement, but many are afraid to do so for fear of harming the prosthesis. Learn what factors go into this decision.

https://www.verywellhealth.com/is-kneeling-possible-after-knee-replacement-2552050

Mt61 · 04/04/2024 22:24

ThisOrdinaryLife · 04/04/2024 10:26

I have the same issue in that I can't fully bend my knee or kneel on my knee after surgery and I can't work out how to get up off the floor. @lljkk do you have a link to the alternative ways to achieve this please?

My surgeon says that once I have my knees replaced I won’t ever be able to knee down, is this true- knew a bloke who use to bounce on his artificial knees just to show he could- thought he was being a clever dick to be honest

Mesoavocado · 04/04/2024 19:03

Given hip surgery wait is nearly four years I say keep hips supple

ThisOrdinaryLife · 04/04/2024 10:26

I have the same issue in that I can't fully bend my knee or kneel on my knee after surgery and I can't work out how to get up off the floor. @lljkk do you have a link to the alternative ways to achieve this please?

Thomasina79 · 04/04/2024 09:38

It’s good to practice regularly while you can. I learnt a technique from a you tube video after falling and not being able to get up. I was 6 stone heavier though! I now can get up easily. My DH uncle in his 90s had a fall and was not found till three hours had passed, poor man. He was nit overweight just very old.

Bimblesalong · 04/04/2024 09:32

This is such a good thread and like others, I am including some advice in my daily activities.

I have had two frozen shoulders and have found that taking magnesium glycinate has really helped with the movement (unless it’s coincided with their unfreezing period!).

lljkk · 04/04/2024 09:28

There are at least 7 different ways to get off floor without using hands. Most of them don't involve a kneeling position.

ps: I can reliably do 5 .... teen DSs can do 6-7.
My knees are technically dodgy, history of patellar tendonitis in both.

pickledandpuzzled · 04/04/2024 07:58

Sorry there was a shoulder connection- you don’t realise how much you use your arms for mobility until they go wrong! Having a shoulder problem exacerbated the feeling of being beached! So yes, build up your legs and look after your shoulders!

pickledandpuzzled · 04/04/2024 07:56

Covid and the potential need to be carried or picked up off the floor was a big motivator for weight loss for me. I’d been obese but very strong and active, so didn’t see it as a big issue- at least not the biggest issue in my life.

When I became unwell, I lost strength at a phenomenal speed and had so much pain when I moved. I quickly put on more weight as well and found myself feeling ’beached’.

The right meds, a physio, then being furloughed and lockdown really helped me get back on track.

I have plateaued, progress wise, but want to stave off decline if I can’t actually improve! 🤣

NearlyBritishSummertimeYay · 04/04/2024 00:51

Maglian · 03/04/2024 11:05

That must have been really scary.

I think we take kneeling for granted. It never occurred to me you could lose it until my neighbour (only in her 60s) told me she hadn't been able to kneel for years.

Getting up from the floor is logistically and mechanically massively more difficult if you can't weight bear on your knees. You're kind of running a different race from those of us who still take kneeling for granted (or even can do it in a pinch).

I can do it without hands but I'm completely reliant on being able to kneel on the way up. I can't get my weight far enough forward to go straight from cross legged to feet. My 15 year old does no exercise but still makes it look easy.

@Maglian

thsnk you, it was a bit scary, but not too bad once I realised I hadn't done any serious damage & I pulled down some bedding on the way down so I knew that, at worst it would be a night on the floor, but I could keep warm at least.

Last time I fell, it was outside (tripped over a stray builders block), couldn't get up (even with help) needed an ambulance with drugs and a hydraulic chair lift. Got taken to hospital during Covid, terrified. Had my shoulder replaced.

I was worried I'd end up back in hospital, but thankfully not.

Not long before I could no longer kneel, I could get up with no hands.

primroseteapot · 03/04/2024 23:23

Mercurial123 · 03/04/2024 17:56

The Blue Zone on Netflix recommended walking up steep hills to keep fit into your old age.

Apparently the walking back downhill part is very important for developing your "brakes", aiding in falls' prevention.

I try to do a small hill every day, and have really strengthened my calves.

Also important for maintaining balance is to walk on uneven surfaces - so go onto the grass and off the path or road from time to time.

PaminaMozart · 03/04/2024 19:24

Dr Jo on YouTube has lots of exercises for different physical ailments - see example below. She is a qualified, experienced physiotherapist and I find her explanations very clear.

Obviously check with your doctor if you have any concerns about whether these exercises are suitable. Seeing a physiotherapist in real life is always a good idea.

crossingbridges · 03/04/2024 19:07

NoisySnail · 03/04/2024 17:17

I can't do stretches on my legs anymore as it just sets off my sciatica. Every time I try doing even gentle ones, I end up hobbling around for a few weeks afterwards. I know I have stiffened up.

It sounds to me as though you could do with finding a good physiotherapist to identify the root causes of the problems that you have, to give you an individualised exercise plan.
Just a couple of visits to a physio, then practicing the exercises you are given can sometimes be all it takes to enable you to continue to do activities that are important to you.

pickledandpuzzled · 03/04/2024 18:30

Thank you @PaminaMozart and @dowereallyknow

I’ll add the calf raises, along with Achilles stretches on the bottom step.

The other exercises are things I’ve already tried and failed. Too advanced, too exhausting.

Supporting my own body weight is a struggle. Getting up and down off the floor. I despise feeling trapped on the floor.

Those bigger movements wrench the rest of my body out of line and require massive core strength. That’s exhausting.

I need to build on things I can already do, and things I desperately need to get more stamina at, like stairs.

I have to work at getting out of bed, and rolling over in the night. Mornings and nights are bad. I peak in the afternoons, if I’m lucky! 😅

dowereallyknow · 03/04/2024 18:18

pickledandpuzzled · 03/04/2024 18:03

So off the back of this thread, I’ve swapped my routine from some strength based exercises I couldn’t face doing to some mobility stuff mentioned here.

I’m going to do everything once a day- the sit to stand for 60 secs, the stairs at speed, the kneel to stand and the moisturising. I seen a hip flexor exercise I can do, as well. My friend has taken a base line and we’re going to see if there’s any improvement in a month.

That’s on top of postural/physio, dog walk and tai chi.

That is huge for me. I couldn’t do a spin class if my life depended on it and I don’t know what peloton actually is. My strength is appalling and I struggle to get in the car after a longish walk. But I will not be getting bungalow legs, no siree!

And I completely understand what @NoisySnail is aiming for. Some of us just can’t do what others can, but we need to work on maintaining and building our mobility rather than more traditional ideas of getting fit!

Sounds like you have a good plan. You could add calf raises. Hold a door handle or chair back. Go up onto toes and back down 10x

If you can get a very lightweight resistance band (Amazon) that would be very good. Slip around your legs
Whilst sitting bring up to just under knees level and sitting up straight push knees out and back 10x

Whilst standing around ankles hold back of chair or wall and standing on inside leg push outside leg out to the side stretching the band. 10x
Do the same bit kick back 10x

Use the lightest resistance if you find things hard this will work inner and outer thigh plus glutes

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PaminaMozart · 03/04/2024 18:09

@pickledandpuzzled - these are a couple of great little workouts for strengthening legs and hip flexors:

pickledandpuzzled · 03/04/2024 18:03

So off the back of this thread, I’ve swapped my routine from some strength based exercises I couldn’t face doing to some mobility stuff mentioned here.

I’m going to do everything once a day- the sit to stand for 60 secs, the stairs at speed, the kneel to stand and the moisturising. I seen a hip flexor exercise I can do, as well. My friend has taken a base line and we’re going to see if there’s any improvement in a month.

That’s on top of postural/physio, dog walk and tai chi.

That is huge for me. I couldn’t do a spin class if my life depended on it and I don’t know what peloton actually is. My strength is appalling and I struggle to get in the car after a longish walk. But I will not be getting bungalow legs, no siree!

And I completely understand what @NoisySnail is aiming for. Some of us just can’t do what others can, but we need to work on maintaining and building our mobility rather than more traditional ideas of getting fit!

Mercurial123 · 03/04/2024 17:56

The Blue Zone on Netflix recommended walking up steep hills to keep fit into your old age.

Instantcustard · 03/04/2024 17:48

I don't have gym membership anymore but I walk up a big hill 3 times a week (200m elevation gain according to Strava) and sometimes walk down depending on timing!

NoisySnail · 03/04/2024 17:17

I can't do stretches on my legs anymore as it just sets off my sciatica. Every time I try doing even gentle ones, I end up hobbling around for a few weeks afterwards. I know I have stiffened up.

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peloton2024 · 03/04/2024 16:44

If anyone wants a 60 day peloton app trial just PM me
It's got mobility, Pilates, meditation, stretching classes and adaptive mobility ones plus audio walks

TeaAndStrumpets · 03/04/2024 16:27

astarsheis · 03/04/2024 16:24

Have you checked out low impact exercise classes on youtube that you can literally do from your seat? There really is something for everybody.
Some gyms also have PTs for people with physical impairments. Might be worth asking around.

Good idea, thank you. I know stretches are good. I did Pilates for ten years before I had to give it up, and I do miss it.

astarsheis · 03/04/2024 16:24

TeaAndStrumpets · 03/04/2024 13:37

Exactly! I can't do much that tires me out, due to CFS/ME and frequent energy "crashes" . I can't push through the fatigue to exercise or I have a setback, but if I rest and rest I eventually feel well enough to attempt some exercise.

It is enormously frustrating, I would love to be active every day but sometimes having a shower is a major achievement. I have had most success with pacing my activity using a pulse oximeter. If my heart rate is under 100 in the morning I know I can do more that day - on another day getting up and brushing my teeth pushes it to 130 so I have to stop. I do trot (trudge) up the stairs a few times a day to keep my legs reasonably useful, but like PP there is no way I could take a large step.

I have really enjoyed this thread, such great ideas. I have struggled with the getting up off the floor test. I was useless on my first try. I watched the video and tried again. I could get up with one hand and felt very proud! However, I tried again a few hours later and my legs weren't cooperating so will try another day...

In my situation every little helps, so this thread is very inspiring, thank you!

Have you checked out low impact exercise classes on youtube that you can literally do from your seat? There really is something for everybody.
Some gyms also have PTs for people with physical impairments. Might be worth asking around.

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