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Help? I've acquired a very young kitten?

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softplayfail · 20/10/2022 16:21

We've had a female cat visiting in the garden for about 7 months. We actually thought she belonged to someone but we discovered she had no home and was a stray. We were planning on catching her a couple of months ago but she disappeared. Anyway she reappeared and had a litter in my garden. Well I say litter. One kitten. Numerous attempts to catch her have all failed. She was happy to take food from anyone but would never let us touch her

Mum cat was found dead on the side of the road this morning. I feel so guilty as it is.

Anyway I've got the kitten inside. It's pissing it down. He's soaked. At a guess I'd say he's at most 6 weeks. He's been eating the food we've left for mum. He fits in the palm of my hand. I know nothing about cats really. Especially one this small

So I've booked him into the vets tomorrow. Earliest appointment

I have a 2 year old and a husband in bed from an appendicitis emergency.
So I'm on my own really

So questions
What do I do?
What do I feed him?
I've dried him with a towel and he's now all fuzzy but he's screaming murder

My 2 year old won't leave him alone but I can't split them cos she can't be left alone and he's like a tiny little thing. Any suggestions? Could I put him in a box for now? Just so he can sleep without being poked

Ok I don't know what to do.

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CuriousEats · 21/10/2022 17:58

I bought a long handled baby nail clipper for their claws.
After lots of attempts, I've found that scruffing them is much easier and calmer than burritos. Its a 2 man job though.
Support his little butt in 1 hand, and hold him by his scruff with the other. Then you have access to all 4 paws and he will be calm and still.

I bought some syringes off Amazon for the wormer. The pokey bit fits easily between the back teeth and you've got control over how slowly you dribble it in. Mix the measured stuff with tuna juice or home made fish stock etc. Its not such a fight then. Or if he is already grooming himself, smear it on the back of his paws/legs. He'll lick it off.

this sounds like you've got three hands 😂

cats do find you for sure.

ilukp · 21/10/2022 18:26

Apparently all I needed was a kitten because I don't think I've smiled so much today in a long while

Cats/kittens have a strange habit of showing up in your life when you really need them, even if you think you don't want one and aren't a cat person.
It's a special kind of cat magic - cats/kittens who need a person magically get paired up with a person who needs one.

torthecatlady · 21/10/2022 18:03

Glad the Vee Eee Tee went well!

CuriousEats · 21/10/2022 17:58

I bought a long handled baby nail clipper for their claws.
After lots of attempts, I've found that scruffing them is much easier and calmer than burritos. Its a 2 man job though.
Support his little butt in 1 hand, and hold him by his scruff with the other. Then you have access to all 4 paws and he will be calm and still.

I bought some syringes off Amazon for the wormer. The pokey bit fits easily between the back teeth and you've got control over how slowly you dribble it in. Mix the measured stuff with tuna juice or home made fish stock etc. Its not such a fight then. Or if he is already grooming himself, smear it on the back of his paws/legs. He'll lick it off.

vodkaredbullgirl · 21/10/2022 17:55

I fed the strays at work, think I might have fed them more than the people working during the day. Missed them when they were all re-homed.

ZandathePanda · 21/10/2022 17:51

Also you need to take photos that remind you how tiny he is. So in your hand or a shoe etc. that people (like us!!) can see the scale. Something that you can put him next to in a year so you can see how he’s grown.

ZandathePanda · 21/10/2022 17:47

Wrap a towel round Peppa so his front legs are bound. He will look like a seal. Then half the tablet (it’s probably only half a tablet at his age) then put it as far back as you can in his mouth. Then stroke his throat viciously to make him gulp it down. Repeat if necessary. If you crush the tablet up he may not get the full dose. Watch him for a few minutes as he may hide it and spit it out secretly.

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 17:40

I think I've said it but I was never a cat hater. I just didn't care for them. I fed mama cat cos I wouldn't see an animal suffer and I bought him inside for the same reason. I'll never see one suffer. He's fit into the family. Originally I thought I'd rehome him or something but I couldn't. I just couldn't and he really is so cute

But honestly I couldn't have done this without every single poster who helped

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LostCats · 21/10/2022 17:37

Completely agree with the ‘we must be quiet as peppa is sleeping’.
we do it all the time with our cats. DS and DD roll their eyes but oblige every time 😁😁

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 21/10/2022 17:27

Haven't RTFT , just the OPs ones

He is gorgeous and though it will have been said a million times , well done for bringing this little boy into your life . If he'd have stayed outside he'd have had a tough life, probably short and brutal . (This is what my cats tell me , they were rescued from a garden as teeny kittens)
Obviously you were chosen Halloween Grin

You will feel the wrath when he goes to have his balls whipped off . (He'll blame you , cats are judgey little gits)

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 17:06

@LeMoo oops

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Soubriquet · 21/10/2022 17:05

Yeah. If I knew she was going to let them go that early, I wouldn’t have put down the deposit.

She told us they kits would be around 10 weeks, so I paid in full.

Then at 6 weeks, she messaged saying mums had enough of them. Either you take her today or she goes to someone else even though I had paid.

So I took her and just supplemented her food for a few weeks

Fuckallthetories · 21/10/2022 17:03

Well then you just get your brother to give him the worming tablet, then he’ll hate him and then you fuss over him after (cat not brother) and he’ll love you. Also agree with toddler ammunition
“darling be quiet peppas sleeping”
”put your toys away so peppa can’t trip over them”
“get in the bath so peppa won’t refuse to sit on you as you’re stinky”

etc.
Grin

LeMoo · 21/10/2022 17:03

Oh yes as tempting as it is and adorable as he looks while doing it, don't play with him by encouraging him to pounce on your fingers.

I knew this and did it anyway with my rescue kitten. 😐

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 17:02

@GonnaGetGoingReturns we did have a very quick yell of 'please do not pick him up by his head' but overall she's very good with him

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NancyDrooo · 21/10/2022 17:02

OP - when they’re tiny their claws are razor sharp and they have no self control, so if he will let you try using a regular nail file just to blunt the tips a little bit. Our vet recommended this when our boy was little.

He is gorgeous by the way, so pleased you took him in!!

Unforgettablefire · 21/10/2022 17:00

Op you have one very beautiful kitten there and I think he's been sent to you.
Love these threads and all the pics that go up, they make my day thank you.

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 16:59

@Soubriquet I hate that. That's disgusting.

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GonnaGetGoingReturns · 21/10/2022 16:58

Soubriquet · 21/10/2022 16:57

Bless him! I’m not sure what weight she was when we got her. She was 6 weeks. Unfortunately, the breeder turned out to be not so good and chucked them at their owners at 6 weeks instead of waiting.

Luckily she slot right in, and is perfectly healthy.

Shes 6 now and still a happy healthy cat.

6 weeks - that is so young for them to leave mummy cat! Shock

PeloFondo · 21/10/2022 16:58

Also now you have ample ammunition (this is why I'm not a parent)
"Shh the kitten is sleeping"
"You'll have to play quietly so you don't scare the kitten"
GrinWink

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 21/10/2022 16:57

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 16:51

I'm slowly catching up with the questions on the thread but my daughter is almost 3. 3 in January

Oh well she's probably getting more 'able' to deal with a cat than a toddler would if that makes sense? Though I know the threenager stager with my nephew Grin!

Young kids do need as you know to be gentle with it, not treat it like a toy, but I'm sure that's all being kept on top of!

@Soubriquet - ha re the 9 year old feeding her and cat liking her - so true. My cat doesn't have an option, I feed her but she loves/hates me depending on her mood! She's very likeable and nice generally though.

Soubriquet · 21/10/2022 16:57

Bless him! I’m not sure what weight she was when we got her. She was 6 weeks. Unfortunately, the breeder turned out to be not so good and chucked them at their owners at 6 weeks instead of waiting.

Luckily she slot right in, and is perfectly healthy.

Shes 6 now and still a happy healthy cat.

softplayfail · 21/10/2022 16:55

@Soubriquet so similar size wise to Peppa. Dwarfed by the toys and the kids! He got weighed today and he's 430 grams.

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Soubriquet · 21/10/2022 16:54

You can see her sitting. She was sooooo tiny.

Help? I've acquired a very young kitten?
softplayfail · 21/10/2022 16:53

@Soubriquet I love the ears!

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