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To feel "posh"

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leopardprintpants · 22/07/2021 19:48

Have recently bought my DC towelling shorts from Boden for our holiday.. I feel like a bit of a posho which is weird, I know 😂

So what I want to know is, what thing did you buy for your children that made you feel "posh" or even, what have you bought your DC that your parents would have never dreamed of buying for you?

Lighthearted.

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Michellelovesizzy · 23/07/2021 19:45

Kickers always wanted them when I was at school back in the 90s.... but got Clark's shoes.

madmomma · 23/07/2021 19:44

Donkeys years ago when I was a skint, depressed teen single mum, I was on income support and was fully breastfeeding dd. I got milk vouchers for her, which I didn't need for formula, so I used to get the milk, pour it all into a hot bath and pretend I was cleopatra. I felt incredibly posh until the nasty guy living downstairs turned my water off 😁. Gotta take that posh feeling from wherever you can get it 😂. Nowadays I feel hugely posh putting the heating on, buying petrol or nice fruit without worrying, getting socks from m&s.. It's that feeling of being able to meet needs that feels posh to me. I hope it always feels posh, and I hope everyone here enjoys every little bit of poshness they can get.

leopardprintpants · 23/07/2021 19:43

@SummerBreeze1980

Really enjoying this fun thread. But why are there odd posters popping on to point out that no in fact that is not posh?! Does it make them feel superior? Confused
Kill joys galore.. afraid if us paupers feel "posh" even for a fleeting moment it will somehow taint them actually being posh.. not that they call themselves posh. Because that makes you not-posh. But you can tell us non-posh folk that we aren't posh. Get it? 😉😂
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YanTanTethera123 · 23/07/2021 19:43

@ScrollingLeaves

The towelling shorts are not even comparable to chinos etc anyway. Their function is as practical and very comfortable wear - very soft and absorbent and with colourful, apt patterns- for young children on holiday having fun near water, sand, grass mud, picnic food and so on.

The luxury lies precisely in their being something to buy for holiday or weekend play only, without the smartness of plain chinos, or the year round practicality of jeans. An additional sense of luxury would be because getting something from Boden.

I completely agree! My DCs years ago had towelling shorts, trousers and hoodies, all very practical for the few holidays we had but also at the pool, park paddling pool and for picnics by the stream. They were hard wearing, colourful and practical.

For me posh was having afternoon tea at a cafe for the first time when on holiday with my SIL and BIL about 12 years ago. I was in my 50’s and had never done that before!

SummerBreeze1980 · 23/07/2021 19:41

Really enjoying this fun thread. But why are there odd posters popping on to point out that no in fact that is not posh?! Does it make them feel superior? Confused

leopardprintpants · 23/07/2021 19:40

@LettyLoman

Towelling shorts have made a comeback?? How about towelling playsuits. I’m going to have a look. Btw anything towelling never has been posh.
Never said the bloody shorts were posh.. just that I felt POSH buying something unnecessary and unneeded. Goodness me!
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MarleneDietrichsSmile · 23/07/2021 19:39

I never feel posh, I need to work on that!

Maybe my dogs are posh? Can dogs be posh? All my hope is on them 🤞🤞🤞

NeedNewKnees · 23/07/2021 19:39

Buying 800 thread egyptian cotton pillowcases made me feel stupendously posh. They make me happy every night and morning, the texture makes me feel like a queen.

I once blew £29 on a Lulu Guiness Birdcage umbrella. I feel happy every time it rains and I can use it. It's so delightful. DH and I had a blazing row about "wasting" money on a brolly. He was wrong - I live in this rainy country and the value per use ratio is fantastic. It's been years

leopardprintpants · 23/07/2021 19:39

@DysmalRadius

I'm so posh I spend my Friday nights bitchplopping my cuntishness onto MN threads to try and bolster my flagging self-esteem by pretending I am the arbiter of what's posh or not despite having only minimal reading comprehension skills and an utter dearth of social grace.
Ha! 😂😂
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NormaSnorks · 23/07/2021 19:38

When DS1 started sixth form, and needed to wear suits, I took him to Charles Tyrwhitt to get them properly tailored/ taken in/ correct leg length etc. He is very tall and slim and we simply couldn't get anything 'off the peg'. While we were there he decided he really liked the cutaway collars and double cuffed shirts w/ cufflinks so we bought those too.

Funny thing was that he was always being mistaken for a teacher by visitors at the school etc.

whyMrsRobinson · 23/07/2021 19:38

Lokidoki75 am so with you on the posh frock thing! Have some gorgeous shoes I bought in my yooof to go with posh frocks ( ghost! From ghost warehouse sale) and I wear them now not at all. Sigh. I will do as another poster says ( sorry, can’t find it atm) and wear them to feed the chickens.which ironically are posh! Dh won’t let me get them!

3scape · 23/07/2021 19:37

I'm not sure posh is the word. But I did feel a bit "extra" sitting next to my son on his school Teams call with my hair in my new silk hair wrap, aeropress for a tea party, sat at our lovely new outdoor furniture- pool looking amazing in the background. I'm sure they'll be some parents thinking I'm a massive wanker now. In my defence I got the drinks ready (milk for him) with biscuits to bribe him out of the pool long enough and the pool isn't ours (no fence terribly lovely end of garden neighbours kind of story).

leopardprintpants · 23/07/2021 19:37

@danniduck

None of us have said we ARE posh.. just that for a moment we "felt posh" and it was really, really lovely.

💤

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rhowton · 23/07/2021 19:36

@FuckingHateRats I think your idea is just the best!! Can't wait until mine are a little old 💕

GreyhoundG1rl · 23/07/2021 19:33

Buying Sylvanian families made me feel posh when the kids were small, they showed no interest 🤣, only rich kids had them when I was a child.
Aw! Smile

corkernewyorker · 23/07/2021 19:31

Forking out for all the things that my parents wouldn't pay for for me as a child. Fuck it. My two have private school, music lessons, sailing lessons, a good bicycle each and don't want for anything (I know we are extremely fortunate and I NEVER take this for granted). The little darlings also have had good manners and politeness drilled in to them and can be taken anywhere and behave appropriately - which makes me feel better than all the 'things' I can afford for them. Manners cost nothing.

Lovemusic33 · 23/07/2021 19:31

Almost everything I buy my kids feels posh, we were clothed in 2nd hand clothes from jumble sales, most our toys came from there too. My parents were not poor, my dad was just very tight and wouldn’t allow my mother to buy us new things unless it was Christmas.

Buying Sylvanian families made me feel posh when the kids were small, they showed no interest 🤣, only rich kids had them when I was a child.

Clarks shoes, only posh kids had them too so when dd started walking I felt posh taking her to Clark’s.

DysmalRadius · 23/07/2021 19:30

I've never understood

Judging by your post, you could have stopped typing here.

MacavityTheDentistsCat · 23/07/2021 19:30

We have a bidet in our bathroom. I've often been told this is posh, but I don't really get why.

LovelyIssues · 23/07/2021 19:28

I've never understood the fascination with Boden, Joules and GAP clothes. We've had a few bits and always found them to lose their colour and shape very quickly and look a bit drab?!

GreyhoundG1rl · 23/07/2021 19:25

[quote Diva66]@GreyhoundG1rl

Thank God! I don’t actually want to be posh, but I am feeling good because it’s so cool and comfortable in this hot weather.[/quote]
Grin. I knew you were kidding Wink

GreyhoundG1rl · 23/07/2021 19:24

Oh dear, now we're on the "my dd likes ballet, this is evidence of my poshness" 😬
These threads always become so embarrassing.

Diva66 · 23/07/2021 19:23

@GreyhoundG1rl

Thank God! I don’t actually want to be posh, but I am feeling good because it’s so cool and comfortable in this hot weather.

LettyLoman · 23/07/2021 19:22

Towelling shorts have made a comeback?? How about towelling playsuits. I’m going to have a look. Btw anything towelling never has been posh.

DysmalRadius · 23/07/2021 19:21

I'm so posh I spend my Friday nights bitchplopping my cuntishness onto MN threads to try and bolster my flagging self-esteem by pretending I am the arbiter of what's posh or not despite having only minimal reading comprehension skills and an utter dearth of social grace.

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