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AIBU to ask you if a daily habit has transformed your life?

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CarlyWarly1980 · 25/07/2020 20:27

Just that, really..
Do you have a daily habit that has transformed your life for the better? A friend recommended a book along these lines but am I being unreasonable to think a daily habit can't really transform your life?
My friend has said the new habit of drinking water and putting on mascara every day helps her feel confident and think clearer improved her skin and helps her concentration. So I'm asking others on here AIBU to think one habit done daily can't really "change" your life?

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Smallsteps88 · 26/07/2020 18:31

[quote IncorrigibleTitmouse]**@Smallsteps88* @TheMumblesofMumbledom* Jumping in with my opinion! I eat between noon and 8pm and work outside the house. You can set whatever window works for you![/quote]
Ahh ok. So you don’t have to stick to breakfast-lunch-dinner times. I got it now.

uniglowooljumper · 26/07/2020 18:29

Yoga and Pilates stretches before I even leave the room. A programmable coffee maker. Prepping my breakfast, and as much as possible, the night before.

chillimartini · 26/07/2020 18:29

Wake up and chug a glass of water down then breathing exercises and then I head for the coffee and drink it in complete silence.

MattBerrysHair · 26/07/2020 18:27

[quote tinkerbellvspredator]@MattBerrysHair have you been tested for coeliac - the IBS, brain fog and anxiety are symptoms and you'll have been cutting out gluten if low carbing. www.isitcoeliacdisease.org[/quote]
I haven't actually, perhaps I should! I've got autism and gut problems are very prevalent in the autistic community.

TheMumblesofMumbledom · 26/07/2020 18:24

@Smallsteps88

Thanks *@TheMumblesofMumbledom*- how do you manage that if working out of the house?
I don't eat breakfast, take my lunch with me and generally eat that at 12ish then when I'm back from work I'll eat dinner at 7.30 and then nothing else until lunchtime the next day. I do carry a huge sports bottle filled with water wherever I go.
KatherineParr4 · 26/07/2020 18:23

@Allyg1185

Which probiotic do you recommend?
All those with good Skin care routines. I would be interested to know what you use. I stopped toning in my teens!

SauvignonBlanketyBlank · 26/07/2020 18:21

Used to be a tea drinker.Since I've changed to black coffee first thing in the morning I feel less tired throughout the day.Seems an obvious one but to me it's a new found revelation Grin

IncorrigibleTitmouse · 26/07/2020 18:20

@Smallsteps88 @TheMumblesofMumbledom Jumping in with my opinion! I eat between noon and 8pm and work outside the house. You can set whatever window works for you!

Pollypocket89 · 26/07/2020 18:19

That's really interesting, I've never seen them before, thanks!

Smallsteps88 · 26/07/2020 18:17

Thanks @TheMumblesofMumbledom- how do you manage that if working out of the house?

TheMumblesofMumbledom · 26/07/2020 18:15

@Smallsteps88

What is the 16:8 fasting that people are taking about?
You quite literally eat all your daily intake of calories in an 8 hour period and then eat nothing for the other 16. It really does work and I find it more achievable than the 5:2 diet.
TheMumblesofMumbledom · 26/07/2020 18:15

Bugger I've quoted the wrong person 🙄I'll try again.

TheMumblesofMumbledom · 26/07/2020 18:14

[quote Pollypocket89]@IncorrigibleTitmouse what's guided journalling?[/quote]
You quite literally eat all your daily intake of calories in an 8 hour period and then eat nothing for the other 16. It really does work and I find it more achievable than the 5:2 diet.

IncorrigibleTitmouse · 26/07/2020 18:12

@Pollypocket89 Mine is actually a 5 year one, where you can see what you wrote in answer to the same question in previous years. I really love it.

IncorrigibleTitmouse · 26/07/2020 18:11

@Pollypocket89 I have a journal that asks me a different question every day. Examples like ‘what’s the best thing that happened today?’, ‘what was the most interesting thing you learned in the news today?’, ‘who do you admire and why?’ You can get those journals in book shops etc or just get a list of prompts online to use.

Smallsteps88 · 26/07/2020 18:10

What is the 16:8 fasting that people are taking about?

Pollypocket89 · 26/07/2020 17:48

@IncorrigibleTitmouse what's guided journalling?

Rose789 · 26/07/2020 17:19

Drinking water. As soon as I get up I drink a pint of water. I drink a pint before each meal and a pint before bed. Stops me eating so much, my skin looks much better and I’m sleeping so much better.

TheMumblesofMumbledom · 26/07/2020 17:11

I've developed new habits and my life has definitely changed for the better.

When I wake up on a workday I do my morning skin care routine immediately now rather than going downstairs to make a cup of tea, my hour before the work commute is definitely calmer.

When I come home from work I shower and do my evening skincare routine as soon as I'm home, no just having a glass of wine and sofa sobbing.

I make my lunch for the following day and put it in the fridge, lunch bag is loaded with cutlery and napkins so I'm good to go without faff in the morning.

I go to bed at exactly the same time every night, even at the weekend I'm within half an hour of my weekday time.

And the big one was starting the intermittent fasting, 16:8. I've lost all the weight I gained in lockdown and my gut is so much happier. If I stray from this then my stomach will tell me and I feel sluggish.

Taking a power walk at least three times a week for an hour plus, I'm fitter and stronger.

MactheRover · 26/07/2020 17:02

Early dog walk. Always get the best weather of the day and some much needed exercise - if I get the old Covid I don't want fat to work against me.

Mabelface · 26/07/2020 17:00

Started taking antidepressants a few weeks ago and my horrendous anxiety has gone.

MillieMoodle · 26/07/2020 16:56

Some great ideas here, has got me thinking that I need to adopt some of them.

I started intermittent fasting (16:8) about 8 weeks ago and have lost 10lbs, so I'll keep going with that. I've just started going for a walk through the forest with a friend one night a week; we've been twice and it's done me the world of good. I also usually paint my nails on a Sunday night ready for the week ahead.

My mental health has been pretty crap recently so I need to do things to lift my mood and stop me being so emotional and stressed all the time. Keeping busy and having stuff to look forward to is a big help!

@CarlyWarly1980 I'm up for picking 3 things to do and starting this week. I'm going for:

  1. Drinking at least 6 glasses of water a day.
  2. 20 minutes of cleaning/tidying/de-cluttering a day.
  3. Getting into a habit of cleanse, tone, moisturise morning and night (I tone and moisturise in the mornings but that's it).

I also want to get into the habit of getting up early again, I'm much more productive if I get up and get on with things, I might save that for one of next week's three things though Grin

IncorrigibleTitmouse · 26/07/2020 16:53

Another vote for 16:8 intermittent fasting. It’s hard for the first couple of days but so worth it.
Guided journaling once day. Helps me switch my brain off at night.
Going to bed with a clean kitchen!

TWAMSWIAO · 26/07/2020 16:45

I’ve never ever managed to stick to any sort of habit for longer than 6-8 weeks.

Some of these are amazing and I wish I could be more like you all.

Thought I nailed it in lockdown with a daily workout, a daily walk AND 2l of water per day but early July it all went to pot and I’ve probably regained all the weight.

Chicchicchicchiclana · 26/07/2020 16:41

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