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AIBU to ask you if a daily habit has transformed your life?

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CarlyWarly1980 · 25/07/2020 20:27

Just that, really..
Do you have a daily habit that has transformed your life for the better? A friend recommended a book along these lines but am I being unreasonable to think a daily habit can't really transform your life?
My friend has said the new habit of drinking water and putting on mascara every day helps her feel confident and think clearer improved her skin and helps her concentration. So I'm asking others on here AIBU to think one habit done daily can't really "change" your life?

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totallyyesno · 27/07/2020 10:25

Yoga - but only 10 minutes a day. I can't stick to a longer session but 10 minutes seems fair to rid me of backache.

Penguins1 · 27/07/2020 10:18

I am really enjoying this thread, OP and postersSmile. I have bookmarked so can read all of it

Lobsterquadrille2 · 27/07/2020 10:13

This is a lovely thread. I get up early - usually 5.30am - which really helps me to prepare for the day. I do generally go to bed before 10pm though. Mornings I write a gratitude list and I pray, to a higher power rather than a god, just for patience and guidance and a sober day 😀. I've been in AA for many years. In the evening I do an inventory of my day if I have had fears, anger or resentments. The theory is that it's these kind of emotions that led us to drink, so we unpick them before they lead us down the same path. I haven't actually done that for some time but felt the need to over the weekend after some toxic family stuff. I add that if I had picked up a drink over that, it would have been entirely my choice and responsibility - this isn't assigning blame to anyone else, ever.

I'm longing to try the one legged balancing planning though!

Allyg1185 · 27/07/2020 10:09

This thread is a breath of fresh air on here compared to some I've read recently!

Allyg1185 · 27/07/2020 10:07

KatherineParr4

I use OptiBac

TwoBigNoisyBoys · 27/07/2020 09:49

This is a brilliant thread, thank you!
So far I have been doing 16:8 fasting/low carbing for 4 weeks and have lost 7.5lbs, which I’m happy about. I attempt 10,000 steps per day, but mostly fail, to be honest. Have got into a bit of a slump, but last week I started yoga zoom classes and an 8 week mindfulness course. This thread has inspired me to order some well-woman supplements, a guided journal and the Miracle Morning book, so I’m hoping to make some positive steps!!

TWAMSWIAO · 27/07/2020 09:07

I like the idea of having a few small goals to maintain for the week, it’s when I start thinking about forever I get overwhelmed.

So for this week I’d like to:

Drink 2l of water daily
Only eat between 12pm and 8pm daily
Go for a walk daily

CousinBella · 27/07/2020 08:45

@Mabelface

Started taking antidepressants a few weeks ago and my horrendous anxiety has gone.
That is fabulous Mabelface, I'm glad you are feeling better.
CanICelebrate · 27/07/2020 07:32

A few!
Mindfulness, a daily walk, eating breakfast and a simple pattern of daily prayer.

Wolfcub · 27/07/2020 07:24

I've ordered some sleepy tea thank you. It won't fix being woken by a teen prowling the house all night but honestly I'm so exhausted I'll try anything

A few Pilates stretches to start the day. Might do some in between meetings too as my back is still as a board today

CallingAllEngels · 27/07/2020 07:17

I know that doing yoga and/or meditation every day makes me feel better but often life gets in the way and I don't find my way back to it until I'm really in need of it.

I really recommend Yoga with Adriene. My favourite 30 day course is True (half way through it at the moment - I find the summer holidays the ideal time to restart).

I also read every day. A few years ago I realised I'd lost my reading mojo and it as because I felt like I always had to read "worthy" grown up literature. Since I've gone back to reading detective fiction (love Christie and Anne Cleeves) and YA fiction I'm much happier. I usually read about 60 books a year, often find myself going to bed earlier and watching less TV so I can read. Have read lots of articles about the benefits of regular reading!

I also try and get outside every day, whether it's for a short walk or just a cup of tea in the garden (or combine with reading). Harder when working with commute.

When the kids were babies I also started doing one of the Flylady threads on here. I got myself into the habit of making sure the washing up was done/floors sept/kitchen clear before I sat down for the night which made mornings much less stressful.

New habits which have emerged during lockdown have been related to practicing a musical instrument or drawing/painting (but not managed every day).

CarlyWarly1980 · 27/07/2020 07:16

One of my habits is going to be no alcohol Monday to Friday. Gradually noticed my evening drinking has increased (massively) and its not a habit I want to foster at all so that's an important start for me. I will exchange it for sparkling water and lemon /lime instead. Lots of brilliant ideas here, too! Thanks everyone for being honest and sharing!

It's a new week and I wish you all the best in your new habits! Have a great day everyone!

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KatherineParr4 · 27/07/2020 06:38

Thank you!

blackcat86 · 27/07/2020 06:36

@KatherineParr4 its called clipper sleep easy tea. Its not always in the supermarket so we ended up ordering off of amazon

KatherineParr4 · 27/07/2020 06:15

@blackcat86

Do you mind me asking what the tea is called?

CleanQueen123 · 27/07/2020 05:58

Well I did it! Day one of taking back my life and forming healthy new habits started with getting out of bed at 5:15am and doing 20 minutes of yoga. I feel amazing!

Thanks for starting this thread OP and to everyone that's shared their advice Flowers Grin

Ruralbliss · 27/07/2020 05:05

I love this thread so much!

Seriously inspired by all the good habits (& feeling a little ashamed of how I've slipped into slovenly unhealthy ways since working from home - rolling out of bed 10 mins before first meeting seems to have become the stupid new norm)

Daily budgeting & bank account review using You Need A Budget (YNAB) software seriously changed my life about 10 years ago now. Can't recommend it enough.

Thanks to this thread I'm going to try to do the following each day:

  • Get up early (my best friend is up at 5am & runs for 10k) - I'll be happy with 6am and some yoga
  • Drink 2 litres water
  • Take vitamins
  • 15 mins writing (I've got a book in me but always claim I have no time to do it)
  • 30 mins HIIT/Dance/weightlifting etc
  • Bed by 10pm

👍

coronafiona · 27/07/2020 02:52

Following this thread!

Cantbelieveit101 · 27/07/2020 02:30

Daily exercise.
Can't do without it.
I am in Australia so its a bit easier with gyms open.

Lifeisgenerallyfun · 26/07/2020 23:46

@Weetabixandcrumpets I would second yoga with Adrienne. She have a video for absolute beginners on you tube, really calm and great guidance (how the hell does she know I’m scrunching up my shoulders at that precise moment??? Just ease yourself in slowly, it’s the best part of every day for me

bridgetreilly · 26/07/2020 23:16

@lindauk5 I mean, I HAVE more than two, but I only regularly use two every day...

Emeraldshamrock · 26/07/2020 22:43

Lots of great ideas I'll be rereading this thread slowly tomorrow.
Onwards and upwards. Smile

Thedogscollar · 26/07/2020 22:20

@CarlyWarly1980 thank you. Will try Adrienne on You Tube.

lindauk5 · 26/07/2020 22:19

@bridgetreilly Me too, having paper planners and writing things down really helps me, I may have more than two though Blush.

Smallsteps88 · 26/07/2020 22:09

This is such a good thread. I had my life together until I had my youngest and fell into a really bad PND. All those good daily habits that held my life together seemed to fall out of my head. I’ve been outing myself back together ever since and this thread has reminded me of so many little things I used to do but had completely forgotten. And also given me new things to try. Thanks for all your input!