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What was life like in the 80s?

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Strangerthanadeadting · 06/07/2019 22:44

As a recent fan of Stranger Things and having only been four years old at the end of the eighties, I'm fascinated to know what life was like for teens & adults back then.

It's depicted as being so much fun on TV. So colourful, the music is brilliant, the fashion so vivid. It was a time before the Internet, social media, plastic surgery, the Kardashians.

I'm fascinated. I'd love to hear what life was like. What people did for fun, what they ate, how different a working day was, if it really was as glamorous as it looks, if the hairstyles took forever, what people thought the future would be like? Was it a better life? A better time?

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Kashali · 06/07/2019 23:08

I recommend watching "Boys from the Blackstuff" "Educating Rita"

MrsMiggins37 · 06/07/2019 23:07

I was at school, I left in 1990.

Other than tech/social media I doubt it was that much different to being at school nowadays. My children’s school experience doesn’t seem earth shatteringly different to my own.

TheWoollybacksWife · 06/07/2019 23:06

I'm the same age as @Auntpetunia2015 and also grew up in Liverpool. I remember people shaking collecting buckets for the miners in the local shopping centre.

I was 13 when the riots started. I was on a bus going home from the city centre and the bus driver shouted that he was going to put his foot down and drive though Toxteth without stopping. Tough luck if you wanted to get off.

The music was amazing - you could still see big names in relatively small venues. Live Aid was the first concert I was aware of at a huge stadium (I'm sure there were others but they didn't register)

I went to uni on a full grant and was able to sign on during the long summer holidays. Before I went to uni I worked in a social club and I remember the outrage from the clientele when lager went over the £1 a pint mark.

The TV finished at about 11pm and there were only 3 channels at the start of the decade.

If I needed to let my parents know I was staying late at school I had to get permission from the school office to use the pay phone.

Kashali · 06/07/2019 23:06

Yes to everything being vivid. lots of fluorescent cocktails even our cigs were cocktail coloured of a Friday night.
If you worked in a factory/ other min wage job you got paid in a pay packet on a Thursday.

The music was so varied throughout the decade (see TOTP2) Grin

mynameisMrG · 06/07/2019 23:05

Ooh yes clothes from the catalogue!

GreenTulips · 06/07/2019 23:05

Mass unemployment half my friends lived in the dole, teens had little chance of jobs.

My wage saw me with £5 a week spending money once I’d paid keep and bus fare. Friends were on schemes earning £25 per week. Most jobs offered £1 per hour, my first job was £2 per hour! £80 a week.

We ate take out once a year at Christmas, had my first McD’s at 18.

Nightclubs were fun and offered discount or free student entry on Tuesday nights.

You needed to dress extremely smart, suits for boys and blouse and skirt or dress for the girls.

Markets were proper markets. Lots of goth clothing and makeup.

Craftycorvid · 06/07/2019 23:05

I was in my teens/early 20s in the 80s. It was probably lovely if you had work and money. In an ex mining town in the arse end of nowhere, not so much! I too had a very dodgy (home) perm and problem shoulder pads; see, you’d be wearing a sweater with shoulder pads and then put on a coat or jacket....with shoulder pads, and look bloody ridiculous. Some of the fashions were genuinely great though. I still love wearing DMs, Oxford bags and mannish jackets. I don’t think some things go out of style (not the dodgy home perms though - they’re best consigned to history).

Ted27 · 06/07/2019 23:05

Depends whether or not you thought Thatcherism was a great idea. Another scouser here, it was a grim time for many people.

Yes the music was great, but every decade and every generation has their music.

The 1980s was for me the start of rampant consumerism. I'm not sure we are any better as a society for the expansion of 'choice'.

If you don't know the song check out the Specials Ghost Town

Aramox · 06/07/2019 23:02

No hummus. No snacks or carrying drinks everywhere. Social events arranged firmly days ahead , because no mobiles - or sitting by the phone at home. Letters! Clothes lasted longer and cost more. We all read loads too because no phones and only live tv or vcrs. Sony walkman if you were very lucky!

mynameisMrG · 06/07/2019 23:01

I was a child in the 80s but I remember there being stress over money. The word recession was thrown around a lot and my parents really struggled to sell their house when we had to relocate for my dads work. Sunday’s were very very boring. Tv was rubbish and everything was closed.

Ohdearthefootball · 06/07/2019 23:01

Music brilliant! I love dancing more now than I did then though. No comms at all, payphone on the street, one house phone, two if you were very posh. Bus was crap, no lifts here there n everywhere, you walked if you missed said crap bus.

Kashali · 06/07/2019 23:00

Bloody brilliant! Being a teen and young adult in the 80's was amazing.

BackforGood · 06/07/2019 22:58

Not very glamorous if you lived in a mining town.
Watch Pride (was on TV last week) or Billy Elliott for small bits about the hardship, bitterness and anger around the miners strike.

We had high unemployment (listen to a bit of UB40), and YTS schemes.

We had permed hair, shoulder pads and REALLY big glasses. (not many people walked around looking like Duran Duran).

The music was fab though.

Soola · 06/07/2019 22:57

Absolutely fabulous!

I lived, worked and socialised in London and every single day was wonderful!

Great time to be alive, the clothes, the hair, the make up, the music, great tv, the world was our oyster!

Probably around 50% of my time was spent dancing!

Which is sad as I hate dancing now!

clary · 06/07/2019 22:53

ok I'll go.

My hair was daft, a big bubbly perm. Quick to do tho.

For fun, we went to the pub, the cinema, the theatre, listened to music.

I was never glamorous so I'm the wrong person to answer that one.

We ate the same kind of food as I do now...I was a student for a good deal of the 80s so I ate a lot of lentils. My uni was fee-free tho and I even got a grant! No ready meals I guess but I cook now too so.

I worked on a newspaper so that was very different, typewriters, carbon paper, lots of staff, lots of rather laborious processes, lots of cuttings files and printing up of photos, no google to check things so we used dictionaries and the phone book a lot more. Also spent all day on the phone not the email, and made notes in shorthand. All that has utterly changed, but that's quite industry-specific.

A better time? Well, I was in my late teens/early 20s so yes, for sure! Who wouldn't want to be 22 again?

Auntpetunia2015 · 06/07/2019 22:51

I was 12 in 1980 so spent my whole teens during the 80s. Music was fabulous. Makeup could be hideous electric blue eyeliner and and bright pink lipstick the norm. But times were hard 100s of thousands of people out of work. Lots of industries being closed down by Maggie Thatcher. I’m from Liverpool she did her best to kill our city. It was called “managed decline”. You left school with not much hope of getting a job. Inflation kept going up as did cost of living but wages didn’t.

Pubs opened at 11 closed at 3 and re-opened at 7 till 11. Night clubs shut at 2am all of them. Shops shut half day Wednesday and all day Sunday. Bus fare went from 2p to get to school 2 miles away to 20p by the time I left.

daffydowndilys · 06/07/2019 22:51

It felt no different than it does now to me.

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