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What was life like in the 80s?

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Strangerthanadeadting · 06/07/2019 22:44

As a recent fan of Stranger Things and having only been four years old at the end of the eighties, I'm fascinated to know what life was like for teens & adults back then.

It's depicted as being so much fun on TV. So colourful, the music is brilliant, the fashion so vivid. It was a time before the Internet, social media, plastic surgery, the Kardashians.

I'm fascinated. I'd love to hear what life was like. What people did for fun, what they ate, how different a working day was, if it really was as glamorous as it looks, if the hairstyles took forever, what people thought the future would be like? Was it a better life? A better time?

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MrsMiggins37 · 07/07/2019 01:51

City of Culture was 1990 I think!

jay55 · 07/07/2019 01:50

I was a child.

We did play out until it was dark, ride our bikes all over.

Takeaway was a chippy tea from the van very, very occasionally.

Nothing was pre-chopped or prepared in the supermarket.

I wore odd florescent socks, had jelly bags and shoes.

Wasn't allowed a perm.

Totaldogsbody · 07/07/2019 01:43

I got married in '81 couldnt wait to see Princess Dianas dress which was a big disappointment to me. It was the era of Thatchers Britain, miners strike, the mortgage rate went through the roof I think it went to 15%. School leavers could choose to go on YOPs (youth opportunity programme) to try and get employment got the same rate as you would on unemployment benefit I think.
The pubs closed at 11pm then it was onto the dancing which closed about 2am.
If anyone had a mobile they were rich, and the mobiles were like bricks.
VCRs were introduced to .
The games consoles were comodores or spectrums.
In Glasgow the big concert venue was still the Apollo, still miss it. The concerts were a lot cheaper to get into relatively speaking.
The music was good, Eurythmics,Enya, Yazoo, the Smiths, R E M, U2.
Glasgow was city of culture and we had the Garden Festival.

x2boys · 07/07/2019 01:39

Yes Hover crafts I forgot all about them whatever happened to them?

ABoozedMoose · 07/07/2019 01:37

We had fewer television channels but better eyebrows

We had hovercrafts and Concorde but no sushi

MrsMiggins37 · 07/07/2019 01:36

My kids play out. I think it’s safer now as they have phones. Why do people think it’s more dangerous now? I remember sad cases like Susan Maxwell, Sarah Hogg etc. They are no more prevalent now than then.

The main additional physical danger in letting kids play out is IMO increased traffic

HeddaGarbled · 07/07/2019 01:35

People on benefits in the 80s weren’t as demonised as they are now

Ahem, Norman Tebbitt and the get on your bike thing? 1981.

The Tories were fucking vicious to the unemployed until the recession started affecting white collar workers.

MrsMiggins37 · 07/07/2019 01:33

Nowadays you can be on benefits and still have holidays and new TVs and takeaways

I think it’s more the other way round these days. We had family members who got money for fuck all in the 80s and had better lifestyles than my parents who slogged their guts out. We’re NC now but I doubt they’d get away with it these days!

maidenover · 07/07/2019 01:32

Loving the trip down memory lane.

I think the best bit about growing up in the 80s was probably just being able to play out all the time. I’m sure my children would love to have half the freedom I had.

My abiding food memory is the cheesy Findus crispy pancake.

x2boys · 07/07/2019 01:29

Also there was very little kids Tv and often whole families would watch TV together which lead to some quite inappropriate viewing ,Tenko, Thornbirds Howard's way etc I watched them all and I can't have been more than 9 or 10.

x2boys · 07/07/2019 01:25

I tbink.it depends on where you lived I grew up.in greater Manchester and both my parents were employed in fairly good jobs so we were quite affluent I suppose we went abroad most years ,Neighbours and Home and away were huge in the 80,s ,if you arranged to meet someone you had to meet them at the designated time as there was no mobiles, face book, messenger etc

AriadneesWeb · 07/07/2019 01:23

People on benefits in the 80s weren't as demonised as they are now
Because back then if you were on benefits you were POOR. Like you couldn’t afford enough food or heating kind of poor. Nowadays you can be on benefits and still have holidays and new TVs and takeaways.

MrsMiggins37 · 07/07/2019 01:20

God Sundays were shit!

AriadneesWeb · 07/07/2019 01:16

God Sundays were awful! Everything was closed and there were very few buses. People visited family, mums cooked Sunday dinners, dads and single people went to the pub after lunch while mums did the ironing and kids read or played games or watched tv (whatever was on, we had no choice). It was massively different when the 90s rolled around and we had a car, that’s when we started going to National Trust properties or museums or local events on a Sunday afternoon.

ohtheholidays · 07/07/2019 01:15

For me it was bloody awesome!

I was born in 1975,so I was 5 years old when 1980 came around.

The great things I remember,
I was allowed out on my own from 7 years old and as long as I was back in time for dinner no one cared or worried,I wish my 5DC could have had the same freedom that I had.
Childhood seemed to last longer,we'd go fly kites,go swimming,go on bike rides,walk for miles,go to different parks,play in each other's gardens and climb trees,play football.Hardly any children stayed in back then even if the weather was bad most of us would go out to play with our friends.

Halloween wasn't such a big deal back then but I did get to go a couple of Halloween partys which was really exciting because it was so out of the ordinary.

Bonfire night was a much bigger deal and me and my BF would make a Guy every year and do Penny for the Guy,every year we'd make enough money to get lots of sweets and my parents would always take me to an organized display(you'd be frozen waiting for it to start but it was always worth it in the end)and my Dad would treat us to food and drinks,one year they had a van selling pancakes and me and my Mum got to try some with bananas,maple syrup and ice cream one and they became a firm favourtie in our house after that.

The music and fashion was amazing and so different from what had came in the past,in 1988 I was 13 and I was a punk,my poor Dad despared but my Mum loved it,I had bright red hair,wore Doc Martins,thick ripped tights and short skirts and wore bright blue lipstick.My Mum tried to get my Dad on my side by saying"at least she won't have lots of boys knocking the door anymore to ask her out"but that bloody backfired,if anything even more boys knocked the door,much to my poor Father's horror.

Every year we'd go to Weymouth for a week(I still love it now that I'm 44)in the summer holidays and my parents would book us into a B&B so my Mum got a well deserved break from cooking and cleaning.

I always loved those holidays,we'd come downstairs every morning to a room of happy people to chat to whilst we sat and had our breakfast,cereal(always cornflakes for me)and orange juice followed by a lovely full english and lots of tea and toast and then we'd go off for the day exploring the rock pools,going to the beach,looking round the shops,having lunch and my Dad would usually book us all onto a coach mystery tour,those were amazing and every day we'd go back to the B&B so my Mum and Dad could have a bit of a rest(they were older when they had me)and then we'd all get showered and dressed up and go out for a nice evening meal in a restaurant.

Take aways were more of a rare treat back then,the only one's we really had were fish and chip shops or a Chinese,that was until we had a Snappy pizza place open(somewhere you could order pizza from to be delivered which seemed impossible back then)I can remember playing about 10 minutes walk from home and me and my friends were playing on the Action bus that used to come round(it was a massive double decker buss that had had the seats removed and was filled with toys,arts and craft stuff and games and there would be helpers that would set it all up for us to play with)and one of my friends came running around and said I had to go home now because my Dad wanted me!

I was terrified I thought I'd done something wrong(thought couldn't think what)so I raced home and my Dad and Mum were waiting for me,I asked what was wrong and my Dad said"just wait a minute"and then there was a knock at the door and my Dad made me answer it,he'd only gone and ordered me a pizza meal from Snappy pizza(I didn't even know it was a thing at the time)I was so happy I could have cried.

I'm still friends and in constant contact with nearly everyone that I was friends with back in the 80's so despite the lack of phone's,social media and computers I think maybe friendships were more solid back then for us when we were growing up than they are for some children now.

I often wish I could take my 5DC back to that time so I could show them what it was like.

For me the 80's will always be very fond memories.

hadthesnip2 · 07/07/2019 01:11

I must have lived in a different 1980's to @GreenTulips & a few other posters.

I left school in 1983 as a 16 yr old & started work 3 days after my final I level exam. First pay packet I took home £280 & gave my parents £100 pm keep.

Music was the best......Madness, Duran Duran, Simple Minds....you name it. All went downhill when Stock Aitken & Waterman got involved.

No one spending all day looking at their phone - only had the landline & you sat on the stairs talking to your mates or gf/bf with your parents telling you it was costing them the earth. Buses & trains stopped before midnight but it was safe to walk home after then anyway.

Lots of people smoked.....even in pubs & on public transport. No need to huddle in the cold to have a cheeky fag. No internet so most people bought a paper- some even had them delivered before they set off for work.

Early 80's there were only THREE TV channels....C4 was a revelation. So was breakfast TV. Programmes would end around midnight - so lots more sex at bedtime as you had nothing else to do....lol

MonkeyToesOfDoom · 07/07/2019 01:08

Some things were better. Music for sure. No internet and twitter etc to spread fads. I don't remember there being obesity issues back then, though the meals were awful by today's standards. Crispy pancakes and oven chips, fish fingers and chips, frozen lasagne and chips. No microwave meals though, all done in the oven.
Money was always tight but things were also cheaper. Petrol and fags were pennies.

Some things were much worse. Unemoyment, lack of money, lots of people in the dole. But it seems communities are much tighter back then too. Sounds daft but I never felt looked down on for being broke, these days it's all about the size of the house, the car, the money.

People on benefits in the 80s weren't as demonised as they are now. There was no poverty porn twisting people's view of the claimants.

Game shows were better back then. TV in general was cheaper, cheesier and better in some cases. Classic sitcoms, Blackadder, Fawlty Towers, Only Fools, young ones, Last of the Summer wine etc etc etc.

Was a great decade in a lot of ways really, better than the current one at least.

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 01:08

Christmas decorations are something I really remember.....lots of really gaudy coloured metallic streamers.

They would often come into the centre of a room from each corner. The tree would be covered in tonnes of very kitsch baubles in all sorts of colours and tonnes of those silver and gold bits of metallic strands. You'd still be finding them in March.

Trees always topped with a fairy and lights were the ones with multi-coloured plastic petal type surrounds.

The best cards to give or receive (especially from a school crush) were about a foot tall and padded!

StillMedusa · 07/07/2019 01:05

I was 12 in 1980... the start of my teens and a brilliant decade.
Adam Ant on my bedroom wall, my first concert was Spandau Ballet :)
I fell in love and cried over OMD 'Joan of Arc' when my boyfriend (aged 13) dumped me.
Human League 'Dare ' Album reminds me of the snowy winter of 80/81

My hair got progressively bigger (permed by the mid 80s)
My school was strict.. girls' grammar and teachers could still throw a board rubber at you.
Holidays... come home when the street lights come on... so much freedom. I swam in the canal and smoked fags bought singly from the off license wayyy under age.
Went to university in 1986 with a grant {the joke was 'what's green and takes an hour to drink?.. a grant cheque' ) and life was fun. Went to uni in Wales and everything was shut on Sundays including the pubs (probably a good thing)
Graduated and straight into a job with no struggle.
At home there was an avocado bath suite, a new microwave and hot air heating (which now strikes me as weird) ..parents were both teachers and gently neglected me.. I was expected to go to school and crack on with work and exams with very little supervision...which I did.

I physically called on friends... the phone in the hall had a lock on and no calls before 6pm. I watched the Faulklands conflict on tv, discovered MTV and binged watched Remmington Steele on tv with a very gorgeous young Pierce Brosnan as lead.

Life was good, far more uncomplicated than today!

jennymanara · 07/07/2019 01:05

Yes I think the seventies was better.

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 01:03

Yes! Ski yoghurts were the absolute paramount of food. We couldn't afford them but my Nan would always have them in.

For very special treats, like Boxing Day, she'd have a Vienetta in Grin

girlofthenorth · 07/07/2019 01:03

Meant to say wearsmymojo yeah we definitely felt the north south divide up north!

girlofthenorth · 07/07/2019 01:01

I loved being a teen in the 1980s.
Make up was Miners in Woolies. That was it - or Rimmel.
Goths were original and cool.
Chelsea Girl - why did that close ?!
No fancy yogurts - my mum brought Ski one day and it was like the Queen had come for tea.
The best music.
Ra ra skirts . Smile

growlingbear · 07/07/2019 00:59

For me it was a time when being openly greedy and self-serving became socially acceptable or even desirable. Harry Enfield's Loadsamoney character was meant to be mocked and derided but he became celebrated. I remember feeling very uncomfortable seeing him on TV and I think I read years later that Enfield felt the character had been a bit of an own goal.

@NomDeQwerty - that's definitely true. I remember thinking that at the time. There was a sudden obsession with self - songs like The Greatest Love Of All - all celebrating Me! Me! Me! and greed was praised. You were supposed to look out for yourself, put yourself first and the idea was that if everyone did that we'd all be thriving and self sufficient. Hmm It was very different from the Seventies.

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 00:58

I think what this thread shows is that the 80s were very divided.

If you were in the South East or London, especially in anything to do with services it was fantastic. Economic boom, lots of available work, access to more and more 'exotic' things, etc.

If you were in the Midlands or North you were in a pretty bad way...massive unemployment, miner strikes, poverty, lack of education and social mobility, no holidays, very few trips out.

It was a huge divide- Thatcher was largely loved by the more middle class/Southern areas and absolutely despised in working class/Northern areas.

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