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Period symptoms no one talks about

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TammySwansonTwo · 05/06/2018 19:16

Day 1 of my period today which is always horrific (double whammy of endometriosis and adenomyosis) and was just thinking about how many weird symptoms I think of as normal, because no one ever talks about them.

The main ones for me are javelin arse and the feeling that my vulva has run a marathon. Oh, and the fact that I had no idea periods were supposed to be red until after my first surgery - I thought I was bleeding to death.

So much isn’t talked about that many women put up with awful stuff for years, and illnesses like endometriosis take years to diagnose. I think we should talk about it more!

What are other people’s weird period symptoms that they believe(d) are normal / universal?

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eyycarumba · 29/06/2018 15:22

Also get period bowel, Weirdly I also get the hiccups without fail, never throughout the rest of the month, but for the first few days I get them at least once

CarrieErbag · 24/06/2018 15:49

Mittelschmerz.

tobee · 24/06/2018 15:42

Period feet! My feet have often ached and feel a bit numb.

NameWithChamge · 23/06/2018 12:59

It was a really sharp pain on one side. I wondered if if was appendicitis! But only happened same time each month. Went and was checked for a cyst but no - and no other symptoms. Gone on the pill to avoid it now!

Marmalizes · 19/06/2018 23:43

Oh thank god I'm post menopausal. This thread has reminded me how bad periods were. What’s particularly upsetting is that your all still suffering so much. It seems to me that there’s been no improvement in gynaecology research/treatment or understanding in the last 20 years.

DSHathawayGivesMeFannyGallops · 19/06/2018 22:43

What's yours like? I get a sharp, small pain in the same spot, high up. It's not awful but I wouldn't miss it. I think I can feel one side and not the other as I don't get it every month.

It is known that women can feel ovulation, the phenomenon of feeling it has a fancy German name, I think!

NameWithChamge · 19/06/2018 21:17

Oh thank God - a fellow Ovulation pain sufferer!

DSHathawayGivesMeFannyGallops · 17/06/2018 20:13

So many of these I thought I was alone! Interested to see how many people have these alongside low thyroid and low vit d, which I also have and had to push to get treated.

In terms of what I get: Ovulation: I get a sharp pain for a day or so some months. That's relatively new but seems to coincide.

Before hand: easily stressed & easily tearful & easily angered pre period. 1/4 months or so I get sore boobs, like they've been weighted down and I have rubbed raw feeling nipples. My skin goes greasy, dull and spotty and my hair dulls with it. I look about 90 and 2 stone heavier and feel bloated.

During: I've been told I get very sleepy and cuddly- I am exhausted from pain, quite often and I I definitely feel the heat and flush easily. Physically, I spend a few days waddling. I get metal fanny- the entire thing feels rock solid and my labia feel weighted - and achey and stretched, may be like I've just pushed out a baby? I have what feels like a thin steel belt pulled too tight around my hips, causing pain in my hips and aches down my thighs (and my already clicky-poppy hip joints go mental). I feel like someone has kicked me hard in the base of my spine- like a boot heel is wedged in there. I get constipation and stomach cramps- they battle it out. Once every day or so my bowels win due to just being full and then for about 5 min I NEED to get to the loo ASAP for an horrific period poo that requires tampon being removed so it can come out more easily. I get about 10 min blessed relief before it all starts again. Clots and heavy cycle (been on the tube in summer and suddenly flooded, had to walk home with blood all over my bare legs and once stained a carpet in HoF fitting room. I was sat on the floor riding out cramps and bled through so fast!) and once had a huge chunk of un broken down lining just fall out- it was agony! Usually breathe through the cramps as if they are labour pains (not had the latter to compare, just got told to try this and it worked). Painkillers don't touch the sides so I don't bother with them. I use every colour/size of tampon that Lillette make. Sometimes changing every hr or so and adding a pad, too.

I am hypermobile in my leg joints and dyspraxic. I am slightly clumsier when I'm on and in pain but I have also discovered through reading up that these conditions will get worse when I'm due & I'm on. Some of my nastiest falls (fairly regular occurrence any way) have been just before a period. Took me ages to link that.

Also, period is never bang on time and my cycle and pattern of flow varies. Atm days 1-3 light sludgy discharge, leg pain & cramps. Day 4- heavy & all of the pain. Usually period last 8 days but the dribbly brown sludgy discharge at the end can bump it up to 10 or so. The weirdest was when I'd get pain between 11-3 every day but fine other wise. The only part I miss about being on the pill was the much easier period.

If anyone has any hints or tips, do tell! I would happily support a gynae page in Health topic if someone has the link to do so? I hate that everyone is suffering but glad we are not alone.

blitzen · 16/06/2018 11:16

Thought of another one, really weird. Just before my period, I am desperate to squeeze/pick any spots or blackheads! Like in an obsessive way. TMI sorry!

lastnamefirstfirstnamelast · 13/06/2018 09:38

my trigmeminal neuralgia kicks off big time, I'm clingy and insecure too....soon as its all over i'm pain free and confident!

eggcellent · 12/06/2018 19:14

Sore nipples and clinginess.

Whisky2014 · 12/06/2018 12:52

Period started 2 days ago. Headache came on last night just as I was going to sleep. Woke up and oh my god its still pounding. Took Nurofen fast action and it's barely taken the edge off it. I always get headaches on my period but this ones bad.
Never got them when I was on the pill but i dont want to take hormone inhibitors anymore.

YearOfYouRemember · 12/06/2018 11:17

I haven't seen my GP since last Monday so she knows I was bleeding for nearly a week. Had nothing over night and then again this morning. Wearing a lot of dark trousers! Someone did tell me on my other thread which ones I'm on. I took day one on day one of my period last month then had two weeks of one colour and then two weeks of a different colour. My period came again on Friday as due but it feels like I didn't have a break.

I have a book on going through the menopause in a more natural way but no chance to read it yet.

Thank you.

AuntyElle · 11/06/2018 23:33

I don’t know Year, when the flooding happened to me I wasn’t on HRT. But I do know that your body can take a while to adjust to HRT - I was told to give it 3 months before deciding if any given HRT was right for me. Another gynae said review after 6 weeks. Not suggesting that you should put up with bleeding for anything like that long though. Have you talked to your GP about it?
Are you on sequential? ie you have a week of progesterone and so get a withdrawal bleed?
I’ve found Menopause Matters is good for asking questions or clarifying things: www.menopausematters.co.uk/to_progestogens.php

It’s a clusterfuck, that’s for sure!

YearOfYouRemember · 11/06/2018 21:59

It seems to be tailing off now, AuntyElle. Will it happen again?

AuntyElle · 11/06/2018 21:37

Yes, YearOf, I was totally unprepared for the move into perimenopause. It took me four years and a new GP to realise what had been going on. Massive flooding bleeds for up to eight weeks. And anxiety off the scale. I only knew about hot flushes and dryness, had no idea about the rest.

YearOfYouRemember · 10/06/2018 15:39

I've recently started on HRT. Have been bleeding for 12 days and the last two mornings I've woken up to a bed sheet that looks like it's mopped up after the chain saw massacre .

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 09/06/2018 05:30

I am having my night of restless sleep. I was still awake at 2 woke up about half hour ago feeling really hungry and can’t get back to sleep even though I feel so tired 😩

I really shouldn’t be on here but wanted to have a bit of a moan

freefallingthruthisshit · 08/06/2018 23:54

The sense of smell is a thing for me too and I'm 45!! All things smell kinda cheesy and I feel like I need to wash my nostrils out...

AuntyElle · 08/06/2018 22:47

This looks very relevant:
Ask me about my uterus by Abby Norman. Stunning cover.
Interview here: www.bitchmedia.org/article/bitch-interview/abby-norman-endometriosis-chronic-illness

Period symptoms no one talks about
AuntyElle · 08/06/2018 16:32

I do find that magnesium spray helps with the leg cramps, TheBogWitchIsBack. It’s also meant to help with the uterine contractions as it’s a muscle relaxant, but I have to say I personally didn’t notice any change there.

betteryou.com/magnesium-oil-original-spray

tobee · 08/06/2018 16:07

As previously stated up thread, I've had a hysterectomy leaving my ovaries in tact so still have a cycle.

I hate everyone today. Do you think that meant I'm premenstrual? AngryGrin

TheBogWitchIsBack · 08/06/2018 10:53

I get terrible leg cramps. My thighs ache to the point where it's uncomfortable to walk, sometimes it's the first sign that my period is on the way. I'm not sure how common it is but I've not rtft yet.

morningconstitutional2017 · 08/06/2018 10:41

I would get very constipated beforehand no matter what. I became clumsy and would have lots of 'near-misses' - not quite dropping things. Terrible headaches/migraines and very achy legs.

I may have mentioned before that I've never felt so good since the menopause.

mackvic · 08/06/2018 09:57

Feeling like my uterus is going to fall out.
And the week leading up to AF becoming the most ridiculous, unreasonable, angry emotional tit.👍
Oh and period poo, those are just 😷