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Biggest cultural shock you have come across?

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hibbledobble · 08/05/2017 14:11

What have you encountered while travelling that was your biggest cultural shock?

I'll go first: in Poland I saw families/extended families living 10+ in a 2 bedroom home. The concept of having a bedroom or even a bed to oneself is seemingly unheard of. Everyone sleeps in different beds each night, and beds are often shared. Having visitors in this set up is no problem either: everyone just rearranges. Water also came from Wells, lots of homes had no bathrooms. Ovens were these metal beasts that were plugged into the mains.

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TheElephantofSurprise · 08/05/2017 14:25

Public toilets in Ireland. Where the hell are they?

OP, where were you in Poland? I've heard of extended families living together but young marrieds were with parents while they saved up to buy a house outright rather than have a loan.

Katedotness1963 · 08/05/2017 14:22

Shelf toilets in Germany.
Hole in the ground toilets in Italy.
Also in Italy the rubbish lying around, it could be weeks between skips getting emptied, they would be over flowing, moving with rats and could be smelt a mile away.
Overcrowding in the Naples area meant young couples had to plan alone time. There was an area near our house where they would park up, cover the windows with newspapers and do their thing. It wasn't unusual for their to be a dozen cars there. Tiny Fiats...

Soubriquet · 08/05/2017 14:22

Gotta be when I went to the Dominican and saw whole families riding a motorcycle

Dad usually drives with a small toddler sat in front of him, another child behind him and then mum on the back with baby in her arms. And no helmets

Code42 · 08/05/2017 14:20

Experiencing racism for the first time (yes, I'm aware this is a very "white privilege" type comment...).

tectonicplates · 08/05/2017 14:18

There's plenty of people in London living ten to a room. It's been going on here for years.

Toddlerteaplease · 08/05/2017 14:17

The state of public toilets in France and Italy!