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I slept with my best friend last night

505 replies

AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

OP posts:
thatsforsure · 26/10/2016 19:16

i shagged my best friend years ago - it was very cringey for about a week - we were both unusually nice to eachother and that was weird. Fast forward 10 years we are still best friends but are both happily married to other people and never mention it (though it occasionally
pops into my mind and makes me smile!)

Amummyatlast · 26/10/2016 19:15

Such a lovely thread. I jumped on my best friend 15 years ago; he's currently putting our DD to bed.

AndreaKaren123 · 26/10/2016 19:03

Sounds like he has some feelings for you by saying that.... waiting for a long time. Good luck

MistressMerryWeather · 26/10/2016 19:01

Two.

I can't type this week.

MistressMerryWeather · 26/10/2016 19:00

Awwwwwh! This is lovely. Smile

I shagged my best friend almost 11 years ago - He's currently getting our too little boys ready for bed.

He's also still my best friend.

Good luck!

frenchbluepuffin · 26/10/2016 18:58

Awwwww love a bit of romance and happy ending!! Smile

Leanin15yearsmaybe · 26/10/2016 18:55

Yay!!! Oh this thread has made me all warm and fuzzy!! Congrats to you both Flowers

Farmmummy · 26/10/2016 18:54

Yay great news op, hope he will return to pet your cat again soon Grin

ArvidsDaddy · 26/10/2016 18:54

Your next strategic move, I guess, will depend on on how much of a carnal pleasure it was last night....Grin

MerdeAlor · 26/10/2016 18:44

Read the thread people

Oh and congrats OP Grin love a good 'shagged my best friend' thread.

ddrmum · 26/10/2016 18:24

Awwww how lovely!! This gave me my first proper smile in weeks. Congratulations OP (frantically looking for my hatGrin)!!!

ample · 26/10/2016 18:23

Congratulations to them both Flowers.
Lovely thread outcome, which is just the beginning Smile

And it doesn't always happen here in MNland so I'm happy to hear it's just as the OP had hoped. Warmed the cockles of my heart this has.
Lovely time of year too....dark, cooler evenings....every reason to stay in and do whatever takes your fancy...even better when it's all new territory. All the more chance to explore! Wink

emmyhNL · 26/10/2016 18:22

Well done OP! Really loved this thread!

Any news after last night?

UterusUterusGhali · 26/10/2016 18:21
Smile
FoxTeaParty · 26/10/2016 18:21

Oh this is just lovely Flowers so glad I have only just seen this and could read all in one go, good luck Op, keep us updated Wink

IhatchedaSnorlax · 26/10/2016 18:19

Yay - good luck Op. Glad it's going well!

Neem · 26/10/2016 18:14

Please tell us what happens!

BuntyCollocks · 26/10/2016 18:12

Yay! Love a happy ending. Pun intended.

Toyslayer · 26/10/2016 18:11

Just had a baby with my best friend, sleeping with him accidentally on purpose was the best thing I ever did ❤️
TALK TO HIM!
You obviously know him really well, so meeting up for a chat face to face will probably work out better than a text xx

ohtheholidays · 26/10/2016 18:03

We were friends first,he was the one who said he wanted to take me on a date I panicked but I'm so glad I went for it.

Very happily married and with 5DC now I'm so glad he had the guts when I didn't! Smile

NigellaEllaElla · 26/10/2016 18:02

I need all the details now. Don't leave us hanging!

Fluffycloudland77 · 26/10/2016 18:00

I did this, ended up married. still married btw.

BishopBrennansArse · 26/10/2016 17:59

Well done OP.

I did this 13 years ago. Celebrated our tenth wedding anniversary this year and have 3 kids.

Best way to land a bloke imho Wink

boo2410 · 26/10/2016 17:57

Just read the whole thread, was expecting something terrible so am chuffed that it has worked out swimmingly. There are too many sad threads on here. If you have time keep us updated. FlowersWine for you and Wine for DP (hope it's not too early to say that) too.

willsmummy1978 · 26/10/2016 17:53

OMG .... I need some romance ! Please can you tell us the whole story ? How the kiss happened ... what he said ..... please !!!

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