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I slept with my best friend last night

505 replies

AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

OP posts:
Finola1step · 25/10/2016 17:49

Are you both single?

ShowMeTheElf · 25/10/2016 17:49

He's your best friend, so you should be able to talk to him about it. Something along the lines of 'I feel odd about last night; not sure how to feel, what you think about it or how to react. Can we talk?'

What do you want to happen? Did it mean something for you or was it just a one night stand for you? Will you be able to forget and carry on as normal?

Whoopsieeeeeeee · 25/10/2016 17:48

Grin fuzzy

FuzzyBadger · 25/10/2016 17:47

Is he a neurosurgeon on £100k?

AtrociousCircumstance · 25/10/2016 17:46

You need to discuss it and be completely open about how you both feel.

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