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I slept with my best friend last night

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

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EggnoggAndMulledWine · 02/01/2017 23:12

Ah amazing update! Wishing you a happy 2017 op ❤

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 02/01/2017 23:06

Not much to say really except I am still with my bestie and we are looking at moving in together at some point this year.

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ShoesieQ · 31/12/2016 10:42

Am so glad MN have picked this as one of their threads of 2016,as somehow I'd missed it,and its such a lovely story to read in bed on the last day of a truly shitty year.

So Virgin,hows things with you and your bestie 2 months in? Keeping everything crossed you're both still utterly loved up Flowers

EveryDayIsASchoolDay · 30/10/2016 00:14

Woohoo 👍👍👍👍

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 27/10/2016 22:54

Oh don't worry, we have 😘

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EveryDayIsASchoolDay · 27/10/2016 22:32

Hope you're both having a lovely time together and have a nice plan for the weekend 😀😀😀

AllieBomBally · 27/10/2016 10:31

Bloody brilliant OP, good luck to you and your electrician and thank you for the exciting thread 💘

UnoriginalNN · 27/10/2016 09:41

So glad I held out on reading this thread until now Grin good luck OP! thirsty for details

embo1 · 27/10/2016 09:21

Brilliant thread!

Don't think OP will be getting much sleep this week!

I'm glad I never shagged my best friend! Kissed once. Felt all wrong. Bleueueugh!
Going to his wedding in a few days :-)

Mittensonastring · 27/10/2016 08:37

Married one of my closest friends, I resisted him at first. We didn't have a falling in to bed scenario though. He actually told me he wanted to marry me.

Enjoy the rush of new love.

Littlemissamy · 27/10/2016 08:23

I did this, best thing I ever did! It was a natural progression for us, we both just wish we'd done it sooner :)

Spadequeen · 27/10/2016 08:10

Friend not friends, I'm. It in some weird multiple partners marriage!

Spadequeen · 27/10/2016 08:10

Excellent result.

I drunkenly shagged my best friends. 15 years married and 2 children. And still my best friend

NameChange30 · 27/10/2016 07:52

Do you want to pet it, Lemon? Grin

LemonRedwood · 27/10/2016 07:35

Best Halloween film ever! I still have a crush on the cat Blush

SharkBrilliant · 27/10/2016 02:01

it's a good Halloween NN if anyone gets the reference

Sure do! Still love that film even after all these years! Grin

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 27/10/2016 00:41

I did wonder whether people would notice my NN when I started this thread. I admit that it wasn't the best name to go with when I name changed recently in light of recent events Blush

Think I'm going to keep it now though. If anything it's a good Halloween NN if anyone gets the reference Grin

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DreamingOfAFullNightsSleep · 27/10/2016 00:12

Oh virgin (you need to change that username now! ) your thread has made my night! Long may the happy cat petting continue, and in years to come you can add your "I shagged my best friend " story to the heartwarming stories on here!

Bananasinpyjamas1 · 26/10/2016 23:24

I agree with imperial! If you can be cheeky enough OP, it will definitely take the stress and awkwardness out of the situation. Which is what you want, right? Smile

DoYouRememberJustinBobby · 26/10/2016 23:06

This is just lovely. Have lots of fun whatever happens. Wine

holygold13 · 26/10/2016 22:52

Awwww what a wonderful thread!!!
I'm marrying my best friend of 10 years in September and I could not be happier! Grin

Pumpkin2010 · 26/10/2016 22:49

Super late to this thread but it's made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, I have a big grin on my face. Love a happy ending Grin

Scruffles · 26/10/2016 22:26

It's been a very long time since my cat got a good petting!

MouseLove · 26/10/2016 22:04

Yeah baby, let him pet that cat!!! WinkGrinWineHalo

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 26/10/2016 22:01

Wow wasn't expecting to return to so many replies again Shock

I haven't read through them all yet but thanks for all the positivity on this thread. I feel like a love struck teenager again 😊

Am a bit wary about a new relationship after being single for so long especially as my last DP was an emotionally abusive twat but of course I know not all men are like that. And I've known Mr Electrician for years so I know him well.

It's been a long day so am off to have a bubble bath and some wine Wine

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