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Original poster

I slept with my best friend last night

505 replies

AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

OP posts:
Olympiathequeen · 25/10/2016 19:38

Just goes to prove the difficulty of sustaining platonic friendship Grin

Just discuss it with him.. You need to know where you both stand and how you feel about each other.

Fwiw feeling true friendship is a better foundation for a relationship than just sexual attraction, and now that you have both, I hope it's the start of something beautiful Grin

Starlight2345 · 25/10/2016 19:36

Shameless place marking...This could be a lovely love story.

Doublemint · 25/10/2016 19:35

Joining in the "has he replied?!" Chorus.

Also please tell me you sent the "so are we engaged now?" Text!

sprinklesofweirdness · 25/10/2016 19:35

hope all goes well OP!

chinam · 25/10/2016 19:35

Come back. I need to know how this works out. It's all about me don't ya know.

PaulDacresConscience · 25/10/2016 19:34

Currently looking at my best mate, 20 years after our first drunken accidental night together...

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 25/10/2016 19:33

Happily placemarking Smile

Bookridden · 25/10/2016 19:32

Where is the OP????? You can't leave us like this!

themindbogglesallthetime · 25/10/2016 19:32

Any reply yet? Or are you in bed together?! Wink. Have a good feeling about this!

MrsA2 · 25/10/2016 19:32

Aww this is very exciting and cute!

StubbleTurnips · 25/10/2016 19:31

I did that with my best friend from uni, we've been married 10years now Grin

cakedup · 25/10/2016 19:31

Defo sounds like he likes you! I've got a good feeling about this.

rightguard · 25/10/2016 19:31

Any reply yet op?

ohfourfoxache · 25/10/2016 19:30

It sounds like he really likes you op Grin

Scribblegirl · 25/10/2016 19:30

I'm just impressed you had a random shag on a Monday Shock

laurzj82 · 25/10/2016 19:30

I need to know what happened! Good luck op

WoopWoop200 · 25/10/2016 19:30

I NEED TO KNOW IF HE REPLIED!!!!!!!!!
Good luck btw

Rubberduck2 · 25/10/2016 19:28

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Bettercallsaul1 · 25/10/2016 19:26

If the spark isn't still there for him today, does that make him an old flame?

Pisssssedofff · 25/10/2016 19:25

I hope it ends well. My boyfriend texted me within 15 mins of leaving the house having erm done the deed. I just think if they want to text they well text don't they ?

cankles · 25/10/2016 19:21

Did he text back????!!!!!!!

Elfontheedge · 25/10/2016 19:21

Oh my goodness! We have to know! Hope he replies with what you want to hear Smile

FurryLittleTwerp · 25/10/2016 19:20

Is he your current boyfriend now?

NoCapes · 25/10/2016 19:19

Oh this is going to have a happy ending I can feel it Grin

OP what have you said in your text?

SarcasmMode · 25/10/2016 19:15

I hope you get the reaction you want.

:)