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I slept with my best friend last night

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 25/10/2016 17:45

and now I have no idea what to do Blush

We haven't spoke to each other since last night as we've both been working today but I'm not sure if I should contact him first or should I wait for him to contact me?

I don't know what he thinks about it and whether he thinks it meant something or it was just a casual one night stand. I'm not even sure I know tbh Blush

Should I mention this to him or just forget it ever happened and continue on as normal?

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CantKeepSecrets · 21/12/2019 00:32

Update , update , update Xmas Grin

MrsMc2019 · 24/08/2019 09:13

Just stumbled across this thread!! I might just be hormonal but happy tears are flowing ❤️

AnastasiaVonBeaverhausen · 13/08/2019 11:17

I would love a "Reader, I married him" update on this 💓

AintNobodyHereButUsChickens · 30/06/2019 21:22

@Scorpiovenus This thread is from 2016, hopefully the OP is now happily married to him!

Scorpiovenus · 25/06/2019 11:24

and now I have no idea what to do
Haha i've done this once. Ill admit I did it cos I was told that he was rather large and was kind of intrigued. He was 13 years older then me also lol. Both single so no harm done but I didn't want to do it again so the letting him down nicely was the hard part. But still friends today years later and its just awkward next day as no one wants to be the first to admit it and talk about it :)

Id just send him, Hi whats up kinda thing.
and also you will know as his actions will show you if casual or more

hazandduck · 21/06/2019 12:25

Just found this in classics, sat here feeling sick as a dog with morning sickness and this has put a huge smile on my face.
I need to know if you still have ‘a spark’ with your electrician. Sorry...that was terrible.

GetMeOffThisCycleOfMisery · 09/06/2019 01:27

I'm nosey for an update too. Flowers

feathermucker · 08/06/2019 15:24

Ah, just reading this in classics, how lovely.

Hope everything worked out Flowers

highheelsandbobblehats · 24/03/2019 22:53

Enquiring minds need to know. Come back!!!

tinatsarina · 23/03/2019 22:17

I want to know this to :)

LadyPeach · 08/03/2019 10:46

Do you have babies now?

Confused1681 · 27/01/2019 22:09

I wonder if they are still together?

ShirleyPhallus · 14/10/2018 15:48

How’s it going @AVirginLitTheCandle?

ManaFleet · 12/10/2018 23:13

Absolutely brilliant!

Meandmy4 · 14/02/2018 21:41

Me too !... got super happy when notification came someone posted on this this thread ... was sooo hoping it was AVirginLitTheCandleSad

blueluce85 · 14/02/2018 18:27

I'd like to know too!!!

user1495997773 · 05/02/2018 21:59

Yeah OP, how are things going?

luckiestgirl · 29/01/2018 10:54

@AVirginLitTheCandle

I’m very curious myself!

Rejectedwoman · 22/01/2018 21:00

Just wondered if there were further updates. Stumbled Upon this thread by accident

Hushabyelullaby · 03/01/2017 17:35

Wow amazing OP Flowers

EveryDayIsASchoolDay · 03/01/2017 17:14

Awww. That's awesome news. Wishing you both a wonderful life together. Happy new home xxx

AddictedtoLovely · 02/01/2017 23:45

Awww that is so lovely! ❤️

ShoesieQ · 02/01/2017 23:43

Oh wow AV that's fantastic news!Thanks so much for letting us know,hope 2017 is fantastic for the 2 of you Flowers

Mirandawest · 02/01/2017 23:31

That's lovely Smile

WellWhoKnew · 02/01/2017 23:22

AW! Congrats.