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NO MORE COLD MUMSNETTERS!

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KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 10:30

Right, don't really know how to start this but I'm raging. I see over and over on here people struggling with heating, sitting cold after kids have gone to bed, waking up in cold houses and it makes me want to stamp my feet and scream. Apologies if I'm not articulate or organised. I just want to do something.

No judging, please share anything you feel may help, no matter how small. Also feel free to have a whinge. DS is at school and I'm cold now, and I'm fucking miserable. I don't mean to patronise, some of this may seem so obvious to some, but if one person is a wee bit warmer I'm a happy bunny.

Here goes.

U Switch We might as well be getting the cheapest deal.

Warm Home Discount You may be surprised by who can apply for this. A lot of providers have their own criteria and it's broader than you think.

Which Guide to Free Insulation Self explanatory but also has some information about DIY.

Draught Excluders - I have these on every door now. If you're turning down radiators or trying to save by only heating one room they are brilliant. You don't have to buy them. I cut up old trousers up the crotch. Stuffed with old sheets and sewed up. You can use newspaper at a pinch.

Curtains - Thick lined curtains on windows are great. They are also expensive. If you can forgo colour scheme charity shops have AMAZING deals. They might not fit in with the room but lord they keep the heat in. I've also fixed them over front and back doors. Our kitchen has no heat source but since covering the back door I can no longer see my own breath when I walk in.

Tinfoil - Wrap in round cardboard and whack it behind your radiators. You can buy special stuff for this, but if like me what wasn't an option this is better than nothing. We noticed a real difference. I did downstairs, doing upstairs today.

Builders Plastic - Not cheap but cheaper than double glazing. Tape it over windows and it can keep the heat in and the cold out. I haven't been able to do this but another MNer mentioned it and it seemed a very clever idea on a budget.

Cashmere - I wanted to laugh when someone said this, like I can afford cashmere. Keep an eye out in the right charity shops and you will. I've not been so lucky yet but I know other MNrs have. Real wool jumpers and throws are a great find too. Doesn't matter if it's not our colour (Don't tell the S&B board!) warm's warm.

Candles Heater Instructions in the link. Building mine today. Candles in a room can also give an impression of warmth. I pay £1 for 100 tea lights at ikea.

Slow Cookers - I made porridge in my slow cooker last night. Soon as we got up I had a bowl of porridge in DS's hands and some hot squash. He also gets a hot squash as soon as he comes in from school. Cheap and warming.

Hats - I'm not much of a knitter. But if you want a hat making PM me. They're usually wonky, not stylish, but if you're cold and want one for wearing around the house I'll make you one. I can also make little ones for children.

Crikey, this was longer than I expected. Please share any warm tips you may have. I'm sorry so many of us are cold, and I'm sorry I can't just pay all of our heating bills and we all have warm Winters.

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SundaySimmons · 14/11/2013 11:45

Cheap neck warmer. Get an old t shirt and lay it down flat. Cut through both layers from under the armpit to the other side so that you have a rectangle which opens into a tube and voila! You now have a soft neck warmer.

No sewing required.

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:44

Do you know the brand name Soup? Sounds great.

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elfycat · 14/11/2013 11:43

Maybe MN should do a 'no family should be cold' campaign. No differentiating between types of family of course but those with young children, or with someone with chronic illnesses certainly need to have an extra degree.

I'd second the suggestion of crochet if you've ever wanted to. Granny squares are easy to learn from youtube (I know this), it builds quickly and wool is inexpensive from charity shops (our Age Concern has a great colour range). Acrylic is warm enough and dries quickly. I took it up a year ago and it's lovely to sit under as you add more. In fact my DDs pull it over them and I have to keep turning which bit is on them so I can keep going.

Even if you're not keen on the candle heater I find burning 2-3 candles takes the nip off a closed room.

I've been so cold I can't sleep and I found folding a dry towel and making a U shape for my head to tuck into at night helped.

SoupDragon · 14/11/2013 11:42

If you have those clickable gel heat pads, boil them to reset just before you go to bed and they stay warm for a good while. Then you still have a click left when you wake up in the morning.

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:35

Forgot to say in op. Once you've cooked/baked using your oven leave the door open so the heat can get into the house. Even though you've switched it off there's heat in there you've paid for. Might as well have it.

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BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:35

But thank you Smile

stephanie, I thought so too, but because they don't have an ombudsman, and they aren't a mains gas company they can do whatever they want. And of course, £500 is going to bankrupt them Hmm

BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:34

I don't think it'll do much good, tbh. I've dealt with the company before, and they are completely inflexible. My DH is part of a community group, and he is trying to get the contract changed. so that the village is supplied by a different company. One with a governing body.

stephanielittl7 · 14/11/2013 11:33

What a lovely thread!. Will have to try some of the tips mentioned as gas is on emergency again and wont last til monday (payday).
Barfa thought companies werent supposed to cut off gas when there are young children in the house? Im nearly sure thats right.

smilingthroughgrittedteeth · 14/11/2013 11:33

we got a roll of stick on insulating stuff in the pound shop that we put around all windows and doors.

we have rugs in every room so that we aren't walking on cold floors.

spare duvet that lives on the sofa and we snuggle up under it.

leave the oven door open when you've finished cooking it really does help to warm up the kitchen.

we never put the ch on, we have oil free radiators in the lounge and bathroom that get put on when needed for short periods to heat the room and this has really lowered our bills.

hot water bottles in bed.

layers in bed, we have 2 duvets on ours, dsc have a duvet and several fleece blankets that they can add if needed.

keep your dressing gown next to your bed so that you can put it straight on.

dp says have sex that keeps him warm Hmm

Cakecrumbsinmybra · 14/11/2013 11:32

Just had to add - EXERCISE!!!! If you are stuck in, in the evening, get an exercise DVD, or go for a run if you can get out - I always find the house far too hot after exercising!

If you have any south facing rooms, when it's sunny leave the doors open for that room, when you go out in the day, to allow any solar gain to heat up the rest of the house.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 14/11/2013 11:32

Good luck to you Unicorns with TTC - I hope it will happen for you soon.
I do remember those days, but was so fortunate to go on to have my 2 DC.

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:31

Can she lobby her MP Barfa. Mn is good for retweets and raising awareness.

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Cakecrumbsinmybra · 14/11/2013 11:30

Definitely keep your feet really warm - primark do good bed sock type socks and they last for years. Wear them with slippers or over the top of your normal socks. Lemon and ginger tea is really warming, and if you get a flask you can boil the kettle once and fill up the flask - don't need boiling water for herbal tea.

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:29

Doing it now Tic Grin
Gosh we're a stylish bunch.

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BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:28

Kingfu, sadly not. I've lent her some electric heaters, and a camping stove. The hot water is coming through electric pipes, not loads but enough, so they're muddling through. and trying to get the arrears paid off.

TicTacZebra · 14/11/2013 11:28

Also, getting up and doing something. I know it sounds obvious. When I'm cold, I always hover the whole house because it warms me up.

TicTacZebra · 14/11/2013 11:27

Put a hot water bottle under your dressing gown and use the dressing gown belt to keep it in place. Iykwim?

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 14/11/2013 11:26

Ginger, honey, coffee and garlic are all great foods for heat
Known as yang foods in china

loveliesbleeding1 · 14/11/2013 11:26

barfa that is horrendous!
And yes mooncupgoddess got to keep that heart pumping!

UnicornsNotRiddenByGrownUps · 14/11/2013 11:26

This is driving me crazy. DH are in professional jobs and shouldn't be worrying about heating in a perfect world but it's just so difficult to keep paying extortionate amounts.

Last year we managed to scrape together enough money for a house deposit. Bought a house big enough to fit babies in to but have had no luck TTC. Have shut those rooms off so they don't have to heat them. Just feels ridiculous.

Makes me feel so angry for people on low incomes and with families Hmm

Like the idea

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:25

Fucking hell Barfa, is there anything we can do?

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BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:23

I know, I went with her to CAB etc and there's fuck all she can do. She has two young kids, and the company don't care. She can't even change supplier because the village is off the mains gas and the whole village is supplied by this one company.

MooncupGoddess · 14/11/2013 11:23

Move as much as you can. Jumping up and down or running between rooms really helps.

RigglinJigglin · 14/11/2013 11:21

barfa that's bloody criminal.

HotCrossPun · 14/11/2013 11:20

Great thread OP.

Some really helpful advice here, a lot of it I wasn't aware of. Thanks