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NO MORE COLD MUMSNETTERS!

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KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 10:30

Right, don't really know how to start this but I'm raging. I see over and over on here people struggling with heating, sitting cold after kids have gone to bed, waking up in cold houses and it makes me want to stamp my feet and scream. Apologies if I'm not articulate or organised. I just want to do something.

No judging, please share anything you feel may help, no matter how small. Also feel free to have a whinge. DS is at school and I'm cold now, and I'm fucking miserable. I don't mean to patronise, some of this may seem so obvious to some, but if one person is a wee bit warmer I'm a happy bunny.

Here goes.

U Switch We might as well be getting the cheapest deal.

Warm Home Discount You may be surprised by who can apply for this. A lot of providers have their own criteria and it's broader than you think.

Which Guide to Free Insulation Self explanatory but also has some information about DIY.

Draught Excluders - I have these on every door now. If you're turning down radiators or trying to save by only heating one room they are brilliant. You don't have to buy them. I cut up old trousers up the crotch. Stuffed with old sheets and sewed up. You can use newspaper at a pinch.

Curtains - Thick lined curtains on windows are great. They are also expensive. If you can forgo colour scheme charity shops have AMAZING deals. They might not fit in with the room but lord they keep the heat in. I've also fixed them over front and back doors. Our kitchen has no heat source but since covering the back door I can no longer see my own breath when I walk in.

Tinfoil - Wrap in round cardboard and whack it behind your radiators. You can buy special stuff for this, but if like me what wasn't an option this is better than nothing. We noticed a real difference. I did downstairs, doing upstairs today.

Builders Plastic - Not cheap but cheaper than double glazing. Tape it over windows and it can keep the heat in and the cold out. I haven't been able to do this but another MNer mentioned it and it seemed a very clever idea on a budget.

Cashmere - I wanted to laugh when someone said this, like I can afford cashmere. Keep an eye out in the right charity shops and you will. I've not been so lucky yet but I know other MNrs have. Real wool jumpers and throws are a great find too. Doesn't matter if it's not our colour (Don't tell the S&B board!) warm's warm.

Candles Heater Instructions in the link. Building mine today. Candles in a room can also give an impression of warmth. I pay £1 for 100 tea lights at ikea.

Slow Cookers - I made porridge in my slow cooker last night. Soon as we got up I had a bowl of porridge in DS's hands and some hot squash. He also gets a hot squash as soon as he comes in from school. Cheap and warming.

Hats - I'm not much of a knitter. But if you want a hat making PM me. They're usually wonky, not stylish, but if you're cold and want one for wearing around the house I'll make you one. I can also make little ones for children.

Crikey, this was longer than I expected. Please share any warm tips you may have. I'm sorry so many of us are cold, and I'm sorry I can't just pay all of our heating bills and we all have warm Winters.

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SwimmingMom · 01/01/2014 14:38

Small idea but works wonders for us. We put a heavy cloth/carpet/rug at the foot of the main door (ie rolled up to seem bulky) to plug the floor level leaks & this makes a huge difference to the overall home temperature.

Same works on window sills & patio doors - if you feel the draft it indicates small leaks..

AnUnearthlyChild · 01/01/2014 14:03

Those who can't wear wool, have you tried merino?

I cannod stand wool, leaves me crawling with itchy. But when i was backpacking in my more affluent youth (!) I bought a couple of merino woollies.

Cost similar to a Helley Hansen thermal, but is STILL going 10 years of constant use later. Omg they are warm. I have whitefinger and it is important to keep my core temperature up so I don't get 'attacks'.

Haven't checked, but you should be able to get secondhand on eBay, they can go a bit bobbly, so I can imagine people will replace perfectly serviceable garments and pass the old ones to charity shops or sell them.

Some ace tips here thanks. I really struggle to keep warm. Even when it isn't actually cold. :(

LEMoncehadacatcalledSANTA · 01/01/2014 12:18

barbarossa - that is an interesting post, my DP and myself fit log burners (although not as a main part of our business) and have recommended AGA wenlocks due to the defra thing, but that has made me think twice, that is appalling customer service :(

barbarossa · 06/12/2013 10:59

Alternative source of heat.
I installed an AGA Little Wenlock SE wood-burning stove in Feb. 2011.
I more or less HAD to buy this particular stove because of where I live. It's a smokeless zone and any multi-fuel stove suitable for my area cost twice the price of the AGA ( £550 ).
16 days ago, the flue blanking plate broke in two and fell off the back of the stove, meaning the stove was unusable.
I contacted the supplying dealer who phoned AGA for me and he duly reported that a replacement part was on it's way to me FOC as the stove had a 5-yr parts guarantee.
I foolishly presumed that the spare part would be with me within a couple of days so when it didn't arrive I contacted the dealer again and he told me this time that it would take 7-10 working days. And if I wanted AGA to fit it for me, it would cost £115 + VAT !!!!
AND this was if it was just a matter of unscrewing the old plate and fitting the new one. £115 + VAT to remove and refit TWO screws.
They have got to be joking !!!
BUT - as some idiot at the AGA factory decided it would be A Good Idea to use ordinary steel screws, rather than the stainless type neccessary in such an installation ( cast iron, massive amounts of heat, moisture from wood and various chemical by-products of the combustion process ), the screws were corroded into the cast iron and could not be removed.
The AGA engineer would have to take the stove away, send it back to the factory, the seized screws would have to be ground-off, fresh holes drilled and tapped before the replacement part could be fitted.
The estimated labour costs were so great, it would have been cheaper to buy a new stove !!!!
So much for burning wood as a cheap source of heat !!!
Needless to say, I fixed it myself.
I removed the stove, used my angle-grinder to get rid of the seized screws, drilled fresh holes and fitted the two halves of the old blanking plate using stainless bolts and SIKA heat-setting thermal sealant. Large washers ensured the two pieces of late stayed in place.
I thought this would be a short-term fix, but two weeks after my initial contact with the AGA dealer, the replacement plate had still not arrived.
So once again I contacted Mr. Dealer - who should really carry spare parts for all models - and e said he would phone AGA and find out what was happening.
Yesterday I got a phone call from AGA informing me that my initial request for a spare part hadn't been actioned and it would be Jan 17th 2014 before the part was available.
So it will be 7 weeks minimum before I get the new part !!!
Thankfully, I was able to cobble together the old bits and ensure they were gas tight ( I'm an engineer by trade and have much experience of such things ) but suppose I was not so qualified ? What would an elderly person do, or someone with no tools or skills who had had an AGA installed in order to save money on heating and/or use an alternative heat source ????? They would be stuck with no heat-source during one of the coldest times of the year.
So beware of AGA - Jilly Cooper's AGA-Sagas may paint a pretty picture of such things, but the reality is piss-poor service and bits that break and fall off in less than three years.

PigletJohn · 05/12/2013 12:22

OK. still got some available foc to anyone between Chichester and Portsmouth. Seems a shame to bin them.

KungFuBustle · 05/12/2013 11:01

Thanks for the tip pigletjohn. Had a look and they're not as expensive as I thought. I always imagined them as a luxury item.

We've had windy storm here last night. Our window broke and flew open. Taping the bugger up at 1am.

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WhatWouldFreddieDo · 29/11/2013 18:41

From an old, cold house in Scotland:

We have heating on 1 hr in morning and 1.5hrs in evening. The rest of the time we heat the room we're in with electric heaters on low.

YY to draught excluders. Don't go for fancy ones, either make your own or the bog-standard brush or weather-shield door trims are really good.

If you are rural, on oil and have friendly neighbours, it is really worthwhile organising an oil-buying ring. DH has done this with about 15 households, and we can negotiate a much better price because we're ordering so much, and at the same time can order whatever amount we can afford at the time without missing out on the better deal.

Electric blankets - I couldn't live here without them.

Thermal tops, cashmere and fleece gilet are my daily uniform. I see ccashmere as investment, and cheaper than heating oil!

Also thermal knee-high socks.

Finally, small dog on lap Grin

EduCated · 29/11/2013 18:11

Ooh, I didn't think my flat had even been that bad, but today I made a draught excluder from a pair of tights and an old, shrunken wool cardigan, and foiled behind the radiator and I am definitely noticing a difference. Suddenly realised I wasn't quite as cold. I'd never have done it without this thread, so thank you Smile

PigletJohn · 29/11/2013 14:09

I don't mind posting them, but it would be a big parcel so look at local suppliers first, to see how much a new one costs. I think Tesco sell Silentnight and own-brand.

KungFuBustle · 29/11/2013 14:07

Another one in Scotland who would be happy to pay postage if you wouldn't mind posting them.

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HerrenaHarridan · 29/11/2013 13:59

Oo oo piglet John, if I paid the postage would you mind sending them up to sunny Scotland.

Pretty please Smile

Abra1d · 29/11/2013 13:34

Uniglo have good value cashmere jumpers, around £40-50. And they wash well. I hvae just bought another one. I also recommend their thermotech longsleeved tshirts. If you wear thermal vest, thermotech plus cashmere jumper you will feel much warmer. it's my winter uniform.

PigletJohn · 29/11/2013 13:29

OOI I have been offering several electric blankets on Freegle (near Chichester) and had no takers. I supposed used bedding is a bit too personal.

They are quite cheap in places like Tesco, but at their cheapest in July.

EduCated · 29/11/2013 13:21

I'm working from home today and really noticing the cold. Having flashbacks to my student igloo house. About to go and don another layer!

Has anyone bought the UniQlo thermals? I like the look of them but no idea if they're any good, or of the sizing.

HerrenaHarridan · 29/11/2013 11:56

I just want to thank both the op and whoever suggested putting bubble wrap over your windows.

I have been waiting patiently on being able to afford to buy some and remembered I hoarded some from packaging.

I can finally have my curtain open in the day! You are wonderful.

I live in an old miners cottage with super high ceilings, thick stone walls (with cavity insulation), no loft insulation and SINGLE pane windows.
This bubble wrap or GREAT Smile

perfectstorm · 26/11/2013 10:51

Madmomma it's this one. (Out of stock, but Amazon did them for the same price when I was looking around.) I know you can get cheaper, but my memories of the things as a kid were they were a bit crap, and the new one is blardy amazing. Given a cheap useless item is a bigger waste than a more expensive effective one, we went for it.

It's so nice not having the poor kid cough and gasp his way through the nights.

OrangeMochaFrappucino · 26/11/2013 10:01

Whoever mentioned trying to keep their two year old warm - mine refuses to keep slippers on, won't wear a dressing gown and kicks the duvet off at night. He has never been able to bear blankets/covers even as a baby. I feel horribly guilty snuggling up in all my fluffy warm layers whilst he trots around bare-foot divesting himself of jumpers etc!

Bertrude · 26/11/2013 09:57

Thank you all. I'm havig difficulties with FIL, MIL and nan-in-law. MIL got mightily offended a few weeks ago - she was complaining about rising fuel costs and how they were struggling to pay for adequate heating, so we offered the services of my mate's husband who does loft insulation and can help arrange grants for pensioners. She said they weren't in need of handouts or benefits and would simply have to adjust their heating settings to reduce their outgoings. They won't accept help as they are too proud to admit they need it, and living abroad we can't physically do anything but I can send them things that'll help masquerading as christmas presents.

Thanks to this thread I have now bought nan-in-law and MIL some tartan wheatbag things, and some nice draught luckily I noticed I'd typed draft before it was too late excluders with matching throws for their living rooms. These are obviously for comfort and house decoration and nothing to do with us thinking they can't afford their bills, oh no.

Nan-in-law also has a nice cashmere jumper which until reading on this thread I had no idea they were supposedly that much warmer than normal jumpers, and a big thick dressing gown each for FIL and MIL. I think I'll order some nice candles too.

madmomma · 26/11/2013 09:05

Good news perfect I'm thinking of one for my eldest. Which brand was it?

perfectstorm · 26/11/2013 08:06

I have an asthmatic child where the cold triggers the asthma, and just bunging extra covers on/putting him in a sweater can't heat what goes into his lungs. In winter we've had to have the central heating on all through the nights in his room - ruinous. We can't use any plug-in electric heaters either, as they make him cough. So I bought a really good electric blanket in desperation, and it works. Heats his lungs, and the air around his bed a little too I think - no more hacking through the night, anyway.

It was £39 so NOT a cheap option, I realise, but it costs 0.5 pence a night to run. And will last years. And they are so, so much better than the ones I remember from my own childhood - lovely and fleecy underblanket, with the heat the same as sinking into a warm bath. You can set it at 28 or 36 degrees, you can set it just to your feet, you can set it for an hour or 9 hours. Brilliant thing. And no need for all night central heating any more, either.

madmomma · 26/11/2013 08:00

Grin @queen of the world.
What a lovely caring thread.
My tip is to rub like fury after your bath or shower then use talc. Just makes me feel warmer being bone dry and the furious rubbing perks the circulation.
Co-sleeping is an absolute boon in cold weather, too.

madamweasel · 25/11/2013 20:06

Make homemade draught excluders to reduce draughts under doors. Get old wooly tights and divide to make 2 stockings. Fill the stockings with anything insulating (old rags, socks, blankets, old clothes, wool, cuddly toys, balled up newspaper) and then sew the two open ends together, sealing the stuffing into a sausage. Jam the excluder tightly against the draughty door.

KungFuBustle · 22/11/2013 12:33

We store our toilet paper on the radiator. For an hour a day we have warm bog roll and I feel like the queen of the world.

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commonsenseplease · 21/11/2013 23:54

I So want one of those Japanese heated toilets!

ControlGeek · 21/11/2013 23:33

Massively cold bum every time common sorry, no other advice to give. Other than don't sit on the toilet seat, hover!!!