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Earthmotherimnot passed away peacefully in her sleep today.

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DaughterOfEmin · 04/09/2013 05:55

I am not sure if this is the right place for this but my mum (EMIN) had asked us to keep her mumsnet friends updated on her cancer battle.

I have already posted on the 'cancer' thread but wanted to make sure I had done what she wanted.

Mum - wife, mother of three, foster mother to over 80 children and grandmother of one - passed away peacefully in her sleep at 2:50 this morning. We were all with her, holding her hand and telling her we loved her.

Yesterday all of her family came to visit and they spent time with her, each of them getting their private time to talk to her and just be there with her and for her.

All she had ever wanted was to be at home with her family around her and she got exactly what she wanted. She will be missed so very much and we are devastated that she was taken so early.

She loved to read threads on fostering as babies were her life. She lurked a fair bit and would just offer words of guidance, comfort or encouragement where she felt she could help. In later months as she fought cancer she concentrated more on the cancer thread and I know it gave her some comfort.

She would have been 60 in October and we are devastated she never got to have her big family party but we get some comfort from the fact that all of her loved ones were with her yesterday.

I don't know how many people she communicated with outside of the boards or if any crossedover to real life but if anyone is interested in coming to the funeral once it is arranged then by all means drop me a private message and I can pass on the details.

OP posts:
Greydog · 06/09/2013 23:10

I am so sorry to read this - condolences to you

rockybalboa · 06/09/2013 23:08

So sorry for your loss.

SauceForTheGander · 06/09/2013 23:00

She was obviously so kind and generous and a total inspiration. I loved reading her thread on looking after the drug addicted baby.

Sending my condolences to you all.

BellaVita · 06/09/2013 22:55

I am so sorry Sad

Sending much love xx

MadameGazelleIsMyMum · 06/09/2013 22:52

So sorry for your loss. Your mother was an amazing woman. I remember the drug dependant baby thread very well, I couldn't believe how selfless and caring and wonderful your mum was.

Onebuddhaisnotenough · 06/09/2013 22:46

Sincere condolences to you all - her threads are an inspiration.

Wuldric · 06/09/2013 22:44

I am very sorry for your loss.

Your Mum was amazing. But you knew that already. I wish you courage for the days ahead and comfort in her love.

nothruroad · 06/09/2013 22:41

What an amazing woman your mother was. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace EMIN. x

nameequality · 06/09/2013 21:04

Really sorry to read this. I have read the fostering threads in the past. What a generous kind woman EMIN was.

georgedawes · 06/09/2013 20:48

I've just read your mum's thread about fostering the drug addicted baby and she sounds amazing, and such an inspiration. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope the love she inspired in others gives you some comfort at what must be a terrible time xx

BergholtStuttleyJohnson · 06/09/2013 00:24

Sorry for your loss op. 59 seems so young Sad . I haven't come across your mum before on here but from what other posters are saying she sounded like a wonderful lady.

getagoldtoof · 05/09/2013 23:11

I'm a children's social worker and often read EMIN's threads to give me insight into the truly wonderful job lots of foster carers do. She was an inspiration, no doubt.

DIddled · 05/09/2013 22:20

So sorry for the loss of your amazing mum- her legacy will live on in her family and those who she has helped xxx

OpheliaBumps · 05/09/2013 21:06

I'm so sorry for your loass. EMIN was an amazing, inspirational lady, she will be hugely missed x

TheHuffAndPuffALot · 05/09/2013 13:14

I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news. I vividly remember reading EMINs thread about her drug addicted Ladybird, and was touched by her compassion and generosity.
Although I never knew her personally she will always have a place in my heart.

RIP

ScrambledSmegs · 05/09/2013 09:21

I'm so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful woman, I read a few of her threads and always thought that she sounded as if she had so much love to give. Thanks

musicposy · 05/09/2013 08:22

Very sorry to hear this, I had no idea she was so ill. But I do remember reading her fostering posts and thinking what an inspiration she was. Sorry for your loss. The world has lost a wonderful person.

Hulababy · 05/09/2013 07:48

I'm very sorry for your loss.

CMOTDibbler · 05/09/2013 07:45

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

EMIN was such a lovely person, and she wrote so passionatly about looking after her foster children and about all the rest of her family. I'll miss her greatly, and I only ever knew her as words on a screen.

MirandaWest · 05/09/2013 00:42

I'm so very sorry for you all. Having read some of EMIN's threads and especially the one about the drug dependant baby, I could see what a wonderful person she was.

Thinking of you all x

meee123 · 05/09/2013 00:38

i'm so very sorry for your loss x

mummylin2495 · 05/09/2013 00:27

Can I add my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mum. She has certainly left her mark on the world because of all the care she has given to the children she has fostered, I am sorry you are grieving, but glad she is now at peace.

seasalt · 04/09/2013 23:00

I am very sorry for your loss.

DisappointedHorse · 04/09/2013 22:55

DaughterOfEmin, I'm so sorry for your loss.

I didn't know your Mum but I did follow her threads and she sounded like an incredible woman.

May she rest in peace and I hope you can take some comfort in what she did for others and how many lives she touched x

ScooseIsLoose · 04/09/2013 22:31

So sorry to hear about this my thoughts are with your family. EMIN seemed like such a wonderful woman and did so much good in her time here. RIP EMIN Thanks

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