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Earthmotherimnot passed away peacefully in her sleep today.

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DaughterOfEmin · 04/09/2013 05:55

I am not sure if this is the right place for this but my mum (EMIN) had asked us to keep her mumsnet friends updated on her cancer battle.

I have already posted on the 'cancer' thread but wanted to make sure I had done what she wanted.

Mum - wife, mother of three, foster mother to over 80 children and grandmother of one - passed away peacefully in her sleep at 2:50 this morning. We were all with her, holding her hand and telling her we loved her.

Yesterday all of her family came to visit and they spent time with her, each of them getting their private time to talk to her and just be there with her and for her.

All she had ever wanted was to be at home with her family around her and she got exactly what she wanted. She will be missed so very much and we are devastated that she was taken so early.

She loved to read threads on fostering as babies were her life. She lurked a fair bit and would just offer words of guidance, comfort or encouragement where she felt she could help. In later months as she fought cancer she concentrated more on the cancer thread and I know it gave her some comfort.

She would have been 60 in October and we are devastated she never got to have her big family party but we get some comfort from the fact that all of her loved ones were with her yesterday.

I don't know how many people she communicated with outside of the boards or if any crossedover to real life but if anyone is interested in coming to the funeral once it is arranged then by all means drop me a private message and I can pass on the details.

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YeahWhat · 12/09/2013 00:31

What sad news. Sad

I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Your Mother sounded like an amazing woman.

VegasIsBest · 12/09/2013 00:30

She sounds like a very special lady.
Sorry to hear this sad news and thinking of everyone who knew her.
Best wishes to you all.

BeaWheesht · 12/09/2013 00:26

I'm so sorry for your loss xxxx

mummylin2495 · 11/09/2013 23:42

I will be thinking of you Emin and your family tomorrow. May you R.i.P

twentyten · 11/09/2013 22:06

Thinking of you tomorrow. Xx

DownstairsMixUp · 11/09/2013 20:37

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NightLark · 11/09/2013 20:34

I'm so very sorry, I will think of you tomorrow and of EMIN and all the good she did. I remember how hard it was for her to carry on fostering after a baby left, how she made memory books and gave the baby to their new parents with love, and kept her sadness (and frequent frustration with social services) out of it all. EMIN was an inspirational woman. I am sorry for your sad, sad loss.

topsyturner · 11/09/2013 20:32

Emin will definitely be in my thoughts tomorrow Daughter
My sympathies to you , your siblings , and the rest of your family x

chartreuse · 11/09/2013 20:30

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Wishing you lots of strength and love for tomorrow and the future.

hermioneweasley · 11/09/2013 20:24

DaughterofEMIN, your mother was an inspiration to so many. It must have been a joy and a privilege for those who knew her. I hope tomorrow you can celebrate her amazing contribution without too much grief. Take care.

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 11/09/2013 20:19

I've only just seen this thread, but wanted to say how very sorry I am and to send my love to you all. A friend of mine was inspired by your mother to apply to foster. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

PollyLogos · 11/09/2013 19:19

I will be thinking of you all tomorrow. Much love and strength coming to you all from Greece xxxx

TidyDancer · 11/09/2013 18:48

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I remember the drug addicted baby thread. Your mum was a wonderful amazing person. What she did will inspire so many people. I hope that comes to be of some comfort to you.

Will be thinking of you and your family tomorrow. x

5madthings · 11/09/2013 18:46

i will be thinking of you and your family daughterofemin much love to you all and i hope tomorrow goes smoothly xxx

i am out tomorrow evening with some other mnetters, we will raise a toast to emin xxx

KurriKurri · 11/09/2013 18:40

Dear DaughterofEmin - and all of EMIN's family - you will be very much in my thoughts tomorrow, I wish you all strength, love and peace.

Sleep tight, lovely EMIN xx

KurriKurri · 11/09/2013 18:40

Dear DaughterofEmin - and all of EMIN's family - you will be very much in my thoughts tomorrow, I wish you all strength, love and peace.

Sleep tight, lovely EMIN xx

georgedawes · 11/09/2013 18:30

thoughts with you tomorrow x

SPBisResisting · 11/09/2013 18:29

I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember your mother's posts. She was inspirational.

AngelsLieToKeepControl · 11/09/2013 18:22

I'll light a candle for EMIN at 2.30 tomorrow. I hope that the day is as gentle on you as possible, sending much love and strength your way xxx

SunnyIntervals · 11/09/2013 16:36

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JustBecauseICan · 11/09/2013 16:12

I'm sure all of MN will be with you all tomorrow. x

DaughterOfEmin · 11/09/2013 16:11

At 2:30 tomorrow (Thursday 12th September 2013) we are saying goodbye to our amazing mum. Perhaps you could spare a thought for EMIN.
We will miss her forever. Thank you.

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Charleymouse · 06/09/2013 23:18

So sorry for your loss.
RIP EMIN
xxx

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 06/09/2013 23:10

Very, very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all at this sad time.

piemashandliquer · 06/09/2013 23:10

I also remember reading your mum's thread about the drug addicted baby, and was so moved by her love and kindness. She was so young, you must be devestated. It seems so unfair. God bless x

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