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Lines in books that make your throat catch

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pongping · 25/08/2013 08:50

Just been re-reading When We Were Very Young, and the lines in the last poem, Vespers, bring a tear to my eye every time:

Hush, hush, whisper who dares,
Christopher Robin is saying his prayers

I'm not sure why - I think it's the beauty of the innocence, the image of a lost world (the book is all nurses and stockings)?

In fact, just the title of the collection gives me a shiver.

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oinkling · 25/08/2013 21:11

Doesn't give me the catch in the throat, but Stevenson's Requiem always make me wistful.

Under the wide and starry sky
Dig the grave and let me lie:
Glad did I live and gladly die,
And I laid me down with a will.

This be the verse you 'grave for me: 5
Here he lies where he long'd to be;
Home is the sailor, home from the sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 25/08/2013 21:06

How about Owen's 'Futility?'

Oh what made fatuous sunbeams toil to break earth's sleep at all?

bassetfeet · 25/08/2013 21:04

Sassoon again

?Who's this?alone with stone and sky?
It's only my old dog and I?
It's only him; it's only me;
Alone with stone and grass and tree.

What share we most?we two together?
Smells, and awareness of the weather.
What is it makes us more than dust?
My trust in him; in me his trust.?
― Siegfried Sassoon

LauraChant · 25/08/2013 21:01

I haven't Lydia but I shall look out for it. I have tead The Haunting, but ages ago.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 25/08/2013 20:59

When The Wind Blows :(

oinkling · 25/08/2013 20:57

If we're including songs then "In The Ghetto".

...and his mama cries.

LydiasLunch · 25/08/2013 20:56

LauraChant have you read Memory by Margaret Mahy? Another favourite.

bassetfeet · 25/08/2013 20:55

I am loving this thread so much . Thank you from me for all these words . Flowers

oinkling · 25/08/2013 20:55

mignonette When The Wind Blows kills me every time. The blithe optimism, especially. Odd parts of it really upset me. Like when Hilda says the grass is a funny colour. It upsets me that they don't understand enough about what's going to happen in what little remains of their lives, even though I don't want them to.

LauraChant · 25/08/2013 20:54

Hurrah for the Green Knowe love.

Quangle I am the same with When A Child is Born. And Beautiful Boy - when Lennon sings "I can hardly wait/ To see you come of age". And, embarassingly, "did you think I would leave you dying" in Two Little Boys - because I have two little boys. Oh and finally if we are talking about songs: "Goodnight children everywhere, your mummy thinks of you tonight".

FriskyHenderson · 25/08/2013 20:54

"Not now, Bernard" Grin That poor neglected boy!

Not a book but a song, The Dark is Rising by Mercury Rev:
I dreamed that I was walking
And the two of us were talking
Of all life's mysteries
But words that flow between friends
Winding streams, without end
I wanted you to see
But it can seem surprising
When you find yourself alone
And now the dark is rising
And a brand new moon is born
I always dreamed I'd love you
I never dreamed I'd lose you
In my dreams, I'm always strong

It was on a radio once in the background when I was heavily pregnant and all of a sudden it got very dark outside and I burst into tears and knew I'd be playing it at the baby's funeral. Freaked me right out and I can't hear it without sobbing despite the baby being very grown up now!

Quangle · 25/08/2013 20:47

I love that Sassoon one. There's a very naff Christmas song that evokes the same in me - the Johnny Matthis song, "When a child is born". It's the line about "For a spell or two, no one feels forlorn". Total sobber.

MairzyDoats · 25/08/2013 20:47

Laura that's my favourite children's book too, and my favourite line :)

pongping · 25/08/2013 20:46

Oh, and the play A Day in the Death of Joe Egg, about the struggle of parents to cope with their daughter's disability. There's a wonderful monologue where the mother, Sheila, talks about Joe as a baby - her desperate, desparate hope that Joe knocking over a tower of bricks was deliberate and means progress. Great play.

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pongping · 25/08/2013 20:36

If we're moving into other forms (and we should, we should, this thread is giving me goosebumps and i've made a few purchases on Amazon while reading) - Everyone Sang by Siegfried Sassoon:

Everyone suddenly burst out singing;
And I was filled with such delight
As prisoned birds must find in freedom,
Winging wildly across the white
Orchards and dark-green fields; ononand out of sight.

Everyone's voice was suddenly lifted;
And beauty came like the setting sun:
My heart was shaken with tears; and horror
Drifted away ... O, but Everyone
Was a bird; and the song was wordless; the singing will never be done.

Some BASTARD included that as one of the poems on the underground and made me weep on my way to work.

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Astr0naut · 25/08/2013 20:30

Oh, the places you'll go. Dr Suess.

Can't remember exact lines, but I can't read it to DS, 3, because of the double edged sword of memories it conjures and the thoguth that that'll be my dcs one day.

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 25/08/2013 20:24

Laura how lovely.

LauraChant · 25/08/2013 20:16

Oh, I forgot my favourite children's book, The Children of Green Knowe, where Tolly and his grandmother hear a voice singing Lulla Lullay.

"Why are you crying, Granny? It's lovely."
"It is lovely, only it is such a long time ago. I don't know why that should be sad, but it sometimes seems so."
...
She played, but it was Tolly who sang alone, while, four hundred years ago, a baby went to sleep.

mignonette · 25/08/2013 20:04

Ben Jonson 'Part Of An Ode' written about the loss of his own child-

"IT is not growing like a tree
In bulk, doth make man better be;
Or standing long an oak, three hundred year,
To fall a log at last, dry, bald, and sere:
A lily of a day

Is fairer far in May,
Although it fall and die that night;
It was the plant and flower of light.
In small proportions we just beauties see;
And in short measures, life may perfect be"

The author Susan Hill had 'A Lily of a Day' from this poem engraved on the headstone of her daughter Imogen, born too premature to survive. I cry whenever I read this poem.

I also cry at 'A Tree Grows In Brooklyn' when Francie loses her Father. And at Raymond Brigg's 'Ethel And Earnest' when they go to see Ethel's body at the morgue and there's a pot of bleach on the table next to her body. Then later on the drawings of Earnest eating his solitary lunch.....'Where The Wind Blows' is heartbreaking too.

oinkling · 25/08/2013 19:46

There's a bit in Captain Corelli's Mandolin where the occupying German army takes control of the island and is instructed to round up the previously jointly-occupying Italian army (their staunch friends for months) and execute them all by firing squad. Leutnant Gunter Weber protests but gets nowhere apart from having his protest recorded. He also tries to delay shooting his friends but is urged on, with word that more Italians who need to be cut down by rifle fire are soon to arrive. When the crucial time inevitably comes, there are a couple of lines I struggled to read:

"Very well," said Weber, and he closed his eyes and prayed. It was a prayer that had no words, addressed to an apathetic God.

Hassled · 25/08/2013 19:36

Oh my word - yes, the end of Lord of the Flies. I read it to the DSs and sobbed embarrassingly.

Hassled · 25/08/2013 19:35

That Christopher Robin poem makes me well up every time - it is all about the innocence, isn't it?

For me it's the end of To Kill A Mockingbird - the bit where Scout is on Boo's porch seeing the street and events as Boo would have seen them (there's something about how Summer came, and he watched his children's hearts break), and then right at the end about Atticus - "he would be there all night, and he would be there when Jem waked up in the morning".

VerySmallSqueak · 25/08/2013 19:29

Absolutely, FolkGirl. Sad

TroublesomeEx · 25/08/2013 19:24

VerySmallSqueak yes, there's more before my quote too, nothing major, just setting the scene and giving more of a context. Those couple of paragraphs describing people in their last hours of freedom, humanity and (often) life are just so utterly devastating, as MamaMary said.

It's the final line in my quote that gets me the most. Because it's true. We would - every single one of us.

And the fact that there are people around the world today experiencing similar levels of desperation and they don't feel any differently either...

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 25/08/2013 19:23

What a piece of work is a man! How noble in
reason, how infinite in faculty! In form and moving
how express and admirable! In action how like an Angel!
in apprehension how like a god! The beauty of the
world! The paragon of animals! And yet to me, what is
this quintessence of dust? Man delights not me; no,
nor Woman neither; though by your smiling you seem
to say so.

That KILLS me when Withnail does it in Withnail and I. So sad...so ironic that this struggling actor gives a killer performance in a rain washed London park with no audience but those wolves...