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i want to make a memory today - suggestion??

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Mimstar · 02/04/2013 10:48

Okay I want to do something spontaneous today. I want to do something with 4 year old DD which will make lovely memories, something unusual, something we don't normally do. Something a bit crazy.

Last time I felt like this, within an hour we has jumped on a train to the lake district and we boyght fresh bread and cheese and ate them by a lake, drawing everything we could see with our coloured pencils.

Unfortunately, its too cold to sit by a lake today ans I want to make a new memory :) needs to be cheaposh, budget of 30 quid!

Suggestions gratefully received!

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Mimstar · 02/04/2013 19:55

Ah I'm really glad to hear my thread has inspired a few spontaneous outings! I live for being spontaneous, although DH is more of a planner Grin

Afternoon Tea was great and DD behaved beautifully. We had finger sandwiches, scones, wonderful cheese bite things and more cake than we could possibly eat. DD had orange juice and a chocolate milkshake and I had several cups of tea with real sugar cubes. Smile I don't even normally drink tea, but this just further makes it a 'new' experience!

I want to keep doing new things, unusual things, things which are born from imagination. I recently had a health scare which has made me want to live every day in every walk of life Smile

Next up - Has anybody seen Some Like It Hot? Where Marilyn Monroe's character has champagne and potato chips saying that it is a wonderful combination? Well, I have always thought...'hmm, I wonder if it is'. DH suggested we go and see a film at the weekend, but instead we are now going to buy an old, obscure movie and have potato chips and champagne (one of those little bottles - we aren't rich!). It might be horrible, the film might be awful, but it's new and then I can say I have tried it Smile

Other suggestions? What has anybody else always wanted to do?

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happydutchmummy · 02/04/2013 19:53

Wow, just realised how awesome my parents made some days! I would love to take the credit for these ideas (as well as the tea party one) but they are simply fun days from when I was a kid

In London, going to the national portrait gallery but not looking at art seriously - instead we played that whoever spotted the ugliest baby in any of the paintings won (a lot of the kids in the portraits look inbred!)

Going to visit a random farm. Not a petting zoo type one, but a crusty organic small farm where I helped look after the goats and got to feed the orphaned one a bottle. Just ring local farms and ask if they'd like some young helpers for the day. (I named the lamb I saw being born Peter - don't know why) it's still something I remember.

Going on spontaneous camping trips for one night (mainly in the summer). My dad would come to pick me up from school on a Friday but he'd surprise me by having camping gear with him. Then we'd take a train to a seemingly random station (I'm sure he'd actually done some planning but he always made it more adventurous for me) and find the nearest campsite. (Although now I'm thinking if it as a parent myself maybe these trips were more to give my mum a rare night of peace.........hmmmmm)

Going into a Forrest an letting me chose our route. Left or right? My choice. Not the adults.

Random boat trips. Little boats, large ships, hiring a fast speedboat for the day. Yes, there were quite a lot of random days out on the water.

Going into the countryside and walking from one village to the next. Then getting the train back to the original village. These trips always involved hot chocolate with cream if memory serves.....

Puddlelane · 02/04/2013 19:03

I've decided I'm taking my eldest to the theatre and for lunch :) annoyingly we live in a town where pizza/pasta restaurants reign!
He would love afternoon tea!

lucysmam · 02/04/2013 18:51

i like the idea of afternoon tea with dd1, dd2 would (unfortunately) be an ass Sad

will have to start saving and find out where local to me serves afternoon tea

i used to love a spontaneous trip to the coast for fish and chips when i was small....yum!

PotteringAlong · 02/04/2013 18:45

Make a kite and go to fly it?

Ruprekt · 02/04/2013 18:44

Anymore ideas?

Not sure my boys would appreciate afternoon tea!!

happydutchmummy · 02/04/2013 18:43

Yay, glad you chose my idea, I feel special now!

Just wanted to say that I hope you had a really lovely time and both enjoyed it. Hopefully it will make a lovely memory.

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Puddlelane · 02/04/2013 17:42

Im with cuppa I'm going to take mine to do the same!

Puddlelane · 02/04/2013 17:42

That is a blooming lovely thing to do!

CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger · 02/04/2013 16:53

I am going to use you as inspiration and do something spontaneous with DD the next weekend we have free (I work FT) - thanks :)

UnChartered · 02/04/2013 16:18

what a lovely idea!

have a fabulous time Thanks

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Mimstar · 02/04/2013 16:13

Thanks so much guys Grin

I have decided to go for afternoon tea, thanks! Hotel near us does fancy afternoon tea with a children's version.

We are getting very dressed up and heading off as they serve until 6 :)

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BikeRunSki · 02/04/2013 11:22

Where are you? If you can be in the Lakes in a hour, can you get to the coast easily? Train, run on the beach, battling winds and laughing, warm up with fish and chips?

happydutchmummy · 02/04/2013 11:18

Not sure if this is something you and your dd would enjoy but.... How about going out for a really luxurious afternoon tea? You could both dress up in your prettiest dresses and go to a local hotel/ manor house and eat delicious cakes and tiny finger sandwiches and pretend to be princesses. £30 should get you a good selection.

One of my favourite childhood memories is going for afternoon tea at fortune and mason and wearing my special blue dress. I think somehow my mum made it into a really special occasion and it makes me smile every time I think of it.

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Mimstar · 02/04/2013 11:10

Bump Smile

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Mimstar · 02/04/2013 10:49

Apologies for typos, on phone!

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