ok amazingmumof6 but i am in NO WAY attempting to compete with pan pipes, turtle boy, burka woman or fanny parties 
i have just one Tiger Mother friend, she is v sweet when the kids arent about which-makes me wonder why we are friends but she is just pure entertainment value
Her DS1 is 'spirited'. On one of his spiritual expression sessions he decided to belt my DS in the face, cue my DS crying, me looking like this 
TM takes the spirited one to one side:
TM: Darling why did you hit DSofMartha? I havent seen you hit anyone for ages (she obviously missed him belting another kid 15 mins earlier)
Spirited one: Nah
TM: Darling - were you angry with DSofMartha
Spirited one: Yes
TM: Darling, dont be angry, please talk to mummy about your anger, we dont express anger in this way do we darling
Our DS's were 18 months old at the time!!! Me and the other mothers were just sat there watching this anger management workshop looking like this 
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Then was the time when TM's DS started preschool, mine and my other friends DS had been going to a private day nursery for some time and were used to the ways and wonders of nursery, they are all the same age being born within a week of eachother, my DS and his mate are staying at the private nursery until Reception as-it is more convenient for us mothers
Anyway, we all met up a few weeks ago and the spirited one was putting his coat on, fair play - my DS can do that too, TM holds court and makes sure we can all hear her say:
Look look everyone - look how independent my DS is - independence is soooo important at school you know - as you will all find out next year
Sigh - i can dig out some more if they are needed!