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Advice for after sixth form no uni

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Bleakmidwinter900 · 04/11/2025 05:45

Hi
please can I have advice , my august born child (just turned 16) is currently in year 12 and should be going to the same sixth form for year 13, I’m asking what can she do next after year 13 , she has autism and some health issues she doesn’t want to go / wouldn’t cope at uni , but would like to stay in education as long as possible as it’s good for her and the only time she mixes socially.

I am also wondering what she could do at a college where I would still qualify for child benefit. As a single parent it really helps.

The school are have been good supporting for her additional needs but I’m worried when she leaves she will never be able to work properly.

are colleges usually good with SEN children ?
Currently she is doing one A level course and two others which I think are Btech

many thanks

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EarthlyNightshade · 04/11/2025 10:11

caringcarer · 04/11/2025 10:02

I found my foster sons college absolutely brilliant with him. Far better than his special school had been. He started on a level 2 BTEC course and did functional skills English 1 and spent a year learning GCSE Maths. He passed all of his courses that year and moved on to the level 3 BTEC which we thought would be too difficult for him but no he managed them well because his college gave him a 1-1 support in academic sessions and he was fine for practical aspects of the course. He was given software for computer that aided his reading. He became so much more independent and built up a brilliant relationship with his tutors. He won the college prize for most improved student last year and managed to achieve 2 x distinctions and 1 x merit which at the beginning of the 2 years we thought would have been so far out of his grasp. Now he's at uni. DH spends a couple of days a week with him helping him with life admin and laundry/cooking but he's coping with his course and learning to make new friends with people on his course. Finding a supportive college is key. We found DS doing btecs and loving his course a huge relief for us because when he left his special school I was sick with worry about his future. Now I'm hopeful he will be able to get a job at end of his degree.

What a lovely post.

caringcarer · 04/11/2025 10:02

I found my foster sons college absolutely brilliant with him. Far better than his special school had been. He started on a level 2 BTEC course and did functional skills English 1 and spent a year learning GCSE Maths. He passed all of his courses that year and moved on to the level 3 BTEC which we thought would be too difficult for him but no he managed them well because his college gave him a 1-1 support in academic sessions and he was fine for practical aspects of the course. He was given software for computer that aided his reading. He became so much more independent and built up a brilliant relationship with his tutors. He won the college prize for most improved student last year and managed to achieve 2 x distinctions and 1 x merit which at the beginning of the 2 years we thought would have been so far out of his grasp. Now he's at uni. DH spends a couple of days a week with him helping him with life admin and laundry/cooking but he's coping with his course and learning to make new friends with people on his course. Finding a supportive college is key. We found DS doing btecs and loving his course a huge relief for us because when he left his special school I was sick with worry about his future. Now I'm hopeful he will be able to get a job at end of his degree.

Bleakmidwinter900 · 04/11/2025 09:54

Toomanyminifigs · 04/11/2025 09:15

Does your DD have an EHCP? This is a crucial question. If she does, then it may be possible to get some post-18 courses funded. However, given that she's shown she's capable of level 3 study, the LA may try and cease to maintain. You will need to show that there are elements of Section E 'outcomes' that have not been achieved yet.

I am in a similar position and spoke to Ipsea (a charity that offers free advice for SEN families). They said that even if a DC with an EHCP is capable of level 3 qualifications, you may be able to argue that post 6th form, they would benefit from attending a college/education setting to do a course that worked on more practical skills which focuses on their independence/work skills. With an EHCP, the LA could fund - and possibly even provide transport (but probably not without a battle). An important point to note is that with an EHCP, it will be ceased if a young person moves on to university - in which case they apply for a disabled student allowance.

If your DD doesn't have an EHCP then it becomes harder in terms of funding post 18. However, she may qualify for some funding depending on her financial circumstance.

What does your DD want to do? What are her level 3 qualifications in?

Have you looked at what post 18 college options are available in your area and spoken to anyone yet? In terms of SEN support, they vary massively.

Is your DD in receipt of PIP? If so, I'm assuming you know about carer's allowance? When she leaves school, she could apply for other benefits which in turn could help with entitlement to course funding.

I've just had a quick look at the rules around Child Benefit post-18 which are here. It seems that she may still qualify up until 20 if certain conditions are met:

https://www.gov.uk/child-benefit-16-19

No she doesn’t have a ehcp the previous school just did a safety plan , which has been passed onto the new school sixth form she started September they are still chasing her files.
should I ask if she needs a ehcp? She’s under SEN and the new school have been a lot better for support etc than the previous school. She really lacks social skills etc and struggles a lot. I was hoping for a college setting but unsure what courses qualify . Yes we’ve only recently applied for pip as that’s from 16 waiting to hear back regarding that.
I haven’t spoke to anyone yet I’m thinking of requesting a meeting with the school to discuss all of this . There is one local college I could go and talk to.

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Toomanyminifigs · 04/11/2025 09:15

Does your DD have an EHCP? This is a crucial question. If she does, then it may be possible to get some post-18 courses funded. However, given that she's shown she's capable of level 3 study, the LA may try and cease to maintain. You will need to show that there are elements of Section E 'outcomes' that have not been achieved yet.

I am in a similar position and spoke to Ipsea (a charity that offers free advice for SEN families). They said that even if a DC with an EHCP is capable of level 3 qualifications, you may be able to argue that post 6th form, they would benefit from attending a college/education setting to do a course that worked on more practical skills which focuses on their independence/work skills. With an EHCP, the LA could fund - and possibly even provide transport (but probably not without a battle). An important point to note is that with an EHCP, it will be ceased if a young person moves on to university - in which case they apply for a disabled student allowance.

If your DD doesn't have an EHCP then it becomes harder in terms of funding post 18. However, she may qualify for some funding depending on her financial circumstance.

What does your DD want to do? What are her level 3 qualifications in?

Have you looked at what post 18 college options are available in your area and spoken to anyone yet? In terms of SEN support, they vary massively.

Is your DD in receipt of PIP? If so, I'm assuming you know about carer's allowance? When she leaves school, she could apply for other benefits which in turn could help with entitlement to course funding.

I've just had a quick look at the rules around Child Benefit post-18 which are here. It seems that she may still qualify up until 20 if certain conditions are met:

https://www.gov.uk/child-benefit-16-19

DancefloorAcrobatics · 04/11/2025 08:14

Could she attend a local university?

TeenToTwenties · 04/11/2025 07:11

I think you need to expect the CB to stop once she has completed her Level 3 qualifications. If it doesn't stop that is a bonus.

Does she have an EHCP? If so have you heard of Supported Internships which is support into work. There is a thread on this board about them.

whatohwhattodo · 04/11/2025 06:02

Is commenting to uni an option - it’s unclear whether it’s the living away she couldn’t cope with or the learning?

Bleakmidwinter900 · 04/11/2025 05:58

Linenpickle · 04/11/2025 05:50

You don’t know what your child is studying…??!!

Yes of course I know what she studying , I simply said I think the other two are btec as I’m tired and we’ve just come out of hospital so other things going on so had to double check , but I want advice on her future options thank you .

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Linenpickle · 04/11/2025 05:50

You don’t know what your child is studying…??!!

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