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BTECnewbie · 14/08/2025 19:34

Hello all. My DS will hopefully be starting a level 3 extended diploma in September (assuming he gets the grades). I know very little about BTECs having come through the A level route myself. So I’d love to have a support thread for parents of kids taking vocational qualifications this year.

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swampwitch0 · 30/08/2025 13:42

BTECnewbie · 30/08/2025 13:21

There’s a bit of snobbery in our area around doing a BTEC at college vs staying at school to do A levels. DS isn’t bothered though as he knows it will be better in the long run to get a decent grade in his BTEC than struggle to get mediocre A levels that will probably lead nowhere.

I wonder if there's a bit of that...
Dd's grades are very good and the majority of her friends with similar grades are doing A levels.
It's just not for her.

BTECnewbie · 30/08/2025 13:21

There’s a bit of snobbery in our area around doing a BTEC at college vs staying at school to do A levels. DS isn’t bothered though as he knows it will be better in the long run to get a decent grade in his BTEC than struggle to get mediocre A levels that will probably lead nowhere.

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swampwitch0 · 30/08/2025 13:02

Sisublondie · 30/08/2025 12:20

@swampwitch0

Ahhhh, no, I’m so sorry, that is not what you need right now. I think what you said to DD is perfect. It does sound like they have no personal knowledge of DD new college….
Do you think there may be a teeny bit of jealousy involved? Not in a mean way, but envy that your DD is going to the huge campus in the big city, and perhaps they don’t have either the courage, motivation or drive to even consider going? DC have a horrible way of laying negative thoughts…..

I really hope your 🧘‍♀️ is working……🤞🙏🤞……x

I was very careful to say "I'm sure those comments come from a kind and concerned place..." 🙄😡
But, yeah.
Not jealousy I don't think, just very, very different kids and differing world views.
Two of the girls are very "young" for their age, very religious and I just cannot see them in such an environment.
The other girl is struggling to find her place in the post 16 landscape...she's now nearly 19 and has "left" 4 x post 16 provisions and courses 😕
She was thrown off a course at dds college (Health and social care I think?..) for just not turning up or doing the work 🤷‍♀️
She has very strong views about the college due to this!

Sisublondie · 30/08/2025 12:20

@swampwitch0

Ahhhh, no, I’m so sorry, that is not what you need right now. I think what you said to DD is perfect. It does sound like they have no personal knowledge of DD new college….
Do you think there may be a teeny bit of jealousy involved? Not in a mean way, but envy that your DD is going to the huge campus in the big city, and perhaps they don’t have either the courage, motivation or drive to even consider going? DC have a horrible way of laying negative thoughts…..

I really hope your 🧘‍♀️ is working……🤞🙏🤞……x

swampwitch0 · 30/08/2025 12:14

Dd doesn't have a uniform. This has pleased her greatly.

Sisublondie · 30/08/2025 12:12

sashh · 29/08/2025 11:32

I've not taught on it but having some students in my class.

Usually they have a uniform.

They also have to call staff 'Sir' and 'Ma'am'.

Just to dd to @Magpiecomplex the optional units are chosen by the school / college not the students.

Thank you! So, you teach BTec?, that’s really interesting! Sonething related to the public services course, I guess if you have those students in your class?

Yes, DS has to wear “uniform” of hoodie, T-shirt and cargo trousers…. I mentioned to him about the “Sir/Ma’am”.. I think that’s better than a first name prospect. Fingers crossed for him, starts Monday.

🙏again!

swampwitch0 · 30/08/2025 12:08

Sadly, a couple of friends from dds hobby group have said quite negative things about where dd is going 🙄
I've had to remind her that

  1. They didn't look at her course or her building (huge campus in a big city..)
  2. They are not the kind of kids I'd imagine at an FE college (both lovely, but quite immature and very religious)
  3. The other one was thrown off their course (not dds course) for not turning up and not doing the work!..
Sigh. So thats thrown dd a bit. Also, the person she knows who is doing her course is doing different induction days to dd. I'm just trying to be zen 😬
swampwitch0 · 30/08/2025 12:04

Borka · 30/08/2025 11:28

DS doesn't start until next Friday. He's excited about the course and getting away from some school frenemies, but also anxious about going somewhere new. And also about the social side I think.

Ditto for dd

Borka · 30/08/2025 11:28

DS doesn't start until next Friday. He's excited about the course and getting away from some school frenemies, but also anxious about going somewhere new. And also about the social side I think.

BTECnewbie · 30/08/2025 10:29

How’s everyone feeling about next week? DS is excited but also quite nervous. Mainly about the social side as he is shy and has always found friendships a bit tricky. I think he’s hoping to find some like minded people on his course.

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sashh · 29/08/2025 11:32

Sisublondie · 28/08/2025 12:37

Just catching up, seem to have missed a lot since last night!

Need to read in full, but on skimming, looks like a huge 🙏 to those who have set out how we ( ND/SEN parent) and DC need to be on top of this from the start. I have no idea if DS knows this, but, given exams clearly were a stress I never want either of us to revisit…..🤷‍♀️🙀🙄🤯…

Does anyone have any experience of Level 3 Public Services ? DS chose it, he wants to go into policing.
I have tried to find any spec since @swampwitch0 kindly gave a heads up! Getting mixed with Uniformed and Protective Services spec at Pearson. Complicated by fact, that at enrolment the sign said “ Uniformed and P…. “SOMETHING”.. Services ( on a normal day, I’d have registered it, but was trying to keep it together for DS, so only remember a glimpse).

Anyway! Public Services.. does anyone have any experiences, please? I think I’ve googled all I can and panic is bubbling! Thanks in advance🤞🙏!

I've not taught on it but having some students in my class.

Usually they have a uniform.

They also have to call staff 'Sir' and 'Ma'am'.

Just to dd to @Magpiecomplex the optional units are chosen by the school / college not the students.

Magpiecomplex · 29/08/2025 08:27

People using ChatGPT to create a first six weeks plan, make sure you've told it what units are being studied, as BTECs have some optional units, and there is leeway in a two year course to decide which year you teach which units.

TeenToTwenties · 29/08/2025 06:04

At DD's agricultural college at the first day there were loads of people at the bus stop and carparks directing students where to go by course.

That's a good point. Very early on, and possible within the 2 induction days, those resitting maths had maths tests to see where they were at, so send them off with maths kit from the start.

Sisublondie · 28/08/2025 22:48

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 22:32

@SuperTrooper1111
Dd says the maths hod has phoned her friend - not sure what that means wrt remark...

🤞it’s good news it’s gone up!

Sisublondie · 28/08/2025 22:46

@swampwitch0
@dinnermoneyready

apologies! The last sentence is for @swampwitch0! I tried to corrrct it, but typing with my left hand I was unsuccessful 🤯.., sorry!!

@OhCrumbsWhereNow…” upside down reading!” 😹 .. that’s so me! Otherwise, find out zero! I’m panicking as got no details, or confirmation which I find out. His, too, starts with induction Monday 1st, then 8th “ proper” start.
I know what you mean by it’s gone on sooooo long. But. I have to admit, I’m kind of dreading next week- nerves for DS, and on Friday DS18 heads up to Edinburgh for his first year at Uni. Which is great, obviously, but makes me so tearful and sad at the thought. The house is going to be horribly quiet without him here, and without having to wait up for 2am pick ups from town….🙄😹

Sisublondie · 28/08/2025 22:38

Just checked and DS said not heard from college, other than email saying he hadn’t filled out a bus pass form. Which he did, at the same time I paid £200 odd for it ( so, that doesn’t fill me with hope).

I just don’t want him turning up at the huge building he enrolled in at 9.30am on Monday and going 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️…where the hell am I supposed to be??

@swampwitch0, eek, thst 1 mark off is nasty. I hope she gets it remarked. DS is 1 mark off in Combined science too.

@dinnermoneyready Well done on enrolling! Yes, DS is similar, 9 marks off with a Grade 3 in English, so having to resist ( unless the remark brings a miracle! 🤷‍♀️😹),
Hope DD work goes well tomorrow. Dry run will be exciting! ( flutter as to whether she goes with older DD🤷‍♀️..,, DS would pick that option, every time!).

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 22:32

@SuperTrooper1111
Dd says the maths hod has phoned her friend - not sure what that means wrt remark...

Lndnmummy · 28/08/2025 22:32

caringcarer · 27/08/2025 01:42

My foster son has just completed this course. He got DDM. His cricket improved a lot as well as had county coaches coaching him. He's off in September to study an Integrated Masters on Sports Coaching (Cricket) and Management at Worcester Uni. It's a 4 year course and you get to study in Australia, New Zealand or Shi Lanka in third year. The BTEC taught him time discipline in submitting assignments to deadlines set, great independent research skills, referencing, and he had to do an independent project using research and statistics and write it up as a dissertation. It gave him lots of confidence, he had fun doing it and loved going into college each day, he made new friends and he matured over the 2 years. He did his course at Edgbaston.

This moved me to tears. What an absolute joy! Rooting for your boy. ❤️

SuperTrooper1111 · 28/08/2025 22:19

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 20:35

I know..I'm gutted for her

She should ask for a regrade.

TheFunSponge · 28/08/2025 20:45

1 mark away? That's a shame but very promising for November.

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 20:35

TeenToTwenties · 28/08/2025 20:34

1 mark away! Heartbreaking.

I know..I'm gutted for her

TeenToTwenties · 28/08/2025 20:34

1 mark away! Heartbreaking.

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 20:28

One of dds friends missed a 4 in maths by 1 mark 😔
She's distraught.
I pointed out to dd that, at 1 mark away, its very likely she will pass in November.

dinnermoneyready · 28/08/2025 20:27

Mine enrolled today on Level 3 Health and Social Care - slight moment of worry as she has grade 3 maths, but they were happy to enrol at level 3 with a resit alongside.

swampwitch0 · 28/08/2025 20:25

I think dd applied, got an offer and was accepted, all on the same day, all done online.
I think she feels its dragging now...
The wait, then elation on results day...it's like she's slumped a bit.
She's at work tomorrow which will keep her busy.
Dry run on public transport planned for monday...

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