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A level results day 2021 support thread

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Mrs08 · 31/07/2021 15:46

Hi 👋
I thought it might be nice to have a support thread for us parents? (Can't see one in further Ed yet??)
It's been such a difficult time for our kids - and for us! - but the end is in sight!
Ds will get an e mail at 8.30am (apparently) and can go into college in person if he needs help/advice.
Good luck everyone!
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nancypineapple · 11/08/2021 09:16

Morning all,how are we all feeling today? thankyou to the posters who have defended our yr 13's! Yes there have been more top marks given out this year however maybe this is a positive way of working going forward? Assessment over the 2 years rather than it all resting on 2 exams at the end? I just want to say a massive thankyou to each and every teacher who has been involved with the utter shit show of the past couple of years also.

NotSorry · 11/08/2021 09:14

@cptartapp

that was me, two years ago

good luck to your DC

cptartapp · 11/08/2021 09:03

Yes. Doing it all again tomorrow!

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 11/08/2021 08:43

@igelkott2021

All the best to you with offspring receiving GCSE results tomorrow Wine
Oh goodness yes

🤞

igelkott2021 · 11/08/2021 08:20

All the best to you with offspring receiving GCSE results tomorrow Wine

igelkott2021 · 11/08/2021 08:19

My son got a mix of 7s and 8s in his GCSEs and had AAA as his target grades based on that. He got A*AB so equivalent (though some universities don't accept dropped grades - he was lucky his offer was AAB not AAA).

So I think he got what he should have done. He is a bit of a "coaster" but continual assessment put paid to that and he actually had to work harder than he would have done if he could have crammed for exams. I am not sure I would have done so well in this system, I am better at exams.

I also know someone who did miss his grades (from a private school so they didn't just get given everything they needed) - and is now going to his insurance. The grades were not just handed out.

NotSorry · 11/08/2021 07:39

@Bryonyshcmyony

Brew
Bryonyshcmyony · 11/08/2021 07:03

Ha ha I don't think I've ever had so many posts deleted before [proud]

Worth it to stick up for our amazing teens all working so hard through this fucking awful 18 months. Here's to them raises coffee mug

EwwSprouts · 10/08/2021 22:43

@NellietheNumpty Brilliant result. Hope you've had a lovely celebration.

Dobbyisahouseelf · 10/08/2021 21:21

I'm not sure of the exact number of assessments under exam conditions my DD has had but there has been a lot since September, so I fully agree with @Artdecolover

I would happily join you in having a peach bellini but sadly I'm on taxi duty for my celebrating teenager!

Thanks to all the lovely comments on this thread.

LIZS · 10/08/2021 21:11

@user1471428785 unfortunately dd knows noone in School of Art, even though she did one music course last year, so can't comment. Which halls is she hoping for?

Artdecolover · 10/08/2021 21:06

Oh! Not counting the 2 lots of coursework either!

It's been a long day 😴

I hope you've all found this support thread helpful and good luck to all in their future path x

user1471428785 · 10/08/2021 21:05

@LIZS she’s arty so going to study costume design at Edinburgh school of art. Not sure if you know what their communication is like.

dollybird · 10/08/2021 21:00

@Viciouslybashed

It's like people cannot stand some people to have good news. It also makes me worry for the poor kids who have not got what they hoped for. It must make them feel awful if they are being fed the line that all grades have been inflated.
This ^
Artdecolover · 10/08/2021 20:58

Well.

This has escalated 😳

My ds has done 56 assessments under exam conditions since October, instead of 6 exams in May/June.

That is not ^ a typo. 56 assessments under exam conditions.

All of this ^ during the worst disruption to education since WW2.

So I consider his grades very well deserved fwiw.

I'm having a peach bellini 🍸 cheers all!! X

Bryonyshcmyony · 10/08/2021 20:56

@EmbarrassingMama

I haven’t said anyone doesn’t deserve anything?! If anything, I think it goes to show that our exam culture is probably bollocks and our children are clearly given the opportunity to do their absolute best when observed over a period of time; not when given 3 hours to demonstrate their intelligence in a school hall on a particular day.

I’m delighted for all the kids who have done well and, for those who didn’t get the grades they were hoping for, hope that clearing gets them something equally as enjoyable if not their first choice.

My last apology was a genuine one - I really didn’t intend to upset anyone with my clumsy wording.

Yeah right

OK apology accepted

Off you go

EmbarrassingMama · 10/08/2021 20:54

I haven’t said anyone doesn’t deserve anything?! If anything, I think it goes to show that our exam culture is probably bollocks and our children are clearly given the opportunity to do their absolute best when observed over a period of time; not when given 3 hours to demonstrate their intelligence in a school hall on a particular day.

I’m delighted for all the kids who have done well and, for those who didn’t get the grades they were hoping for, hope that clearing gets them something equally as enjoyable if not their first choice.

My last apology was a genuine one - I really didn’t intend to upset anyone with my clumsy wording.

Bryonyshcmyony · 10/08/2021 20:52

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LilyMumsnet · 10/08/2021 20:50

Hi all

Can we draw a line under this now, and have a bit of peace and love please?

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 10/08/2021 20:50

That was an apology?

‘Sorry you were offended’ isnt an apology

Bryonyshcmyony · 10/08/2021 20:46

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SycamoreGap · 10/08/2021 20:46

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EmbarrassingMama · 10/08/2021 20:39

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stoneysongs · 10/08/2021 20:38

Crikey, didn't realise how many people have clearly had a very emotional day.

Crikey, I knew perfectly well that my comment was dickish at best and very likely to upset people who have spent the last 18 months trying to support their DC through the toughest time of their lives, not to mention those who have spent the day consoling devastated DC who missed their offer conditions. And I didn't give a shit and said it anyway.

There you go.
"Embarrassing" is right.

NotSorry · 10/08/2021 20:35

The clue was in the title @EmbarrassingMama

“Support thread”

In 15 years time perhaps you’ll be able to reflect on why PPs are pissed off with your comments

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