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A level results day 2021 support thread

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Mrs08 · 31/07/2021 15:46

Hi 👋
I thought it might be nice to have a support thread for us parents? (Can't see one in further Ed yet??)
It's been such a difficult time for our kids - and for us! - but the end is in sight!
Ds will get an e mail at 8.30am (apparently) and can go into college in person if he needs help/advice.
Good luck everyone!
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LIZS · 10/08/2021 17:43

I have no clue. Her courses required auditions and I suppose as she didn't attend she wouldn't have had an offer. She is refusing to get her results from school and is apparently not opening them when they arrive.

Some performing arts courses have a later deadline or are not through UCAS. However it sounds as of there might be more going pn. Is there a member of staff for Wellbeing available or a favourite drama/music teacher who could support her?

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 10/08/2021 17:38

Are you seriously on a support thread having a pop at childrens exams results

What is actually wrong with you

EmbarrassingMama · 10/08/2021 17:37

@OnTheBenchOfDoom oh, and usually they do..?

I take it back. It was clearly harder to succeed this year.

A level results day 2021 support thread
SunShinesBrightly · 10/08/2021 17:19

@EmbarrassingMama

Sounds like they were giving away the grades this year!
‘They’ most definitely didn’t give anything away.
cptartapp · 10/08/2021 17:16

Most students were actually tested more than usual between Jan- June, not less. And their grades based on a standard of work produced from most of their courses over the two years (in DS case certainly) being taught remotely. Even this only began with any regularity from year 13.
One wonders how even much better the worst affected students would have done under 'normal' circumstances.

IDidntFloatUpTheLaganInABubble · 10/08/2021 17:16

@EmbarrassingMama Biscuit

OnTheBenchOfDoom · 10/08/2021 17:11

@EmbarrassingMama

Sounds like they were giving away the grades this year!
How can you read this thread and say that? Not everyone got the grades they were predicted or wanted, not everyone got their firm choice uni, some are going through clearing.
RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 10/08/2021 17:04

@EmbarrassingMama

Sounds like they were giving away the grades this year!
Yeah?

Well they werent

SunshineCake · 10/08/2021 17:04

@EmbarrassingMama

Sounds like they were giving away the grades this year!
Sounds like someone has swallowed a lemon
TheWitchCirce · 10/08/2021 17:00

@EmbarrassingMama

Sounds like they were giving away the grades this year!
My DS got straight 9s at GCSE in a non pandemic so not surprised that he got 4 A today. Your thoughtless comment takes no account of how hard won this year's grades were. How much resilience and independent work went into getting those grades. He wasn't given* a thing.
AdditionalCharacter · 10/08/2021 16:55

DS a bit disheartened at his results. He got BBB and still got into his firm choice, but he feels robbed as his predicted grades were A*AB. His teachers were (probably wrongly) telling everyone their percentages right up to their last mini exam which they never got the results for, and based on last years grades, should have got those.

A lot of his friends didn't get the grades they were predicted to get from what the teachers said, some even not getting university places, so he knows how lucky he has been.

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shewalkslikerihanna · 10/08/2021 16:46

Grandson going to Edinburgh
Will always wonder if grades could’ve been bettered in a normal year but it doesn’t matter
He pulled the rabbit out of the hat

Dobbyisahouseelf · 10/08/2021 16:41

My DD is very happy with her results and is off to Exeter.

vjg13 · 10/08/2021 16:28

My daughter did better than hoped and has got her first choice NTU, absolutely delighted for her Smile. Out clubbing tonight!

Artdecolover · 10/08/2021 16:18

Ds is delighted with his 3 x As (the geography is a surprise but he did get A for his NEA) but I do feel his history grade was moderated and marked down...he was on track for A
Not that it matters
Out for dinner later
It's been a loooong day!

PizzaCrust · 10/08/2021 16:00

@MauveMagnolia

Or someone with 30 years of assessment expertise at a national and international level- take your pick

It makes little difference to me how much experience you have. The fact of the matter is a teacher should not have told emotional parents/pupils a completely unnecessary detail which causes nothing but distress.

Does knowing how close they were and that the teacher decided in the end not to reward the higher mark

  • change the outcome of the results? No.
  • make the pupil/parents feel better about the disappointment of missing out on a uni place? No.
  • make the process of finding/accepting another offer any easier? No.
  • needlessly cause upset to parent/pupil at a time where emotions are high? Yes.

It’s unprofessional and utterly needless. You can have all the years experience you want but you’re clearly lacking something in the emotional awareness department if you think what that teacher did was acceptable. In common terms, it’s the definition of “kicking someone when they’re down”.

Wouldn’t be for me, that’s for sure.

ElvisPresleyHadABaby · 10/08/2021 15:56

@crossstitchingnana Is there anyone at the school you can talk to? Does she have a favourite teacher or member of staff she might talk to? Sounds very stressful but important to sus out her options as it seems like something has gone very wrong.

crossstitchingnana · 10/08/2021 15:50

[quote LIZS]@crossstitchingnana sounds lime her application was not submitted then. She had to input her ps and academic record, choose the courses to apply for then get a reference added by her school/college then submit it. From the outset she woukd have had reference numbers so she should now be able to log in and see what has happened. If her course is still in Clearing it may still be possible to find a place but she needs to act fast. Did her school/college not support her through this or she think it odd she had no offers? [/quote]
I have no clue. Her courses required auditions and I suppose as she didn't attend she wouldn't have had an offer. She is refusing to get her results from school and is apparently not opening them when they arrive.

kittykitty · 10/08/2021 15:20

I agree the whole mess has been awful for teachers and very unfair. They can't do right for doing wrong. But I don't think @kittykitty was suggesting there was anything wrong with the process, or even the grade, but that it was completely unnecessary for the teacher to say what they did. Just makes a bad situation worse when you are trying to support a devastated DC.

@singingstones - 100% this. I know the last two years have been horrendous for teachers as well as pupils. I'm not in any way challenging the marking and we certainly won't be appealing. It was just such a thoughtless comment and that's what upset dd so much.

ablutiions · 10/08/2021 15:12

Anyone else still waiting for ucas track to update?

Lurcherloves · 10/08/2021 15:09

My DS got A in computer science, C in maths and D in further maths. It is his further maths I am most proud of as he found it a struggle and persevered. He got into the uni he wanted to study computer science

SunshineCake · 10/08/2021 15:06

My dc stayed up all night then fell asleep and missed the email coming in ShockGrin. They did brilliant and they are going to the uni they wanted. Very proud and relieved. Now just GCSEs to wait on..

BuffyFanForever · 10/08/2021 15:01

They’ll love Bangor. 😊

stoneysongs · 10/08/2021 14:55

*You are right.

It was probably an ill timed comment meant to make her feel better- not worse.

It was a very difficult time for teachers. They were working round the clock to get the A level and GCSE Grades in. They certainly were not picking numbers off the shelf. Borderline would have moderated internally but also externally within the Trust or local schools.

Letting teachers take the blame by calling them TAGs is very unfair.*

I agree the whole mess has been awful for teachers and very unfair. They can't do right for doing wrong. But I don't think @kittykitty was suggesting there was anything wrong with the process, or even the grade, but that it was completely unnecessary for the teacher to say what they did. Just makes a bad situation worse when you are trying to support a devastated DC.