sticker DS read your comment about the 2020 cohort and rolled his eyes 
How could anyone know better than him?! I thought it was interesting and something to consider.
We have a meet-the-tutor tonight, DS not included. He specifically instructed me not to embarrass him! You'd have thought he'd be immune by now...
Sorry limit to hear of the anguish, fingers crossed you can find a sympathetic person at school to discuss it with?
I'm having dinner on my own in town having dashed from work in vile traffic to meet DS at Apple store to exchange a faulty thing (they needed an over-18 present!). He's gone home for dinner leaving me to a beer and burger and MN 