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New Batch of Year 13 parents this way!

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OhYouBadBadKitten · 19/08/2017 07:40

Hopefully this thread will appear on TIO! Grin No need to use it til our old thread is done, but at least we have it for when we are ready.

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MsAwesomeDragon · 25/10/2017 00:00

Congratulations doi

TheDrsDocMartens · 24/10/2017 23:54

yay!

doistayordoigo · 24/10/2017 23:44

DS has received his first offer...from his first choice Grin So relieved!

TheSecondOfHerName · 24/10/2017 18:50

DS1 worked a full day (9-5) at his part-time job (tea shop). He has only ever done half days before, so a couple of his friends turned up in the afternoon to buy tea & cake and give him some moral support.

Personal statement not yet started.

Icouldbeknitting · 24/10/2017 18:34

I stopped in bed until it was light yesterday, I managed it this morning and I'm planning on repeating it again tomorrow.

Ursula, I think that starting is the hardest part. Once they've got something down they can add to it, edit it and tweak it - they have something to work with.

UrsulaPandress · 24/10/2017 16:37

Dd has produced her first draft PS today and sent it to her tutor.

Relief all round.

voilets · 24/10/2017 16:32

We are away in Europe for a few days - planned especially so DD takes 3 and a half days break. We have BF with us. She felt nervous about leaving the work. New tasks set by teachers so oxbridge group have something fresh - if that goes to plan. My DD also has other school responsibilities.to be honest I'm scared of stress to come and just try to reassure.
Hope mums are having a little break too! Wink

OhYouBadBadKitten · 24/10/2017 13:43

That sounds like a really good idea LDR.

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Littledrummergirl · 24/10/2017 12:54

Ursula that sounds amazing. I'm definitely not bored or envious! Wink

Oybbk- I've taken some time off this week and the dc were told we are having family time. Yesterday we played monopoly and game of life, today so far has been cards and yahtzee. Ds1 &2 have now taken themselves off to watch Thor- I think to escape. Grin
This seems to have given him space to relax a little and put the work to one side.
Tomorrow they can all start back with the schoolwork.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 24/10/2017 10:26

Not boring! That sounds so cool! I’d love to see a porcupine. The cheetah chase sounds amazing.

She really needs a break but I know if I try and enforce one it will just end in meltdown. It’s a consequence of the extra stuff she’s signed up to do. I did warn her....

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UrsulaPandress · 24/10/2017 09:59

Sorry your dd is struggling. Can't she take a break?

UrsulaPandress · 24/10/2017 09:55

Porcupines! I saw 3 porcupines!!!

More Lion than you could shake a stick, hyena cubs running all over the place, Elephants round every corner plus 3 swimming in a dam, 9 Rhino but those sightings cannot be reported due to poaching Sad Angry. Only dd big 5d as she saw a leopard deep in the bush whilst I was driving.

Oh and a cheetah chasing wildebeest who then turned the tables and chased it up a tree.

Oh and a young elephant playing with a stick, then spitting into its trunk and squirting itself to cool down.

Am I boring you yet Grin ?

OhYouBadBadKitten · 24/10/2017 09:40

How amazing was Kruger Ursula? What did you see?

Congrats MrsAD you successfully raised an adult!

dd isn’t managing to have much of a half term so far, she worked ridiculously hard yesterday on her EPQ and some maths that she had to do. Tired to the point of teariness. She’s normally pretty robust but she seems really run down Sad I really hope she manages to get a break this week, next term looks quite scary in terms of high stress.

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UrsulaPandress · 24/10/2017 08:40

I'm still here, just more urban.

I keep forgetting that dd is an 'adult'. Doesn't seem right somehow.

She has just washed the hire car to free it from the Kruger Park dust. Any excuse to not get down to her personal statement.

MsAwesomeDragon · 24/10/2017 08:33

I hope you had a lovely holiday Ursula. My tio is empty too, but mine is not due to an amazing foreign holiday :(

Dd is now officially an adult. We've had a lovely couple of days in London celebrating her birthday. Now she's 18 I'm finished with parenting right? I've successfully raised a child to adulthood without messing up too badly so now it's all on her. Wink

UrsulaPandress · 24/10/2017 07:14

Place marking as no threads in my TIO as hadn't posted whilst in the Kruger. shows off

OhYouBadBadKitten · 22/10/2017 21:31

I think dd is going to have to get over her aversion to paperwork. A chance comment made me realise that she wasn’t keeping up with the requests for info from unis. We had a sharp conversation and I am feeling argh!

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Icouldbeknitting · 22/10/2017 20:45

I get DS to check the equivalent of track (it's not a uni application) on Wednesday and Sunday. He's happy to wait for an email but I know what he's like for checking email and he would sit and wait forever for the email that was in the spam trap. His courses interview so it's the dates I'm after.

Littledrummergirl · 22/10/2017 20:13

I hope you get away catslife.
Ds1 has now completed everything he needs for most of his choices he's now waiting to hear if he's going to get an interview. Is anyone else harassing their dc to see what's happening or is that just me. Blush I'm realising I have a slight control streak in me and am really struggling to sit back and let him get on with it. Fortunately he feels able to tell me to back off when he needs space! Wink

starfleet · 22/10/2017 12:20

Sorry for the bold 🔽 fat fingers and tiny keyboard on phone!

starfleet · 22/10/2017 12:18

OYBBK DS hadn’t even thought of applying there initially.** It was only when he thought that maybe he should look at some that didn’t ask for super high grades as alternative options. It is a really lovely university, smaller than I expected. The course tutors and in particular the admissions tutor for the subject were extremely helpful and spent quite a lot of time talking to us.

Cats - it took 8 weeks for me to get my car back - the garage had to wait for a forensics bod from the insurance company to look at it as there was no forced sign of entry. I got rid of it when it came back - I didn’t feel comfortable in it which I know sounds stupid as it’s only a hunk of metal!

catslife · 22/10/2017 10:43

The situation you have described could be it starfleet. Someone has defo been in car, glove box etc all emptied and scattered all over car - nothing seems to have been stolen though. RAC have been and taken car to garage. One of the faults found is with the doors - what we don't know is if the fault was already there and the potential thieves took advantage or the other way round iyswim.
ddog barks very loudly if voices and car doors close to house so could have scared them away if early evening.
We would be able to manage to get away in second car for part of the holiday, but ddog was sick on last journey in this vehicle, so hope they can fix main car in time!

OhYouBadBadKitten · 22/10/2017 10:14

That’s really rotten catslife, I hope you do get away.

It sounds like a really useful day StarFleet. It’s funny how visiting makes them seem very different from how they are on paper.

dd has just started half term. It’s going to be a mix of catching up on sleep and recovering from her second cough/cold of the half term and practising for MAT and doing her EPQ. In some ways it would be really good to get away for a few days, but I think she just needs time to chill.

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starfleet · 21/10/2017 20:47

That’s a bit rubbish Catslife. Sorry to hear that. Mine was broken into around this time last year whilst parked outside the house. Couldn’t understand how as nothing damaged on the outside but police think they used signal blockers to stop the doors locking. Hope you get things sorted and do manage to get away.

We are one week down of half term. DS has been quite motivated and has done “some” work. We’ve spent a couple of days together (a very rare occurrence) pottering around our city visiting places we don’t usually have time to and today was spent at Leicester Uni open day - he is now having a re-think about which ones he is going to apply to as this one impressed him course wise.

Icouldbeknitting · 21/10/2017 16:15

I am sorry ^catslife*, I hope that it's not been broken into because I know too well what it feels like to think that someone has been rummaging though what is a personal space. I hope you get it sorted and manage to get away.

DS has a three day residential course this week, he's back to college for two days and then it is half term. Over two of those days he would have had three single lessons so I'm pretty sure he will be working harder while he's away than he would have been at college. I'm planning on three mornings in bed (until at least 7am) and we'll be taking the opportunity to eat the things that DS doesn't like.